Silent Treatment or Not?

Djbrat, if as you said is a new relationship, I think you sould wait a bit, you don't want to appear so needy, if he is playing houdini on you for sure there is a reason... Good or bad, or just a timely circumstance. What ever the reason maybe is an excelent time for you to evaluate if you are happy with what you are receiving up to now. Good luck!

i think the best way is to approach your partner and let them know how you feel. i used to be the silent type as well but found that it doesnt really help at all. we are the only ones who know what we think and feel and not all people can read our minds. so if you feel bad and you're not going to say anything then your partner may never know.

You might be waiting a long time. I think the best way to approach this relationship is if you know you have an issue with something is to bring it out into the open, that way you have your best chance of resolution. I think letting things fester is not the way to have a healthy relationship. It is not really right.

The silent treatment never works. You might be wasting your time. If you really care about this guy the way you say you do, then why not let your guard down and tell him? You might discover that he feels the same way, you will never know unless you ask. Communication is always key in any relationship. If this one was "the one" you won't know unless you try. There was a time when I was in H.S. and there was this guy who obviously liked me as much as I liked him. We never got together though, because both of us were afraid to speak our minds. He married someone else and so did I. Don't let opportunities to "speak your mind" just slip away. You might not get another chance. He might not ever approach you, could be he's scared.