what's the most important b/t love partners?
By coffee240
@coffee240 (19)
China
March 26, 2009 8:58am CST
merriage is important to people.
but the most important is a happy merriage,if not,i'm willing not to get married.
so as me part,i think what matters is to build a happy merriage b/t love partners.
but what's a happy one and how to achieve that? do you have some good ideas about that? it'll be interesting as well as usefull,welcome you,,,
best wishes :
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3 responses
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
26 Mar 09
If you are going to get married, you must be able to communicate. You need to be able to share your dreams, your goals, and what you want out of life. You will want your partner to be your best friend. It definitely has to do with "give and take" You must be willing to give your partner his/her own time to develop as a person, and vice versa, you will want your time. If God is the cornerstone of your marriage, then by all means, seek him out and love each other as he would want you to. Share your passions with each other and you will have a long happy life together.
@MysticTomatoes (1053)
• United States
26 Mar 09
You can have love without marraige. You can have a marraige without love.
IMO, the most important thing in any relationship is either trust or communication. Without trust, there is no romance or passion. There is no bond. There is no closeness. There is nothing that can even resemble a relationship.
Without communication, there can be no trust. If you don't talk to your partner and I mean TALK not have a conversation, then there can be nothing. If there is a problem, the proper thing to do is talk it out. Air your differences as well as your concerns and don't forget the compliments. Talking in a marraige or a relationship shouldn't be just nagging and arguments. Sweet compliments or sweet sayings go a long way too. My husband thanked me the other day for remembering to stop by the auto store on my way home from work and picking up some fuel injector cleaner for him to use. That simple gesture of him thanking me for doing something so minute went a long, long way. I've thanked him for something as simple as starting my car on a cold winter day so when I get in with our daughter, she's not shaking in her car seat because she's so cold.