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swetashah @swetashah (345) • United States 21 Mar 10

It is a dilemma, and I just don't know how should I use my debit card, and at what situation I should use it. Since many articles advise not to use debit card on big bucks items, or "pay it now, delivery late" type of items. I...

credit card

debit card

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trina48D You should only use a credit card when you have the money to pay it off right away, other wise use a debit card to avoid more debt.

22 Mar 10

shibham @shibham (16977) • India 21 Mar 10

hi friends. reading newspaper is a part and parcel of our daily life. to be upto-date with international events we read newspaper. some articles printed in newspaper also help us in our day to day life. although all of us have...

newspaper

time

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trina48D I never read the newspaper. It is filled with such negative information. I don't watch the news either except once in a great while if it concerns upcoming elections. I get most of my news from the radio. If it is really important I am sure someone will tell...

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artsyfartsygypsy @artsyfartsygypsy (755) • Canada 21 Mar 10

Thismay be a bad thing to say but its true in the most general form. I just dislike my mother very much and in every way. She screams at me all the time and I am obviosuly outted from the rest of my family from her. I think being...

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trina48D I am so very sorry for the way your mother calls you names nad yells at you. I pray there will come a day when she realizes her ignorance. Hopefully it won't be too late. I wonder and maybe you could ask her sometime, what her relationship with her mom was...

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mzz663 @mzz663 (2772) • United States 21 Mar 10

While my friend was at the store, he returned to his vehicle to find that the vehicle next to his had the windows rolled down, had three young children strapped in car seats in it and no adult in or around the car. The kids...

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trina48D This is sad that people think more of themselves than their children's safety. I know how difficukt it is to try on clothes with little kids around so either wait till you can go alone or go through the 'hassle' of watching them while you buy stuff. I am glad...

21 Mar 10

carmenzhj @carmenzhj (120) • New Zealand 20 Mar 10

I saw this today. The boyfriend was holding a girlfriend's handbag for almost 1/2 hour, then the boyfriend said had some discomfort in the shoulder area, asked the girlfriend to carry her own handbag for a little while. All a...

handbag

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trina48D I don't see the issue as to whether a guy should or should not hold someone's bag. The real issue is why does the girlfriend feel that she has a right to disrespect the guy by yelling at him if he doesn't want to hold it for her. She shows lack of respect for...

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intelpink @intelpink (163) • Philippines 16 Mar 10

Do you believe that love is a choice or a feeling? If the feeling is gone, can you still love a person? If you don't want to choose the person but you have feelings for him/her, will you call it love?

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trina48D When love first begins it is a feeling, the butterflies, the warm fuzzies and nervousness of being together. That feeling only lasts for awhile and then you choose to continue loving the person. If it were only a feeling (like most people seem to think) then...

16 Mar 10

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 15 Mar 10

One of the debates that I have witnessed is the question should infants be baptised (pedobaptism), my answer for this is NO! However this is debated within the Christian Church quite a bit. The reason some baptise is because it...

roman catholic church

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trina48D being baptised or not does not get us saved. It is the acceptance of Jesus that gets us into heaven. What is in our heart, not whether we are dipped or sprinkled is the issue. Barehugs, don't get too proud, remember, pride cometh before a fall. We cannot save...

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pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 15 Mar 10

One of the debates that I have witnessed is the question should infants be baptised (pedobaptism), my answer for this is NO! However this is debated within the Christian Church quite a bit. The reason some baptise is because it...

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trina48D Very good topic of discussion. It is obvious everyone has there own set beliefs on this including 'Christians' all think differently on the matter. Personally, I believe the purpose of baptism is just an outward confession of what we believe. I don't think it...

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marianna45 @marianna45 (1399) • Romania 12 Mar 10

What do you think about women who are military officer or work in the police, they are equal with men who work there? Women have long fought for equality, have the same rights, same status, same options as men, but the same...

woman

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trina48D I spent 4 years in the military and met many woman also serving. Men are obviously stronger than most woman but we all have abilities. I did all that the men did but not to the same degree. I do believe if a woman is hired to do the same job as a man she...

12 Mar 10

rookiekan @rookiekan (882) • China 12 Mar 10

Mr.Z now is quarreling with his wife, which is not caused by the conflict between this couple but the relationship between his wife and his mother. Mr. Z and his wife are at work with their parents apart from. While their child...

child caring

grandparents

paid

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trina48D If the parents are now living in the same household in order to care for the grandchild that should be taken into consideration. They are receiving free room and board. Are they paying for their food? Do the parents pay anything at all towards the household?...

12 Mar 10

ksmita @ksmita (513) • India 10 Mar 10

hi. lately i've seen people's mindset is changing about their religion. its not that they have stopped believing in it but they are not so fanatic or rigid as earlier. religion is not as important issue in many situations as it...

religion

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trina48D So you turned from God to follow satan? scary thought when it is all said and done don't you think? Why would you choose the side that loses?

10 Mar 10

ksmita @ksmita (513) • India 10 Mar 10

hi. lately i've seen people's mindset is changing about their religion. its not that they have stopped believing in it but they are not so fanatic or rigid as earlier. religion is not as important issue in many situations as it...

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trina48D Do your beliefs line up with God's word or are they just what you want to believe because it makes your life choices easier? We could all make up our own belief systems but what good is it if it isn't based on the word of God?

10 Mar 10

ksmita @ksmita (513) • India 10 Mar 10

hi. lately i've seen people's mindset is changing about their religion. its not that they have stopped believing in it but they are not so fanatic or rigid as earlier. religion is not as important issue in many situations as it...

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trina48D not at all. Catholics tend to follow saints rather that Jesus. They think they need to confess there sins to the priest instead of being able to go straight the God. From what I have seen they also feel that after they confess they can go right back doing what...

10 Mar 10

artistry @artistry (4151) • United States 9 Mar 10

You have been married for ten years, love your spouse, you don't have any children. Not aware of any obvious marital problem. If your spouse came to you and said they do not love you any more, and they wanted a divorce, would you...

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trina48D I am amazed that out of everyone that responded not one person would really fight for there marriage. I have been married for 30 years and there were plenty of times throughout our marriage where one or the other of us wanted out and felt like there was no...

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coffeeshot @coffeeshot (3783) • Australia 7 Mar 10

On television this morning they are discussing whether or not young people should address people as Miss, Mr and Mrs or by their first name. Some say it's old fashioned and some say young people should respect people who are older...

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trina48D Though I understand how you feel, we should all respect each other. I don't think that a 4 year old should have the freedom of referring to his elders by there first name. It doesn't teach them respect if everyone is on the same playing field as them. If they...

7 Mar 10

velocity_186 @velocity_186 (879) • India 6 Mar 10

i used to watch Television every day , about 3-5 hrs daily but it has no more been in my lists dont know y , may be i fall short of time or it really sks did u stop watching tv too ..

tv idot box

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trina48D I have gotten rid of the TV all together in our house. It has been about a week so far. Our 4 year old is adjusting well and it leaves more time for reading and communicating with the outside world. It also saves me about 40. a month. We could watch DVD's but...

7 Mar 10

nancyanne @nancyanne (50) • Philippines 15 Feb 10

While I was preparing my children's (two daughters ; 1 yr and 5 mos and 2 yrs and 6 mos)clothes before going to attend a mass,they were left with the two nannies in their room. Just as I was about to call them to finally put on...

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trina48D Is this something that happens often or is it an infrequent occurrence? If it rarely happens try to remember that mistakes happen to all of us. It could have very well happened with you in the room. Tell your nannies how much it bothers you but encourage them...

21 Feb 10

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