Would you call it love if you feel ashamed to that man?

I don't think that's love. Love is such a strong word to describe for that feeling. You are actually infatuated, or you have a big crush on the guy. Like someone who becomes tongue tied when approached or near a biggest idol. That's what you are feeling. To love is different. It's having the feeling of being comfortable with the person. A feeling that both understand and feel for each other. If you're alone with the feeling, that's not love, that's crush. Good luck!

I think it is. It means that your overly conscious about how he'll react to you so you try to guard yourself. It's not "true love" yet since that comes with being comfortable with the person but it's a stepping stone (and besides, true love goes both ways :P). I think you might really like this guy - but I also think that you misinterpret it as being "ashamed", it's different from being "shy" :) Thanks for the response on my discussion!

Im confused are you asham of him or bashful around him does he make you weak in a good way or does he make you wish he was never there. I think when you love some one its not a up or down feeling its mutual. because I love my husband and sometimes he makes me sick, or should I say gets on my nerves but I am not ashamed to be around him nor does he make me quite. do you like this man just need some clarification ;o)

I think I would agree on ladee there cupcyke a lot of people mistook this kind of feeling to be in love and later on would realize that what they are only feeling is a crush. Try to look deeper into your feelings and ask yourself why you feel this way. Then when you find the answer you would distinguished between love and infatuation.... this are two different things but love can also start in this feeling you have but until then what you feel for now is only a crush.

if you're ashamed of that person, then it obviously isnt love, if you love someone you shouldn't be ashamed to hide it from anyone, and be like the best partner, and love one another TRULY. It definitely isnt love when you hide, or are embarrassed for people to know about you and your own partner.

NO I DIDNT FEEL ANY SUCH FEELINGS COZ IT HAPPENS ONLY UR LUSTING WITH SOMEONE THEN U FEEL BAD. WHEN UR IN GOOD SPIRIT that is God's spirit there is no fear or shame inside this happens only when u want to cheat a innocent man from behind coz God's Soul only gives such a realization to you. That guy should be really innocent guy but he didnt express his luv towards u. instead of feeling ashamed u could have showed some luv to him. and the next time more luv and the other time again more luv just enhance ur luv..he will be attracted towards u...show him and make him feel that u luv him not only for this moment but forever i am feeling luv towards u...

I feel you are confusing nervousness with shame, What I understand from your discussion that when the person whom you love approaches your adrenaline rush is so high that it seals your mouth, hope he will understand this and come closer to you.

i guess you are attracted to the person... attraction but not yet love. believe in yourself, be confident and just be yourself it will show if you are shy(not ashamed) when the person is around you... you are speechless because you feel conscious about having the person right in front of you.

I believe that's normal. I had 2 different dates before but I didn't experience that. lol. The thing is after that date I told the guy that "I'm sorry I can't have a relationship with you" and I think I was just after the free meal. But kidding aside, If I am going to experience that. There is a possibility that I like the guy.

I believe it is normal. I had experience two dates but I don't feel ashamed in front of them. But after the date I said "No I'm sorry I can't have a commitment with you". I think I am after the free meal. lol. But kidding aside, it is normal to have that feeling.

Yes,I ever have this feeling.When you meet him,you will feel intense,but when you don't see him for several days,you will miss him.That's favor, not love.You just begin to like him. He gave you a good favor.I advise you affiliate with him, don't lose the chance.maybe he also likes you.Good luck.

its not love. coz love seems to be a give and take relationship. one way is not considered as one. but rather just mere attraction i guess. just like to have a deep appreciation to the person. Meaning having a crush!

If you are ashamed of the person it's obviously not love as if it's love then you would feel very confidential about the person and be like their best partner and not try and hide from them and be ashamed of them. It's not love when you hide from your own partner.

love is somthing has to real for a person. because if it real it aint love. go be with a pearson for 5 years and if you still love the pearson it's LOVE. becuase to know what love is you must know the pearson very well and should be able to do anything in front of that person. and if are ashamber of the pearson you are not in love i promise you just let it go and move on LIVE YOUR LIFE.

I'm not sure if you're inlove with him or what you feel is just an infatuation. That's how I felt also when I laid my eyes on my crush when I was a teenage girl. I felt my palms were sweaty, my heart was pounding fast and I felt ashamed when I went near him. Being near him made me really unsure of what to do. I felt stupid and I didn't know what to say to him, and I though I was inlove. But now I realized it's just an infatuation because I believe that love can be felt when you're sure that you really know that person, and he knows you too.

maybe you are right.personal i do think that is love ,i am in love with my gf.maybe you will feel ashamed but not too ashamed to speechless.you feel ashamed because you want to be more perfect in his or her eyes..bsfore i fall in love with my lover i do not have this feeling..

I think is love, i do have experienced that feeling. Everytime i met the man i would be a little shy, i tried to say someting but i just did not know how to begin.Everytime i wantted to act very elegant,but when met him,the only thing i can do is just look at him.