why do boys dont cry?
By mhayfie
@mhayfie (241)
Philippines
March 24, 2009 10:06pm CST
i wonder why these guys are branded not to cry
but infact i hink they have more problem than women...
why?
9 responses
@coldmoon (1088)
• France
25 Mar 09
I think that men also cry, they just don't cry in front of the others. They know well that tears can't be a manly way to solve problems. Women like the others to undergo them crying but don't want to see the others' tears. So it's helpless for men to cry.
@smooch091784 (973)
• Philippines
25 Mar 09
I try to be observant about guys for being emotional, and believe it or not, men get more pain than women do. That doesn't mean that guys don't cry because they don't care.. They really do, but being a man, it's not their nature of showing it. Maybe for some they do, but for most, they don't.. Sometimes it has to do with being masculine. Men are not comfortable showing emotions. They don't built that way. They are built to become tough. But crying doesn't mean showing weakness as for most think it is..
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
25 Mar 09
Hello mhayfie! For me, the reason why men don't cry in front of many people because we have this mentality that men are strong. They are trying to hide their feelings but deep inside, their hearts are crying. That's why mostly men have more heart failure than women..lol
@theluckyclover101 (70)
• United States
25 Mar 09
I think boys can control their emotions much better than girls. If they are upset, you wont easily know it since they vent out their feelings on other things. I , on rare instances, they also cry but they try to control it until they are away from the eyes of the public.
@PRIYANK1992 (1677)
• India
25 Mar 09
Yeah you are absolutely right.Boys are brave they have more problems than women but still they fight with them bravely and face them but not start crying like the foolish girls.