Do you feel a real connection with your partner?

Sometimes I notice we are thinking the same things. I guess it is a connection. I'm not sure about that. It will sometimes be a little bit freaky. I think that it will indicate a connection of some sort. I guess that we will sometimes do and think the same things. It is alittle bit feaky.

My husband and I have been married for the past 14 years (and together 17). We do this as well. It's probably just coincidence, but it could be a connection as well. Who knows?

Yes, we've been together for 13 years, 4 of them married. Sometimes, we do not even need to talk at each other. Just one look and we start laughing. We love love love to do so many things together. We love going out and just hanging out, we love to eat and we love doing stuff together. I believe he is my soul mate.

I and my husband were just new because we are married for just half a year. But even before we were friends, the magical bond is already with us. There are a lot of times when we are thinking the same thing and about to say the say thing. We even feel something we never reveal to each other but when one was revealed accidentally then one will say that we felt the thing before it happened. Now that we are married, the connection became stronger. Even in chat, in asking questions, in thinking what we are going to eat, many times we have noticed that we are of the same thinking. Just like you it gave me goosebumps not because I am afraid but because I can't believe that what I thought were only coincidences can happen a LOT of times! And my husband also says he has goosebumps. I think since we really love each other, we don't just look at each others eyes but we think the same and we look on the same direction. That is guess is more powerful because it only shows that you are honest to your partner and your love is so tight. And I consider that as a blessing and a good heart and mind exercise for both of us. I am sure that will add to our love's foundation so that we will be together forever.

Me and hubby will be celebrating our 5th wedding anniversary this April but we have been together (as bf/gf) for 12 years so that's a total of 17 years together. There are times when he will go on a business trip, and just when I am about to send him a text message or call him up, I would be receiving a call or message from him. Somehow it feels like we are connected.

I think that marriage and relationships are a wonderful thing. I have been married for about 10 years now and each day it seems that I learn something new about my partner. I have the same connection that you seem to have with you mate, and it is surely the connection that the two of you have developed. As you continue to learn more and more about each other, you will see more and more instances like the ones that you mentioned.

My husband and I have been married for 36 years and I do feel a real connection to him. He knows what I am thinking before I even say a word. When I get irritated he can tell me exactly what I am irritated about. He always knows what kind of mood I am in before I even say a word. It is the same with me when it comes to him. Whenever I look at a picture of him it always makes me feel all warm inside and I always smile. I met and married him in Turkey. We both were in the service. I believe that sometimes things are meant to be. We both were stationed on the same base. The funny thing about it is he wasn't even supposed to be stationed on the base. He was supposed to be stationed at another base in Turkey and it ended up where they changed his orders and sent him to the base I was stationed at. I think it was a connection for us and it was designed by a higher power.

My wife and I have been married for 22 1/2 years now and been together for 28 years. We will occaisionally complete each other's thoughts or sentences. We also will choose the same restraunt when we go out to eat half of the time, the other half we will choose the same cuisine. She is my best friend, companion, lover, and wife. We enjoy doing lots of activities together, but then again, we are just as comfortable being independent of each other - we spend quite some time at home in separate rooms doing our own thing. I guess this is what is best about being married to your best friend. We want each other in our lives, and also secure enough to be apart when life demands it. At first it is wierd, but as time goes on, it definitely gives me a warm fuzzy feelings to know that the connection is so good.

My husband and I will be married for 10 years this coming June, and have been together 12 years this coming June. Yes, it is so strange that we quite often are thinking or saying the same things at the same time. If we are watching TV and make a comment it is always on the same subject. Seems like our thoughts are the same. He will say something or I will say something, and we will same, I was just thinking about the same thing. A lot of times, I will say do you want so and so, and he will say, "get out of my head, I was just thinking about that" As they say GMTA, ( great minds think alike)

I am not married yet but I have a boyfriend who I have known for almost four years. Sometimes I feel I have that kind of feeling like what you have mentioned in this post. I think it's the connection between both of you. I have experienced this before. Sometimes when I want to say something or want to get something,my boyfriend will say out for me or do for me without my words. This is understanding perhaps. When we stay long with a person,I am sure there is connection between the two people. There is no doubts. I think if a couple does not have this kind of connection,the relationship would not last long for the whole life. Agree? Lol.

Hello cmauthe1! Compared to you, my husband I just got married last year. But our love to each other never fade. It's stronger everyday. My husband and I do talk about our connection because it seems like we think the same. I also know when he is already mad and when he is bothered of something and he also knew if I'm mad or if something's on my mind..hehehe..

My husband and I do that often! We laugh every time we do so. I think it's something of connection but also something of just being around someone for so long that you begin to mimic each other. Not that you don't have your own thoughts but that you truly do become "one", so to speak. I have to say I enjoy our connection and love that we're on the same "wave" so to speak. Namaste-Anora

you are very lucky. it is very difficult to find the right one.I am married w/ my husband for 5 years it seems like we been married for very long time.its a amazing how I felt the way.He is a wonderfull and caring husband,I so lucky.

I absolutely believe i have that connection with my husband. We have been together for 9 years & married for 2. He knows everything about me. Sometimes i swear we can read each others minds because we know what each other are thinking. Sometimes its creepy, but good to know that he pays attention to me & i do the same for him. I have that kind of connection with a couple of my friends. I guess it just goes to show they are good friends who think like me & pay attention to what i say & like. It's definatly a connection...not coincidence.