I wish I knew what to say....

Sometimes, you have to actually ask for forgiveness before you can be forgiven. Once you do, I am sure you will have plenty to say and I am almost positive that your friend Jill has a kind heart and will forgive you, but you must ask for forgiveness. Jill doesn't need you to find a job for her, but she does need your support. When she finally does find a job, support her and let her know how happy you are for her even if it is a part time job. And if you care....than just act like you care. Call her up, tell her you are thinking of her, invite her out for coffee or even to your house if she can't afford to go out for coffee, be there when she needs someone to talk to. And...just wondering, why isn't your mother consoling this family friend instead of you?