will you regret if you 've married with your first lover

My husband and I regretted that we allowed the standards of our time (yes, we're 62 now) dictated that we could not be together because of religious and cultural differences. He was indeed my first love, and now that we threw off the very wrong relationships we thought we were supposed to have and we've been together again for many years, we're just about the happiest couple anywhere. We truly respect each other, and that's a big part of the strong friendship that underlies our love. It's complicated, but it works so very well for us.

This may sound a bit 'made up'... but it is my story and it is true! My first love and I ended up pregnant during his freshman year of college and my senior year of high school. We married, he quit school and I finished and then we had a baby that August (I was 17 he was 18). Five years later, and one more daughter as well, we both decided to divorce. We just knew the grass must be greener on the other side of the marriage fence. We both were remarried within a year and a half and I had 2 more babies. He did not have any more. Ten years later, we both divorced and ended up leaning on each other (we didn't get along well enough to share the same air in a room while we were married to the others). Within just a few months, we were dating and a year later we were married and another year later, another daughter. Moral to our story, if you have something good, don't throw it away to look for something better...

I wouldn't

I dont know.

I don't think it makes any regret feels if you had understood him/her during that initial years when you mingled with that person. I believe that basic character and personality of a person doesn't change in span of years! I believe that if you have understood the person well, he/she may not have changed drastically even if there are mutations in his/her social behavior. One more thing - Think thoroughly before you do anything, don't regret after you have done that work.