Do you think that Angelina was overreacting about Brad and the housekeeper?
By cream97
@cream97 (29087)
United States
March 25, 2009 7:45am CST
I read the story in Star magazine last week. And when Angelina walked in on Brad and the housekeeper, she thought that the scene was unappropriate. Brad was rubbing/massaging the maid's back. Angelina saw this and thought that it was totally unacceptable. She screamed and yelled at Brad. Brad stormed out of the house on his motorcycle. My personal opinion of this is that Angelina has every right to be concerned about her husband rubbing another woman in their home. I mean, as a doctor that is acceptable... Angelina was also very skeptical about letting the housekeeper work for them, because she was very young and beautiful. So, what do you think about this? Did Angelina jump to conclusions about Brad and the housekeeper? Before you answer this discussion, if you are a female, would you be calm or pissed about your husband doing this to the housekeeper in your home? What are your feelings towards this?
And what got me was the fact that after this was over with and the tension was cooled down some. Brad was spotted spending some time with the kids while Angelina was out on the movie scene getting ready for her new movie. So, it seems like he is a good father. I always thought that he was. Angelina and him seem like the perfect wife and husband to raise their kids the way that they do. Then the episode with the housekeeper, made things a bit edgy. Do you believe that Brad really loves his wife like he says that he do?
And what got me was the fact that after this was over with and the tension was cooled down some. Brad was spotted spending some time with the kids while Angelina was out on the movie scene getting ready for her new movie. So, it seems like he is a good father. I always thought that he was. Angelina and him seem like the perfect wife and husband to raise their kids the way that they do. Then the episode with the housekeeper, made things a bit edgy. Do you believe that Brad really loves his wife like he says that he do?9 people like this
29 responses
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
25 Mar 09
Often times than not, those stories in those types of magazines are untrue however, even if it were true, what did Angelina expect?! He cheated on Jennifer with her so why wouldn't he cheat on her with someone else? I liked Angelina and Brad up until he left Jennifer for Angelina. Now I can't stand the mere sight of them. So my feeling is this, what goes around, comes around!
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@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
26 Mar 09
I agree 100%. I enjoyed his movies and when I heard who he left his wife for, I've never looked the same at him. As for Angelina, she's just weird, always has been. She has the mantality of a man eater.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
25 Mar 09
i am sure they love each other.and of course its normal tha Angie gets jelous.and dont forget maybe Angie can´t control her feelings to get jelous because she is pregnant already.i feel the same,when i was pregnan just old pic of my husbands ex girl friend i did fight him like we almos separated because of the old pics.so somehow we need to understand the feelings of jelousy.yes thats clear that they are both inlove
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@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
26 Mar 09
Well, in a family like theirs where either one is gone for long periods on movie shots, I wouldn't suggest having a young hot maid or a buff hot pool boy around...the temptation would just be too great.
As to whether she over reacted...it's hard to say without being there. I'm sure I wouldn't have liked walking in and seeing my Hubby massaging anyone regardless of their looks. At the same time, I'm sure Jolie isn't an angel either.
Like any couple they have their problems and will most likely work them out.
[b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~
**STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]
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@snowy22315 (180855)
• United States
25 Mar 09
I dont know that has even happened. I guess that there are some people who want to believe the worst. I think that the Star is a rag, and I really wouldnt believe what was in there. If it is true, it is really not my business. I'm sure brad and angeline do love each other, but by the same token they have problems like everyone else. They really do.
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@tamarafireheart (15384)
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25 Mar 09
Hi cream97,
I don't care how good he is with the kids, so he should be he is their father, but he is a man, like all men cannot resist another young female and they should have a young female as a housekeeper in the first place, so why not a man house keeper eh? how would he like that and if the foot were on the other foot how would he react? they shuld get an older person to be a housekeeper, a motherley type, I'm on her side, like I said men are men.
Tamara
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@deejean06 (1952)
• United States
25 Mar 09
Hi cream...I usually follow the celebrity affairs however I do think that once a cheater always a cheater. Once you have cheated with someone how can you trust that they won't do it to you?
@feathers26 (865)
• Philippines
26 Mar 09
I think What angelina has done was quite normal,
when it would happen to me I would think the same
thing but not necessarily scream, but only talk to them.
I think that is their personal life.
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@Ithink (9980)
• United States
25 Mar 09
Truthfully if it was me I would be upset too, however since it isn't, and reading what I have about these two. I think whatever happens they would both deserve it. I guess she would be jealous and worried, after all he cheated on her with his first wife so why wouldn't he with someone else. However seeing that she knew he was married she is no better then he is. Anyways half the time what these mags report are not true and if this one is .. so be it.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
25 Mar 09
Hi cream,
I believed Brad loves Angelina and I don't think it's overreacting, I guess any wife will do the same once they will see that scene, it's always the normal reaction!
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
26 Mar 09
Hi cream dear! Well, if I ever catch my husband rubbing the maid's back, I will be pissed off big time. I guess, I will be thinking the same way Angelina will be thinking and probably act the way she did. However, I have to know the reasons why he did what he did and see if he is lying or what. I do think that Brad loves his wife but temptations are everywhere, especially when your husband is almost every woman's fantasy.
Take care and blessings to you.
lovelots..faith
@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
25 Mar 09
First of all, I wouldn't hire a maid that was younger than me, I'd make sure of that..haha. I don't know if she overreacted or not, it depends on how he was massaging the maids back, if it was something intimate or not. I would think its weird if I came home and saw my husband rubbing on the maids back, I guess I'd probably ask him what he's doing, I don't think I'd be pissed, I'd wait to see what he told me first. I think that Brad loves his wife, he's still there, she must love him too. I would get rid of the maid, and get someone older and not so pretty..ha.
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@ShellyB (5241)
• United States
26 Mar 09
I believe at best it is weird to find your husband massaging the back of housekeeper in your home. If Angelina and Brad are not the type of people who chat away with the help, and the housekeeper was someone she did not wanted to hire for whatever reasons, I would say badly done Brad. People more often than not, married, live with other people thinking in the terms of would this person be a good partner to me? Seldom is the criteria based on how good a parent will that person be, Angelina can be a single parent, I believe she was before she met Brad, if I was him I will keep my hands off the help at home.
In any case, and to be cynic it is not my problem.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
26 Mar 09
Who am I to comment on Brangelina? It is their own private life and they have all rights to do whatever they do. I won't like if me fighting my wife would be a story even in my appartment! I mean they are hubby and wife, they can't love each other every time. There should be fighting also to make them feel that they are a good couple. It is not the good time but the bad time decides how strong your love or hate is!
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@wahmivy (776)
• Philippines
26 Mar 09
I'm always ready to hate on the Brangelina, so I'll let myself be catty here (I'm usually nice and reasonable, lol). Sure it was unacceptable. The proper thing to do would be to tell the maid to rest for an hour or so instead of offering a backrub. As for Angelina, now you know what it feels like to be at the receiving end of some "cheating" (nothing to what you guys did to Aniston though). Sure the Brangelina love each other, a fact that doesn't endear them to me. Peace out. Hehe.
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@sophie_dfuss (2365)
• Philippines
26 Mar 09
Every couple has some problems
In my opinion AJ was not overreacting with what she saw, I would feel the same way as she did...I might even fired the maid in the same time day. 
I am not sure if Brad Pitt really loves her
I am not sure if Brad Pitt really loves her 2 people like this
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
26 Mar 09
I can't crawl into brad's head and know if he really cares about his wife or what is going on in their marriage. I do think that the housekeeper ordeal was a bit sketchy. Truthfully, I'd have never had the housekeeper to begin with. I can't imagine having someone come into my home and being in my personal life like that. even if I had the money, it isn't something that I'd want. Brad does appear to be a good dad....that does not mean he is a good husband. it's their business....i really don't care. sorry...I really don't care if their marriage is strong or not. it has no effect on my life at all in any way. I
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@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
26 Mar 09
men are polygamous by nature. guys have to admit that.Angelinas reaction was just natural, its instict. And besidew, when something fishy is going on, a woman would feel it. Nevertheless, she still need to have a conversation with Brad to make everything clear.
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@23uday (2997)
• India
26 Mar 09
HI friend,
I exactly don't know what happened in between them,but even if angelina overreacting
to her husband i don't think so that she is not a overreacting women.
She is a good wife to her husband.Angelina and brad were good couples and
no problem between them,
have a beautiful day.
@j47lee (740)
• Canada
26 Mar 09
hmm... and i wonder how that got out??? has to be someone from inside... and personally.. if it was my husband rubbing the nanny's back no matter how innocent.. i would get mad too... gosh.. why would any boss be rubbing a maid's back is beyond me.... i back angelina .... she has the right to get angry...
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@HelloMickey (1655)
• Hong Kong
26 Mar 09
I also agree once a cheater, always a cheater.
I think women have sixth sense and it all depends on how Angelina sees this matter.
I think as a wife if she is not a particularly jealous type of women she may sense what was happening behind that rubbing/massaging.
And no matter what reason, men should understand or care for our women's feelings, and should always avoid arouse suspicion.
If this happens and arouses suspicion to his wife, storm out of the house even makes things worse.
I am in Angelina side, I think men should avoid arouse suspicion!
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