Internet romance: Yes or No?

Well, AlienStar, I am definitely falling in love with you. But you know I am a woman and married and in the United States, so I think we are ok. If I find out you are a man, I will be mad. I am trying to make sure I always respond to you. I know you love it. :D

Yes, your views are right. myLot is messing with me now, though. I cannot see many pictures. Hmm.

lolz.....so, i am already excited....anyway's what about my views.......is it right?

Hahaha, see? You do resemble her, weeeeh!!! And funny, because chicky-poo, something Lois Lane would probably say too (that's the character of Erica in Smallville :D). Hyeah... I was actually considering going to his place and surprise him. But... sheesh, how desperate can that get huh? *foreheadslap* Oh well, I'll just set for local at this point. I'm considering travel of course as to broaden my horizons, hehehe. I'm too tall for these men, hence the desperation :D Hope that problem with the picture thingie will be resolved soon. Works for me by the way, but yeah maybe it's the weather, not sure though *shrugs* Just tell AlienStar we had a serious girl-to-girl talk :D Thanks for the comfort there hun :) Wish me luck on my love life, hehehe.

AlienStar will tell you that I respond to everyone, but I'm not so sure I do. But, ok, Dr. LoveStar is in the house. Tis funny about this question. I forgot I had asked it, and then someone resurrected it today. Here's the skinny for you, chicky-poo. There ain't no romance if one of the players ain't playin'. Of course, my dh talked me into it. But, in general, I don't advocate that. Especially with men. If they say they aren't gonna do it, trying to get them to leads to a mess of heartbreak. You are both right. You need a physical connection and you need to be close enough for one! I tried to call it off with my dh and said "You aren't moving and I am not moving" and he said "I'll move." Well, that changed things. One of you needs to be willing to move. I'm sorry it isn't working out for you with this dude. I do not know this Erica Durance person. I have never really watched Smallville. I will have to go see. I am having pic problems on this site, though. Otherwise perhaps I would post more pics. Don't know if it is just myLot or myInternet or maybe the storm raging outside my window. It is stormy here at 2:03 am. I'm not in love with any pics of me right now b/c I still have too much baby weight for my liking. My baby likes it though--he finds it comfortable to lay on me. Wow, this is a long response you are getting. AlienStar will be jealous.

Wow, thanks on Erica Durance. http://img105.exs.cx/img105/558/5b-EricaDurance4_05.jpg. I do sorta look like her. Or rather she like me b/c I am probably way older. We have similar hair color and eyebrows. I do not have her teeth or abs, unfortunately. :)

That is a good point. We met online in the beginning of April and we met in person on May 27, 2000. So, it was almost 2 months before we met.

Thanks! I'm glad it worked out for us, too. :) We are pioneers. Heh heh.

I think that was wise you gave it a little bit of time to feel things out before meeting. Very wise! And so glad it worked out for you guys....how romantic!!

LOL. I will not know for a couple hours. I have not answered anyone to up my points in hours, though. Just playing to the lovelorn here on this discussion. You have fallen for me for all my money, huh? Good thing we will not meet. You would be disappointed. :) We will see if this answering does anything to my money. Know that i have sat on my butt all day doing this and it is 2:44 am and I should be asleep next to me sweet baby. But dh made coffee cookies and I goaded him into drinking coffee with me. I can now hear his snoring on the baby monitor next to me... I must get off of this addictive ride soon. I cannot do this everyday!

going...it is 3:00 am!!

he...don't do that...i will miss you then...what would i do then.....lolz

waaaaaaaaaah, sooooooooooooo jealooooooooos... congrats to you though. :D

Oh, that is so sweet! I'm so happy for you. How long have you been married? Were you living near each other or did one of you have to move? Which one? I think this will be becoming more and more common as time goes on, don't you?

LOL. Good for you. Well, the only one I know is AnyaBelle right now. But I cannot see any of your pics to see if I think you would make a good match. I did not know this thread was going to turn me into a dating service! Heh heh. How refreshing that you want women OVER 30. Oh wait, AnyaBelle will not work as she is not that old. Sorry. Oh, I did forget to add to my jobs in my profile page that I actually worked at a dating service when I was in college. Ha ha ha. And my dh said we should open up and Astrological Dating service where I would match people up that way. Oh dear. Nuh uh. He better not see this thread or he will try to talk me into THAT!

I can also tell you that charanjit (response #21) is not interested. But I tihnk he may be a dude anyway. I am going to have to bone up on Indian names.

Well, that is certainly a good reason. Married folks need not be messin' with romance. Of course, I do still IM with my DH. He is upstairs in his office and I'm downstairs. LOL.

I can certainly respect the vehemence of your views and opinion. LOL. You have some points. I have honestly met more nice and honest people than troublemakers. I think to have an internet friendship that is a huge scam would be hard to keep up, but I don't know--maybe I am naive. I have better things to do with my time than pretend to be something I'm not only to know I can never then be true and honest with this person online or IRL. But I suppose there are some people like that out there. I just think the percentage is probably lower most people think. Like that study a while ago about the cabbies in NY. Something like 97% were good and honest and helped people when given the chance to take advantage of them.

Wow! That is quite the horror story. The poor woman. Yep, you definitely need to meet up relatively soon if you fall for someone.

waaaah, oh my god, wtf? poor woman. i would've been devastated as well. the nerve of that other woman, doesn't she know what the other woman would probably feel? jeeeeez...

Right on, that is impressive. I never met anyone through a dating service when I met people online. I'm sure that is a decent way to go. Maybe that was part of my success, too. I did not necessarily meet people who were out looking. I was just interacting with people on email lists about topics that we were all interested in. But I believe dating services can be worthwhile, too. I can just see how there might be more potential for people misrepresenting themselves. Although, it seems contrary to actually finding someone. I am going back and forth, huh? Just trying to figure out my own mind. I'm glad you found someone!

Because of the possibility that it will be wonderful, of course. I can see the danger factor being a big consideration. And yet, there is danger in most things. You just need to be cautious and smart about what you do.

hahaha, loving this response, lol.

That is a very nice response.

You are supposed to be in bed! Look at that picture--(see I have my pics back after restarting!) Of course, I would think you are a woman!

Well, you know. It is sometimes and others not. We are married for 4 years and now it is just like any other relationship. You have your ups and downs. But we have been through a lot and love each other and have a great home and family, so yes, it is sweet. :) Thank you. :) (I hope you were talking to me--A lot of people shared their stories.)

Ah, doth not thou have any romance in your heart or mind? Must you know someone's body to know them? Have you never fallen in love with an icon of the silver screen? C'mon, have some imagination!

We get that you are serious about this.

Wow, this is a very poetic response. But our wishes can be fulfilled in real life, too. You just have to arrange to meet the person and give it a shot!

You are right on those counts. I believe that it is just one more way that the Universe can bring us what we are calling into our lives. It is good to be open and cautious at the same time. Ours was very whirlwind and intense. If you know any astrology, we both have a lot of Scorpio--that's intense. My man is a writer, artist, and poet, so yes, it has been romantic. But also lots of hard work and ups and downs as anyone. We have been married for 4 years. :)

Heh heh heh...ain't that the truth? Even when they aren't TRYING to deceive you!