i need some advice..

I think he behaved in an immature manner and you are better off without him. However, there are a few other points to address here. Did you ever see this person in the real world away from the computer? In virtual relationships you never know who a person really is. For all you know he could be the computer teacher! What did it matter if you had a crush on someone? A crush is just a crush and doesn't mean anything unless you try and do something about it. I say find a guy at school you can see and talk to everyday and know for certain who you are dealing with.

How did someone tell him that you have a crush on your computer teacher? He is your online friend you said?

I think if it has been 3 months you may have already lost him. I would write to him again though and say that you dont want to lose him. YOu may find that he has moved on already and there is nothing you can do at this time, but you might as well let him know what you are feeling and how it effects you. It is important to you.

If he's long distance...ditch him. I've dealt with long distance relationships to last three years...find someone closer to you. *Pleiades

I feel very sorry for your current situation. But I feel a person who loves you should love whatever you are. He shouldn't put conditions on your past life which already happened and on which you don't have any control today. It is very bad to expect your past life to be of some type. He may have a perfect life and may be a perfectionist. But he can't expect everybody around him to be perfectionists! What would I suggest is that please keep your head cool. I know you love him a lot, but also think about yourself. You can't do anything to your past. But you can change your future. Try convincing him that you would be loyal to him in future. Express your love, explain him how much you love and why you can't live without him. Even if he fails to understand you and leaves you, it is his fate to lose such a loving person. Try living for yourself in such a case. A person who can't understand you can never live with you for long time. So start understanding the truth that he is out, wish him good luck for his life, start living for your life and your responsibilities. But I hope your problems get solved soon and he understands your love. May God bless you!

Communication is the key. Don't leave him to depend on info from others. Tell him all about it as well as how you feel about him.