tmariew

@tmariew (32)

United States • Age 35

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Where's the bookcase?

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 11 Apr 09

When I go into someone's house I always look to see if they have a bookcase or at least some books lying around. I am finding that this is a rarer sight these days. 52' plasma screens, racks of DVDs, but few books. Of course they...

reading

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tmariew I know exactly what you mean, when i was little it seemed like every house i was in had books but now its the exception. I love reading, but i think tv has pretty much taken over at this point for most people

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Do Widowers Have a Better Time?

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 5 Jan 09

We went to a party thrown by a friend who was widowed five years ago. Although there were lots of people there, it was very obvious that she is missing companionship and that she'd be left alone with the post party debris. On the...

widowed

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tmariew I don't think people assume that women cope better, I just think women have an inborn desire to nurture. When they hear about a man who has lost his wife they want to take care of him. But when it comes to helping a women who lost their husband they just don't...

5 Jan 09

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Any other payment method aside from paypal?

samerkhan @samerkhan (54) • Philippines 4 Jan 09

is there any other payment method aside paypal?because i have a problem i don't have any credit cards. please help! thanks

credit cards

payment mehod

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tmariew If you don't have a credit card you can use a bank account. It works faster if you have online banking because you can check your account and confirm it faster.

4 Jan 09

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marijuana!!!!

sxrxnrr45601 @sxrxnrr45601 (1171) • United States 4 Jan 09

Ok People I have to ask what is your take on Marijuana good,bad,dont care I just really want to know how you feel about it not what the laws say but what you feel as an person is it safer than alcohol should they make it legal...

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tmariew I think that it shoulb be legal. It's no more dangerous than ciggarettes or alcohol. And as with alcohol if you can control yourself and follow common sense saftey practices like not driving and an age limit it shoulbd be fine.

4 Jan 09

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Fights Behind Closed Doors

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 4 Jan 09

Have you ever fought with your partner when there have been relatives around to witness your fights/arguments/verbal attacks/bullying? Most couples keep their arguments private and behind closed doors and they certainly don't...

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tmariew If you fight alot in front of people they might get it into their heads that you aren't right together cause they don't see enough to judge. And my family and her's both would jump right in and try to take sides so I don't even really even talk to other people...

4 Jan 09

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mother in law being a pain

stardustw83 @stardustw83 (435) • United States 4 Jan 09

I am currently 39 weeks pregnant and could possibly go into labor any day now not to mention im on bed rest until i do give birth. But for some reason my mother in law doesn't seem to care as she keeps requesting my husband to...

helping or not

mother in law

pain

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tmariew I am not saying your husband is at fault because she is obviously yhe one who is wrong here. But if you are having your first child you are probably still laying the foundation for your relationship, letting her win on this one would be bad. She will only act...

4 Jan 09

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Abusive Relationship

Kanesha1028 @Kanesha1028 (154) • United States 4 Jan 09

I'm currently in an abusive relationship. The economy is bad and it's really hard to find a job. I don't have any family or a income. The man I'm with is all I have. I want to make it on my own as soon as possible. Are there any...

find a job

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tmariew If he hurts you really bad, you will be even more dependent on him. Don't wait for it to reach that level, leave now, before that happens or he convinces you somehow to stay. There is alot you could do. If there is a shelter go there, they aren't designed for...

4 Jan 09

Have You Ever Spied On Somebody??

maverickwarrior @maverickwarrior (260) • India 4 Jan 09

I know its quite a develish question ..but surely we all have a detective in us dont we ;-)..our inquisitive mind sametimes makes us do crazy things right?..dont we want to know whats happening with the hot neighbour next...

beautiful girl

detective

spy

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tmariew I have checked through my girlfriends phone, she has read my journal, stuff like that. When I was doing it I felt like I could't help myself but I felt really bad about it later. Our first year was really rough though cause we were both the type not to trust...

4 Jan 09

How do you define the difference between religion and spirituality????

GAGAN187 @GAGAN187 (287) • India 4 Jan 09

for you personally how does religion differ to spirituality and how is it the same?? are you religious and spiritual or just one or the other ? if you are religious does that mean you adhere to one particular doctrine,eg...

religion spirituality

spiritual

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tmariew I don't follow a specific branch of christianity but I do read the bible. I am a lesbian so I obviously don't believe everything that is in the bible though. I just believe in God and that we were created by him, that there is an afterlife where we are held...

4 Jan 09

Do you mind wearing clothes that are not branded?

marylots @marylots (51) • United States 3 Jan 09

There are some people who only want to wear clothes with brands -- brand names such as Disney, Barbie, Levis, Crimson, Guess, DKNY, etc. Last Christmas, I sent a gift to my 6-year old god-daughter. This gift was a blouse, not very...

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tmariew Sometimes I sew my own clothes, I don't care what brand something is as long as it looks good on me, I usually get rid of tags cause they bug me. If you only wear brand names you miss out on thrift shopping too. And the average person doesn't know what brand...

4 Jan 09

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do all women feel like this?

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 3 Jan 09

i was talking to my girlfriend and i was talking to her about a gift that i was buying her and she said that she didn't want me to waste my money on her and that if we ever broke up she didn't want me to think i wasted my money on...

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tmariew I agree with celticeagle, if you tell her you're getting her something then she might feel like she has to say that, or else if you guys don't work then you might remember her hinting that she wanted something and think she was using you. Suprise her and it's...

4 Jan 09

As long as I can see...

LuvBr0wn13s @LuvBr0wn13s (765) • United States 4 Jan 09

I started wearing glasses when I was 11 years old. It took me some time, but I di dfinally get to like the way I look in glasses. this is including the setback I had at 18 when I went in the Army and I had to wear those god-awful...

army

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tmariew I think I look better in the glasses too. My face just looks wrong without them. But I'm still wearing the contacts more because I like the peripheral vision. And they don't get smudged.

4 Jan 09

but that pole can't be sanitary!

LuvBr0wn13s @LuvBr0wn13s (765) • United States 4 Jan 09

My poor friend! She was told last month that she will be getting fired this coming Monday. She is worried, like we all are, about how she is going to make it and what options she has. she is extremely resourceful, so I have no...

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tmariew I know what you mean, I have been looking for a job recently and I have thought long and hard about the adult gigs thing. I really don't have the stomach for it though. I worry too much about what other people think of me, I guess. And by the way, you really...

4 Jan 09

If you found out your baby had been Switched At Birth..

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 27 Dec 08

would you want to switch them back now? lets say after 5 years or more at believing that the one you had was really yours? while yeah i would want to meet my real kid i would feel awful for the one that they had originally had...

raising the wrong baby

switched at birth

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tmariew What if you chose one way and the other family chose the other? I mean if the switch wasn't their fault. What would you do then? I can't imagine having to go to court over that. I personnaly THINK I would want to have my own child but maintain a very close...

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