why some women goes for a committed/married man?
By bluangel628
@bluangel628 (383)
Philippines
March 29, 2009 9:17pm CST
It really bothers me why some women, though they know that a man already has a gf or is already married, still wants to have a relationship with them. They do not consider the feelings of their sister when they do it. What satisfaction do they get from breaking a relationship? I'm wondering if they are doing this just for fun or if they are doing this because they love the guy? What's your view on this?
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@kannmani (361)
• India
30 Mar 09
I am a girl. I would strongly say that there is high percentage of error in the wife side. IF the wife is better than the best no man will go out. I have seen now a day many wife's are nagging and not considering their husbands feeling. All they want is their happiness, ultimately the man is not happy. so no other go....
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
30 Mar 09
Yes, I believe that most men goes for other woman is it's because they are no longer happy with who they are right now. But of course in defense of these naggers, I should say that when you entered marriage, you had vowed to be with this person for the rest of your life. Realizing his/her flaws does not give any person a passport to leave their better half behind or find someone else. I believe that when you get married, you had accepted that person wholly, everything about her/him, good or bad. That's why communication is important. If you feel that your wife/husband is already acting up beyond their boundaries, you may want to make them realize that fact so that they may try to lessen or totally eradicate it. Thanks for responding. Happy mylotting.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
30 Mar 09
I think that women who do this are desperate or are needy. Not all women are like this though, but I guess I have to say I get irritated when I hear about this, a woman stealing another woman's man. This reminds me of a song that has been done in the country music genre "Jolene"... It's a song about a woman reaching out to another woman who has stolen her man.
If you love yourself, god, and truly love the man you won't interfere in his life. If you respect other women you won't do this.
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
30 Mar 09
Exactly. Woman who has respect of her own kind would do enough thinking and won't do this. And woman who has respect to herself would not stoop down to such very lowly status of being the other woman. Thanks for responding.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
30 Mar 09
Glad you understand and agree! I appreciate the comment!
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
2 Apr 09
First of all, I would blame both the guy and the girl equally or the guy, more! The girl can always do it for fun if she is unattached, but how can a married person have an affair with another girl?
In our office, we are having exactly such a mess right now! There is this guy, he is 40+, holds a director post in the office, married with a 15yr old daughter and he is having an affair with our receptionist who is 24yr old…so what the heck! This girl is immature, she is all starry eyed at having hooked a director, doesn’t understand the future implications on her life BUT this man…he is old enough to understand what he is doing…but he is still doing it!
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
30 Mar 09
Some gorls are really struck by cupid that it doesn't matter if the guy is married or not. They just give it their best shot. It is alarming though that a lot of women are already in to this thing.
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
30 Mar 09
Yes and they are giving love a bad name as well. Thanks for responding happy mylotting.
@alyciassecret (542)
• United States
9 Apr 09
These are sad desperate people who just want everyone to be miserable coz they are.
@fasyahime (629)
• Malaysia
3 Apr 09
well,i also can't understand why..after all,my parent's marriage destroy because of that kind of woman too..she even tell my father to divorce my mom so she can marriage my father..until this day,i never forgive my father for what he did..because a jerk woman,he left my mother..i had met my step sister only once,and i never wish to meet her again..
but what the best thing is my father divorce that woman,and you know what,that woman ask my mum to work together to bring my father to court ..that's the most unbelievable thing..after what she did to my mum,she dare to ask my mum's help for her own advantage..haha..
@shiwangipeswani (613)
• India
30 Mar 09
Hi lotter
very true ,even i often think about it that how can a woman break anothers woman's house,why they dont accept the fact that the man they areinvolved with is commited to someone else ,how can they do this ,but what can we do?
@coolcoder (2018)
• United States
30 Mar 09
Some women are attracted to the thrill of engaging in a taboo relationship. They live off of the very fact that they're doing what they should not do, that the reward (an affair) is so much greater than the risk. It's pathetic, but true.
@trina48D (88)
• United States
30 Mar 09
My personal opinion is that the woman has a low self image to start and somewhere deep inside doesn't feel she is worth anyone really just wanting her so she goes after someone that is spoken for so if she is rejected she can tell herself it is because he was already in a relationship. Of course, there are those woman who are just loose and do not want a committed relationship they just want someone they can sleep with and not worry about all the relationship stuff, but again it still comes back to poor self image.
