"once a cheater...always a cheater.."

I use to believe in that line, but not so much anymore. I do believe that people can change and if they cheated once, then there was obviously something wrong with the relationship. I'm not saying the person that was cheated on deserved to be cheated on, but that there was just something missing in the relationship. Definitely honest and open communication can help prevent a spouse or significant other from cheating. I do believe with therapy a "cheating spouse or significant other" might be able to change their ways. They have to want it though and care enough to save their relationship.

hi pinks...i have heard that famous line many times ..but i guess everyone needs a second chances to prove that anybody can change and that is for the better..we are not perfect i guess..and we need a constant practice to make it perfect..

Not on your life!! Chating for me, is an absolute deal breaker!! if my partner were to cheat on me, that would completely end the relationship. People should know going into a relationship that cheating is not acceptable. I think that's one of the reason why adultry is called CHEATING!