how do you judge your friend to your ture friend?

@yinmm007 (605)
China
April 11, 2009 2:31am CST
the saying is ,a friend in need is a friend indeed,we may not always have so much trouble in daily life,so how can we judge them ?by their smile ? sometimes ,we talk to the people spend time with us everyday,but in fact ,we don't really see each other .and the one who can let you relax when you guys together is so few.
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@jimbo88 (231)
• Indonesia
11 Apr 09
You are right, we can judge our friend for sure. Maybe time will tell to us about the truth of good friend. This question is very hard to be answered :D
@jimbo88 (231)
• Indonesia
11 Apr 09
i'm sorry wrong typing can -- can't. Forgive me :D
• United States
12 Apr 09
I think the older you get, the harder it is to make friends. The friends I've met during my childhood are the closest to me now. We go for months without speaking and pick up right where we left off. The same is true for my close friends I've met in college. I think people grow and change but you've got to realized when you've changed..sometimes we outgrow friendships..we always know but tend to neglect the signs..it's all about being true to yourself.
@rocketsky (1013)
• China
15 Apr 09
if he often say something nice ,maybe he is not my good friends if he always point out you fault ,he must be your good friends .
@coolmailraj (2460)
• India
11 Apr 09
Hi. I always judge people by what my heart says about them. If I feel that this person is the one who will be with me no matter what then that person is my true friend. This feeling about someone doesn't required to be formed, it always get into you and you can judge your true friend on it.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
11 Apr 09
friends that are real and true are always with you. fair weather friends always leave you when you need their help. good friends not only share happiness but they also share distress. if you are in distress and your friend is with you with all support and help then the friend is true. if you can share your secrets with your freind and can trust upon this freind then this freind is a true friend.
• China
11 Apr 09
We all have friends. A ot gets talked about friendships. Everyone wants a trure friend, and many of us believe that we have a friend who can be caled a true friend. The word friendship has been used so frequently tat is has lost its meaning. True friendship doesn't mean that when you need your friend's help, you will treat him/her to dinner, and when you have to protect yourself, you will put them in a difficult situation. True friendship is the communication of the hearts and understanding of the souls. True friendship is like water, which is tasteless but is essential to our body.
@mira91 (985)
• Singapore
11 Apr 09
That is so true! The ones that you spend most of your time with sometimes may not be the truest there is because you'll soon realise that you know nothing about each other if not, just the little bits about their life. Well for me, i guess true friends take years to build and trust. Even though they are different from relationships entirely, they do have one thing in common. You need to work at it to keep your friendship alive, not often at least enough to know about each other itsy bitsy details about current events ^_^ Just an opinion though take care..
• India
11 Apr 09
well i don't think that we cannot judge a friend weather he is true or not , just by his smile or the way he talks . i think the best way to judge a friend is to see if he comes to talk to u , or u go to talk to him . also if he helps u in difficulties then he is a true friend , most of ur friends will go away from u when u r in need but a true friend will offer help.
@derry123 (610)
11 Apr 09
most of my friends I have something in common with , we may have worked together and kept in touch over the years .. I have a friend whose daughter married my nephew we met at the wedding and have been good friends ever since . Some old neighbours that I especially got on with I will see occasionally . I have 1 old school friend that I spend time with .. they are all good friends *