How was your "brought up"? was it hard/fair/good/excellent?
By substance
@substance (585)
India
April 5, 2009 11:00am CST
hey!! I don't mean to pry but I just want to know some more details about the members of mylot here and it will be a great way to learn and make friends too since we are all some different communities.
I was brought up in a conservative community and have just one sibling i.e. a younger brother and since both my parents were working, we have a decent life at any standard but we were no way luxurious.
I know we all have very different "brought ups", some are fortunate to have had a good family while others have to struggle hard in life but we all have something in common and that is we all are 'MYLOTTERS" here. So cheers and hope some of you can add here!!
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13 responses
@mandeliang (58)
• China
6 Apr 09
In retrospect ,my childhood is not so hard but either so easy.I was born in the countryside and our family lives on farming.I have not done much farming work.The thing I take as a pity is that I have not been able to get enough books to read.If I had enough to read,I might have developed a habit of reading widely and gained a host of knowledgel.
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@substance (585)
• India
6 Apr 09
well, its not too late for you to start and for reading, you can start at any age and its truly a learning experience.
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@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
5 Apr 09
I am the only child in the family, so my parents gave their love to me all at once. They were both working before, and they really give me everything that they can. Sometimes, I regretted on many things that I done stupidly before, and NOW, I am trying to patch the faults, and start all over again. My "brought ups" just fair, nothing extraordinary. Hopefully, someday, somehow, I could do something out of ordinary for my family.
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@substance (585)
• India
5 Apr 09
Its really good that you have come to realize the good things that your parents have done for you. Its always better late than never. Even if i am not married yet, i have come to realize the enormous responsibilities parents have in bringing up a child and its time we as children also realizes this, and pays some of it back to our parents because who knows we might not get another chance again.
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
5 Apr 09
I had a good childhood. I had good parents. I grew up in a small town in Georgia (USA). I grew up in the 1980's and I was a "latch-key kid." Both my parents worked full-time jobs. My dad often worked two jobs trying to make our lives a little better. My sister is nine years older than I am. She got married when I was still young (sixth grade I think), so it was almost like I was an only kid for a while. I had responsibilities and chores I was expected to take care of, such as washing dishes, cutting the grass, and doing some of the laundry. I was rewarded with an allowance when I did these things, and if for some reason I did not get them done, I was punished. I have no regrets about my childhood. We were not rich, and I had to do some work at times, but overall, it was good. The fact that my parents were usually not around meant that I had to learn to do things for myself. Personally, there are some thing I should have done differently, but other than that, I had a good life growing up.
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@catabianca (142)
• Tunisia
5 Apr 09
W was( my brothers and I) brought up quiet average and fair not enough wealthy but not poor , our father gave us every thing we need , even the house where I am living now
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@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
5 Apr 09
I grew up in a very hardworking, conservative type family, with good values. Where I grew up was on a dairy farm in a little farming community (where everybody knows everybody else and helpful to each other.) We were definitely not wealthy, and often had to scrape by. But because of that, we learned how to help each other, and make do with what we had. My childhood years were spent working very hard. I'd get up in the morning, go out and milk cows, then shower and go to school. After school, I'd change, go out and clean the barns, eat supper, milk cows again, and then shower and do homework and go to bed. It was a hard childhood because of the work, but there was so much love and I think that's what counts most!
@substance (585)
• India
5 Apr 09
hey!! you were brought up in the country and have to do your chores but that is one reason you know the value of any work, be it small or big. And growing up in a small community have its charms too, i know that. Its really nice of you to share your childhood life with us.
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@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
12 Apr 09
Thank you for the nice comments substance, and also for B.R. :-) Yes, it's great living in that kind of small community...this community is still the same way after all those years, and all us farmers still help each other. Hope you have a wonderful day wherever you are!!
@asianwind (365)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
Hi there!
Great of you to start the initiative of getting to know other member of mylot!
Well, I am from the Philippines and we are actually belong to the middle class. I am the eldest among three girls, my parents have a small business while me and my youger sister is working. Our youngest will be graduating this year. I hope she finds a job as soon as possible. .
@substance (585)
• India
13 Apr 09
Rite!! my younger brother also just got a job this month and since its a secure job, we are all very happy at home.
a good job is hard to come by this days, anyway, with blessings form God, we hope to led a good stable life and its sweet to hear from you too and i guess, you are working woman rite?
@semispoiledgurl (176)
• Philippines
6 Apr 09
As an only child, I think I was fairly brought up. The most common misconception of being an only child is that they've always been spoiled. In my case, sometimes they do that but most of the time they don't. If I've been always spoiled, I would've probably own all those material things that I really wanted. They've taught me a lot of values in life and even though I'm too stubborn to listen, I still owe them.
@sagapo121845 (277)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
Mine is different.My family isnt that conservative.We even flow with the modern life,!hehe.
Anyways,I have 4 sisters and 2 brothers,Were seven (7)in all if youll count.My mom is just in the house,doing household chores,we also help her whenever we are vacant.My Dad has a job before but now,he's staying in the house helping mom.My brothers and sisters are the ones who help us in he finances.
I really thank them for that,I know someday I can repay them.
@substance (585)
• India
13 Apr 09
well!! good to hear your bought up and well, since you have brothers and sisters to help you, its a compensation too. good luck and happy mylotting.
@jimmy87 (475)
• India
5 Apr 09
Hi substance..I think I was fairly brought up.My family was too a conservative one and my father gave me ethics which I will always remember.I am the only child of my parents so in future I hope to fulfill their massive expectations...
happy mylotting..
@vworld4u (143)
• India
6 Apr 09
I am too from a conservative background! Even though brought up in a poor background, it helped me a lot to develop my personality to fight the problems with sincere efforts and with a "never feel die" attitude towards the life and problems posed by it. I love my childhood days even today as it made me a stronger person.
@substance (585)
• India
6 Apr 09
yeah!! that is good that you have learned from your experiences as a child and i am sure it have make you into what you are today, the past shapes the present and the present shapes the future.
@mira91 (985)
• Singapore
6 Apr 09
I like this discussion. I feel bonded to you mylotters. Though i'm new here, i feel very welcomed.
Anyway, about what you asked, I am in the same position as you in terms of being vrought up in a conservative environment, i think it's the cultural thingy going on here in my country, as it, being a multi racial country, all the races calls for a conservative behaviour.
My parents are working, though my mum currently isn't, she was before, my life is no where near luxurious, i can say it's moderate and i am satisfied with what i have. I'm thankful for the roof above my head, the food i eat and an education. Actually there are a lot of things to be thankful for even if i do not lead a luxurious life.
Of course it would be great to try the luxurious life, just once.
@substance (585)
• India
6 Apr 09
hey!!welcome to mylot. Its not even one month that i have joined here and i am getting lots of advices and have made lots of friends here.The earnings here does not matter to me, but its the fellows mylotters who keeps the going strong.
Don't worry we are still young and hope we make it better than our parents and will have luxury at some points in life. Happy mylotting.