moral delimas, marriage
By tmariew
@tmariew (32)
United States
March 27, 2009 4:45am CST
Anytime I am in a relationship and someone gets interested in the person that I am with, I am always appalled. I just think that wiyh so many people in the world, what kind of person would pick some one who is already taken? But now I find myself interested in some one who is married. Nothing has happened, I dont intend for anything to happen, but I am having a little trouble getting them off my mind.
2 responses
@wunderful (55)
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22 Oct 09
It is the forbidden fruit. My husband had an affair, told lots of lies about our situation to present himself in a good light to his girlfriend. What you see is not a true image, it is a false face. Don't go there. My life and that of my children is ruined. I will recover in time they will always be damaged. I blame my husband but I blame the mistress too.You have a moral responsinbility to move on.
@tmariew (32)
• United States
23 Oct 09
Thank you for the advice, that is what i decided also. After contemplating it I came to the conclusion that I have no right to hurt some one else to make myself happy. I stopped talking to him completely to remove temptation and it was hard to do but im glad I did because I found some one who is much better for me in every way, and best of all, AVAILABLE. And I am really sorry that your husband and his girlfriend didnt make the same choice. I can tell you firsthand that there was no excuse for them not to.
@AzureWolf (9)
• United States
27 Mar 09
Just because you found someone who makes you doesn't mean you will never find someone who makes you happier. It's a scary thought, that there's not just ONE person out there, but statistically-speaking, if that weree the case, we'd be really screwed finding that ONE person, don't you think? 6 billion people! What if your 1/6 bil was on the other side of the world?! Not born yet? Haha
If the feeling was mutual, I would say you had an authentic problem that needed to be discussed by all affected parties (first the two of you who feel this way). Otherwise, accept it as a fleeting affection for something you don't have. You always want what you can't have, and maybe she is more appealing or interesting to you because she is married. You cannot always trust your feelings.
