trina48D

@trina48D (88)

United States • Age 63

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credit card or debit card?

swetashah @swetashah (345) • United States 21 Mar 10

It is a dilemma, and I just don't know how should I use my debit card, and at what situation I should use it. Since many articles advise not to use debit card on big bucks items, or "pay it now, delivery late" type of items. I...

credit card

debit card

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trina48D You should only use a credit card when you have the money to pay it off right away, other wise use a debit card to avoid more debt.

22 Mar 10

when you read the news paper? morning, noon, evening or night?

shibham @shibham (16977) • India 21 Mar 10

hi friends. reading newspaper is a part and parcel of our daily life. to be upto-date with international events we read newspaper. some articles printed in newspaper also help us in our day to day life. although all of us have...

newspaper

time

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trina48D I never read the newspaper. It is filled with such negative information. I don't watch the news either except once in a great while if it concerns upcoming elections. I get most of my news from the radio. If it is really important I am sure someone will tell...

22 Mar 10

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Hate my mother.

artsyfartsygypsy @artsyfartsygypsy (755) • Canada 21 Mar 10

Thismay be a bad thing to say but its true in the most general form. I just dislike my mother very much and in every way. She screams at me all the time and I am obviosuly outted from the rest of my family from her. I think being...

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trina48D I am so very sorry for the way your mother calls you names nad yells at you. I pray there will come a day when she realizes her ignorance. Hopefully it won't be too late. I wonder and maybe you could ask her sometime, what her relationship with her mom was...

21 Mar 10

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Should you or Should you not?

carmenzhj @carmenzhj (120) • New Zealand 20 Mar 10

I saw this today. The boyfriend was holding a girlfriend's handbag for almost 1/2 hour, then the boyfriend said had some discomfort in the shoulder area, asked the girlfriend to carry her own handbag for a little while. All a...

handbag

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trina48D I don't see the issue as to whether a guy should or should not hold someone's bag. The real issue is why does the girlfriend feel that she has a right to disrespect the guy by yelling at him if he doesn't want to hold it for her. She shows lack of respect for...

21 Mar 10

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Love: a choice or a feeling?

intelpink @intelpink (163) • Philippines 16 Mar 10

Do you believe that love is a choice or a feeling? If the feeling is gone, can you still love a person? If you don't want to choose the person but you have feelings for him/her, will you call it love?

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love

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trina48D When love first begins it is a feeling, the butterflies, the warm fuzzies and nervousness of being together. That feeling only lasts for awhile and then you choose to continue loving the person. If it were only a feeling (like most people seem to think) then...

16 Mar 10

Should Infants be baptised?

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 15 Mar 10

One of the debates that I have witnessed is the question should infants be baptised (pedobaptism), my answer for this is NO! However this is debated within the Christian Church quite a bit. The reason some baptise is because it...

roman catholic church

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trina48D Very good topic of discussion. It is obvious everyone has there own set beliefs on this including 'Christians' all think differently on the matter. Personally, I believe the purpose of baptism is just an outward confession of what we believe. I don't think it...

16 Mar 10

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Women who work in the army and police, are as strong as men?

marianna45 @marianna45 (1399) • Romania 12 Mar 10

What do you think about women who are military officer or work in the police, they are equal with men who work there? Women have long fought for equality, have the same rights, same status, same options as men, but the same...

woman

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trina48D I spent 4 years in the military and met many woman also serving. Men are obviously stronger than most woman but we all have abilities. I did all that the men did but not to the same degree. I do believe if a woman is hired to do the same job as a man she...

12 Mar 10

Child caring: should it be paid or just the compulsory for the grandparents?

rookiekan @rookiekan (882) • China 12 Mar 10

Mr.Z now is quarreling with his wife, which is not caused by the conflict between this couple but the relationship between his wife and his mother. Mr. Z and his wife are at work with their parents apart from. While their child...

child caring

grandparents

paid

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trina48D If the parents are now living in the same household in order to care for the grandchild that should be taken into consideration. They are receiving free room and board. Are they paying for their food? Do the parents pay anything at all towards the household?...

12 Mar 10

Married! Ten Years, No Kids! Spouse Wants a Divorce, Fight or Give Up??

artistry @artistry (4151) • United States 9 Mar 10

You have been married for ten years, love your spouse, you don't have any children. Not aware of any obvious marital problem. If your spouse came to you and said they do not love you any more, and they wanted a divorce, would you...

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trina48D I am amazed that out of everyone that responded not one person would really fight for there marriage. I have been married for 30 years and there were plenty of times throughout our marriage where one or the other of us wanted out and felt like there was no...

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Do you expect to be called Miss, Mrs or Mr so and so?

coffeeshot @coffeeshot (3783) • Australia 7 Mar 10

On television this morning they are discussing whether or not young people should address people as Miss, Mr and Mrs or by their first name. Some say it's old fashioned and some say young people should respect people who are older...

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trina48D Though I understand how you feel, we should all respect each other. I don't think that a 4 year old should have the freedom of referring to his elders by there first name. It doesn't teach them respect if everyone is on the same playing field as them. If they...

7 Mar 10

Moms, how will you react in a situation like this?

nancyanne @nancyanne (50) • Philippines 15 Feb 10

While I was preparing my children's (two daughters ; 1 yr and 5 mos and 2 yrs and 6 mos)clothes before going to attend a mass,they were left with the two nannies in their room. Just as I was about to call them to finally put on...

mother

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trina48D Is this something that happens often or is it an infrequent occurrence? If it rarely happens try to remember that mistakes happen to all of us. It could have very well happened with you in the room. Tell your nannies how much it bothers you but encourage them...

21 Feb 10

If you see someone in a public place who is attacked, you interfere?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 20 Feb 10

Or just you do not care, and move on? Can be a wife assaulted by husband, even verbal, or a mother who hit her child or a thief to strike the old to steal a purse,you get involved or just you go faster because you do not want...

life

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trina48D Just about everyone here has a cell phone and that would be the first thing I would do is call the police. Then I would possibly keep my distance but bring attention to the criminal so he or she knows they have been seen. Make note of clothing and looks as...

21 Feb 10

christian music

attractivestone @attractivestone (41) • United States 19 Sep 09

Why does it seem that Christian rock is just not as good a Classic rock?

christian rock

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trina48D because your sinful nature loves the wickedness of the lyrics instead of your heart loving to worship the Almighty. We could also say they the 'new rock and roll' is not as good as the old time rock and roll. Everything changes it is our own interpretation...

19 Sep 09

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Are your kid spoiled?

karenkarenkk @karenkarenkk (1121) • China 18 Sep 09

My son is living with my parent in another city, it's quite far away, I go back to see him ony once in a month. Along with his growing up, I find his temper is getting worse, once he want anything, we have to give it to him right...

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trina48D That is really sad that this child is learning at such a young age that the people that are his authority won't take any parental responsibility to train him up properly. They are letting him believe that he is wise and can run his own life. If someone does...

19 Sep 09

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Is it fair to pay less than minimum wage to illegal immigrants?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 24 Aug 09

We might heard so many complaints about illegal immigrants take their jobs away. From what I knew, most of those illegal immigrants work harder, and willing to do dirtier jobs than legal citizens. To justify the situation, and...

illegal immigrants

minimum wages

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trina48D What part of ILLEGAL are we missing here? Why are we or our Government labeling these people as illegal aliens if they are getting US benefits and US jobs. It just does not make sense to say one thing and then do another. If they are here illegally and should...

11 Sep 09

Funny relationships.......

dbutheking @dbutheking (2347) • India 11 Sep 09

Hey, I am a grandpa. Can you believe it? I am just 20 years old. And also i am not married and single. Even though i am 20 years old, i have some grandson. My niece is elder than me and got married and got the child last...

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trina48D Correct me if I am wrong but don't you become a grandpa by having children and then they have children???? It sounds like you are a great uncle not a grandpa and your uncle is a great, great uncle. My youngest son has 3 uncles that are also his big brothers...

11 Sep 09

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