what do you feel when someone say "you are so fat"

First i will defnitely get hurt.After that i will start reducing my weight.Defnitely i will loose my weight and i will show them.How slim i am now.

When I was younger that would have hurt my feelings, right now, I will bother me but not enough to run and start a diet. Will I say something to the person telling me I am so fat and to lose weight? Nah and it be better be a doctor to tell me so

I am appalled that people think it is okay to comment about a person's weight. Obesity is a health problem, just like any other health issue, and there are many reasons for it. If it was easy to lose the weight, the overweight person would have lost it. How dare people feel that they have the right to judge! To someone who says that, the reply should be, "You are so rude and you should go to a mental health specialist." Perhaps that would shut them up.

i hope that you will be with people who will not talk about much how fat you are. i will surely get hurt. i am fat too now. and my family keeps telling me to lose weight cause i am not used to be fat. but because i was staying more than before. and i can't go out cause of my responsibility at home involves staying the whole time at home. and to defeat boredom and anxiety and depression cause by not able to do what i would like to do. not i do blame them. cause i don't have much things to do at home. and i don't have any one to text and call to make me feel happy. i find comfort in food during those times. and so that explains why i am fat now. but not yet obese, but still i get worried. and of course i want also to be in normal share as before. i am trying to . it is not easy process. i think that every step and every effort in dong so will help a lot and is worth it. though i don't see the effects instantly. but i am sure going to be there. i am trying to modify the foods i am taking in. i don't think eating only vegetables will do fastest way to slim down. though it is one part of it. but i should limit also my food intake though it is only vegetables specially if i don't have much activities to burn those calories i eat. i rather eat normally but with healthy foods. than to starve my self to slim down. cause i think that starving myself will make me look dry and unhealthy. but eating your way to lose weight by vegetables on right amount will surely lose me weight gradually without me looking dry and tired.

I have not had anyone say I'm fat and you should lose weight in along time. I do know people,especialy friends and family, do it behind my back! I don't talk to them about it. They would not understand and when I was in school I was bugged alot to lose weight! I never forgot that! I know I should loss weight! It isn't easy and I can't keep off the weight when I do loss some! I've had this problem all my life and I never have been comfortable at any weight! I have low self-esteem because of this! I know what you are going through and it sinks! Unless the person who's saying those words has been there they don't know anything!

I always work on my health eat right to be healthy. I gained weight when i had 4 kids very close to eachother. I feel if a perosn i meet is going to not give me the time of day because of my outside its there loss. I have lost a bit of weight so far and the smae people suddenly want to hang out. To me they arent worth my time. I like people that get to know the inside of others not just judge by the outside. Try not to let people like that get you down. You sound like a nice person to know so it is there loss.

I know how do I look and I don't mind if my friends wife or my daughter say so.But someone calling me a fat or thin without any reason has to mind his own damn business.I don't appreciate strangers commenting on my looks.

Well Im pretty skinny so I have never had anyone say that to me in a nonjokingly way. But u shouldnt let that kind of stuff get to you. If they are so ignorant that theyare gonna judge you on your physical appearance than they arent really worth your time anyways. I have been made fun of for a lot of other things and I never really care because the way I see it if they dont like me then their opinion doesnt matter anyways cuz they are just stupid. Just be yourself.

Yes, I would be hurt. But if thinking about it from a different angle, that would be better. He says "you are so fat", which means he concerns you and your health, and he does not lie. Maybe just it's not expressed well. So it is not as good as taking it as goodwill that taking it as jeer. If that happened to me, I would say "haha, I eat very well lately" . Just take it easy, you can!

If you feel ok with your body and yourself ,do not listen to anybody!Don't get hurt!You should be more dynamic.But i would say to you that losing weight is good for your health!Do it only for you,otherwise you will be unhappy doing something that ignores others and not you!!!

I have the opposite situation. I get upset when people tell me I have lost weight. I try hard to put on weight but it is very hard for me. One thing for sure, I am not as light as I use to be before children. I was a walking skeleton before kids and had trouble putting on weight. When I had kids, I put on weight. I had a good healthy weight until I had a very stressful 6 months and lost a lot of weight. I am struggling to put back on the weight. All I say to these people who say that I have lost weight, "I'm trying hard to put it on." I then leave it at that. But for you, you have had a baby. Having a baby can change life styles. It can be hard at times to reach your targets. Just take small steps and stay positive.

I'm also a little fat.When I saw some lean girl,I'll be jealous of them.I tried my best to lose my weight,but it didn't work.I feel so unhappy.If someone said that to me,I'll feel ungry.

I will be hurt~girls hate other people tell them they are fat!you can say they are not clecer enough~but never say they are fat,they are ugly~ I will try my best to lose weight~~~~ ok,plz let someone say "you are fat"!!! I will be thinner soon in a month~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

You don't have to say something an usual to that person, instead, you should be aware to your phisical. yes.. i believe that it's very difficult to do a diet. But if you want to Reduce your Fat you should be enrol on the GYm more on diet.. supper for it. well if i'm on your situation, i don't care what they say about it... but i will Put on my life for doing more activities one of that is enrolled to a Gym it could be really helps you to ls your Fat..Supper for diet.

me too..when i get married my waistline is only 24..but after i gave birth my body never stop expanding until just recently i found a diet pills..and i already loosing something..hope it will helps me a lot

Maybe instead of feeling hurt you should rather be encouraged to do something to get rid of the excess weight. Exercising is a very effective way. I don't take it an excuse that I am born fat and even if I don't eat much I really am bound to be plump. No! Anyone who has the will could always shed pounds no matter what. So go my dear, start exercising and dieting and see if you will not achieve the whistle-bait figure those people who normally tease you will admire and envy. I love it when people would mind and say "Hey you seem to be gaining weight these day" That remark is one big push for me to watch my diet and go on vigorous exercise so that I could go back to my normal weight.

That was my problem last year 2006 and 2007. I even cried because one guy shouted " "your fat!" in front of many people. Although i tried to control my tears , it just went uncontrollable because i am so hurt. thats the time i started to feel so depressed that i even tried many different ways to lose weight easily in a short period of time to show to them that " yes its me now and im slimmer". but it didnt happen that way. I lose weight third quarter of 2007 and finally i am back in nice shape 2008 and present. i am happy with my body now but i dont need to show to them that yes its me now. I think the criticisms helps to make me more motivated in achieving my goal. Yes it hurts a lot, but i dont need to feel the pain anymore. I am happy with how i am now and i am helping other fat girls to be healthy too. Right now i am joining group of people and we do aerobic classes every saturday. Its always good. Happy mylotting!

Well if someone will say such words to me I will laugh at him because I am not fat. If I would have been fat then I will tell him that "I will ask him why is he or she saying me such a thing? Is that person interested in me?" If it is friendly word then you should request your friends to remind me about it every time you eat something.

if i were you ,there is nothing to tell.the more important thing is you good health and your happy life.

What they say is nothing,More important believe in yourself.You must proud of your body,You must put you the best from the other people,so when they talk to you,you dont answer just smile in the face like u proud of your body.