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tmariew @tmariew (32) • United States 27 Mar 09

Anytime I am in a relationship and someone gets interested in the person that I am with, I am always appalled. I just think that wiyh so many people in the world, what kind of person would pick some one who is already taken? But...

crushes

infedelity

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tmariew Thank you for the advice, that is what i decided also. After contemplating it I came to the conclusion that I have no right to hurt some one else to make myself happy. I stopped talking to him completely to remove temptation and it was hard to do but im glad I...

22 Oct 09

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 11 Apr 09

When I go into someone's house I always look to see if they have a bookcase or at least some books lying around. I am finding that this is a rarer sight these days. 52' plasma screens, racks of DVDs, but few books. Of course they...

reading

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tmariew I know exactly what you mean, when i was little it seemed like every house i was in had books but now its the exception. I love reading, but i think tv has pretty much taken over at this point for most people

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Tinna_He @Tinna_He (300) • China 26 Mar 09

Because i am fat,i always heard someone said to me "you are so fat and you should lose your weight".Maybe they are making a joke.But i always feel hurt.i will be fat even i only drink water.so it is difficult for me to lose...

fat

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tmariew I know what she means, when i am happy i stay at a good weight but when i get stressed out i have trouble eating and i lose weight fast, then people say things like im pathetic or have an eating disorder and it makes me feel pretty bad and then i force myself...

28 Mar 09

tmariew @tmariew (32) • United States 27 Mar 09

Anytime I am in a relationship and someone gets interested in the person that I am with, I am always appalled. I just think that wiyh so many people in the world, what kind of person would pick some one who is already taken? But...

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p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 5 Jan 09

We went to a party thrown by a friend who was widowed five years ago. Although there were lots of people there, it was very obvious that she is missing companionship and that she'd be left alone with the post party debris. On the...

widowed

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tmariew I don't think people assume that women cope better, I just think women have an inborn desire to nurture. When they hear about a man who has lost his wife they want to take care of him. But when it comes to helping a women who lost their husband they just don't...

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samerkhan @samerkhan (54) • Philippines 4 Jan 09

is there any other payment method aside paypal?because i have a problem i don't have any credit cards. please help! thanks

credit cards

payment mehod

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tmariew If it goes to your bank account you could access it with an atm card

4 Jan 09

tmariew @tmariew (32) • United States 4 Jan 09

How do people deal with being seperated from the person they love? I don't mean voluntarily I mean when circumstances force it. How do I make sure she knows I am waiting for her and how do I deal with the pain it's causing without...

realationships

seperation

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tmariew I would never do that to her though. I'm really sorry that happened to you, and if she wasn't going to wait for you she should have let you know. I know alot of relationships like this fail but I really want to believe that it's because of the people in it and...

4 Jan 09

tmariew @tmariew (32) • United States 4 Jan 09

How do people deal with being seperated from the person they love? I don't mean voluntarily I mean when circumstances force it. How do I make sure she knows I am waiting for her and how do I deal with the pain it's causing without...

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tmariew I try to send her stuff I know she needs but that she won't get for herself. I will try making her something though that's a good idea.

4 Jan 09

tmariew @tmariew (32) • United States 4 Jan 09

How do people deal with being seperated from the person they love? I don't mean voluntarily I mean when circumstances force it. How do I make sure she knows I am waiting for her and how do I deal with the pain it's causing without...

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tmariew I'm not in the military, she is. I think that she worries about me breaking up with her because I don't want to wait anymore. I can't seem to convince her that won't happen, although she seems to be a little more confident about it after this many months.

4 Jan 09

samerkhan @samerkhan (54) • Philippines 4 Jan 09

is there any other payment method aside paypal?because i have a problem i don't have any credit cards. please help! thanks

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tmariew If you don't have a credit card you can use a bank account. It works faster if you have online banking because you can check your account and confirm it faster.

4 Jan 09

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tmariew @tmariew (32) • United States 4 Jan 09

How do people deal with being seperated from the person they love? I don't mean voluntarily I mean when circumstances force it. How do I make sure she knows I am waiting for her and how do I deal with the pain it's causing without...

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sxrxnrr45601 @sxrxnrr45601 (1171) • United States 4 Jan 09

Ok People I have to ask what is your take on Marijuana good,bad,dont care I just really want to know how you feel about it not what the laws say but what you feel as an person is it safer than alcohol should they make it legal...

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tmariew I think that it shoulb be legal. It's no more dangerous than ciggarettes or alcohol. And as with alcohol if you can control yourself and follow common sense saftey practices like not driving and an age limit it shoulbd be fine.

4 Jan 09

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Brian @wolfie34 (26770) • United Kingdom 4 Jan 09

Have you ever fought with your partner when there have been relatives around to witness your fights/arguments/verbal attacks/bullying? Most couples keep their arguments private and behind closed doors and they certainly don't...

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tmariew If you fight alot in front of people they might get it into their heads that you aren't right together cause they don't see enough to judge. And my family and her's both would jump right in and try to take sides so I don't even really even talk to other people...

4 Jan 09

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stardustw83 @stardustw83 (435) • United States 4 Jan 09

I am currently 39 weeks pregnant and could possibly go into labor any day now not to mention im on bed rest until i do give birth. But for some reason my mother in law doesn't seem to care as she keeps requesting my husband to...

helping or not

mother in law

pain

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tmariew I am not saying your husband is at fault because she is obviously yhe one who is wrong here. But if you are having your first child you are probably still laying the foundation for your relationship, letting her win on this one would be bad. She will only act...

4 Jan 09

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Kanesha1028 @Kanesha1028 (154) • United States 4 Jan 09

I'm currently in an abusive relationship. The economy is bad and it's really hard to find a job. I don't have any family or a income. The man I'm with is all I have. I want to make it on my own as soon as possible. Are there any...

find a job

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tmariew If he hurts you really bad, you will be even more dependent on him. Don't wait for it to reach that level, leave now, before that happens or he convinces you somehow to stay. There is alot you could do. If there is a shelter go there, they aren't designed for...

4 Jan 09

maverickwarrior @maverickwarrior (260) • India 4 Jan 09

I know its quite a develish question ..but surely we all have a detective in us dont we ;-)..our inquisitive mind sametimes makes us do crazy things right?..dont we want to know whats happening with the hot neighbour next...

beautiful girl

detective

spy

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tmariew I have checked through my girlfriends phone, she has read my journal, stuff like that. When I was doing it I felt like I could't help myself but I felt really bad about it later. Our first year was really rough though cause we were both the type not to trust...

4 Jan 09

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