You are better than you think you are

yes i do

this is absoutely right that you are better than you think bcause i think when i am good i am good when i am bad i am best . every person has a resirvour of powers in him the need is just to recognise that powers .you should learn to be positive in life . you can love me you can hate me but you can't ignore me.

I am reading a book "I Can't Believe I Just Did That," about things people do that they usually immediately feel self-conscious about. In this case, the person does the insulting himself. It told of an experiment where a college student was told to join a room of students wearing a ridiculous t-shirt. He reported that he felt very self-conscious about it, but when the other students were polled separately, most paid no attention. It reminds me of the "20-40-60" rule - by the time you are 20, you care very much what other people think of you. By the time you are 40, you couldn't care less what other people think of you. By the time you are 60, you realize they weren't thinking of you at all.

I've been hearing this phrase quite often that it became my motivation everyday. I am a proud person in every way. I take proud in everything that I do and I find it hard to accept when a person tries to pull me down. When things get tough, I always tell myself I am a much better person that what you know. When I am pushing myself beyond my limit, this is also my motivation. I tell myself, I am better than what I think I am. It is a good thing that this inspire you. Hope you take this phrase with you always and strive hard to improve yourself.

hey there....... do you think that is actually true???????? i am going through the stage where everybody around ,me tries to keep proving that i am wrong all the time...... could you plaese advice me how to get out of this?????????

Yes! You are right. Unless we allow somebody to pull us down, nobody can do it. We allow people to neglect us, by giving them too much of value when they don't deserve it. Every human being has same amount of capability, but it is in his hands how he uses it, whether uses it or not, when and where he uses it. Everybody should try to understand their own strengths and stand up right straight in front of any problem and say 'I can solve you' face to face. By this way, dependency on others reduces and others will identify your values! Never feel - you are inferior. You may not know something which others know. But you know many things that others may not know. So it is mutual relationship to help each other to learn. But if they are insulting you, it is your own right to prove them that you are a soul with great strength and have all powers than them! Good luck in understanding your own values!

Some people in life are just petty and we have to learn to ignore them and celebrate all that is good.