today my girlfriend really left me!!!

Sorry your fiance' left you. Why did she leave? Did she give you a reason? Have you actually talked to her about this or did you just leave her "guessing?" If I had a fiance' and I really loved him, I would want him to let me know how he really feels instead of making me figure out everything on my own all the time. Love is not a guessing game, and when you hurt someones feelings, it might be hard to admit that you broke their heart to get what you wanted. I would find out why she is leaving..I would talk to her. If it can't be resolved, then let her go and live her life and you live yours, at least you'll have closure. It's better to know why someone leaves rather than just letting them leave.

I'm very sorry to read about that. I know it doesn't help much, and that the pain won't lessen, but... if she left you like this, than she is not worthy of you. You were faithful to her, and you wanted to get marries, but she wasn't. Now you have the chance to find someone who is worthy of a great guy like you. Cheer up :)

Oh wow I am really sorry to hear that your fiance left you for another guy.. thats her lost and his problem now. how long were you guys together and did she say exactly why she left you.. at least you know what type of women she is before you married her...it will take some time to heal but in time you will find that special lady just right for you

That's really hurt. I know the feeling i been there before. But thanks to God that now i moved on. I just keep to my mind that he is not the right person for me. And its not my lost but his lost.

dude. maybe she thinks you myLot a lot. lol jk. anyways, there should be a definite great reason for that, and for that you should ask your fiance about it and maybe you could start talking and making out with what she said. you know. all it takes is just enough time to think and such space to live.

Hey man I wouldn't know how your feeling, but I will pray for you. It is hard to let go of someone, even if they don't love you anymore. God always has a plan.

I'm sorry to hear that... :-( I don't know what happened between you and your fiance but I hope you feel better soon and meet your right one at the right time in the future. God bless you.

Wow that is horrible that she left you. Maybe she shouldnt have accepted your proposal to be engaged if she knew she was in love with someone else. i cant even imagine what you're going through, but i just want to tell you i am so sorry for your loss.

You deserve someone better. Just prepare yourself for the next one. I would also like to share with you this passage "if god does not heal a wound, he offers for a better cure - the strength to live with it". I always tell this to myself after a break-up. I had 3 boyfriends before I end up with my husband.

i'm very sorry she left you. you must be hurting deeply, but i hope you will grow out of it. my mom used to say to that everyone has someone else, and when you find him or her, (depending on the case...), they would stay together and nothing could come between them. my mom really isn't a romantic person, we're talking about a woman who was forced to buy new clothes for her wedding... but the point is, you may love her, but there is someone out there you will love more, that will be the one and whose love for you will overcome anything. just keep searching, it will come along.

hi jack you know its really hurting when someone you love leaves you for other guy, but think it positively may be it happen coz there is someone better for you, just pray and ask God to give a perfect partner for you cheer up! its not the end of the world.

first of all i wanna tell you that remember one thing in life NEVER EVER TRUST ANYONE IN LIFE i mean to say always perform your responsibilities,relation duties with full honesty but always be ready to happen the worst with you.....so that in future if the worst will happen you will feel less depression and IF YOU HAVE THE SOLUTION OF THIS PROBLEM THEN JUST SOLVE IT WHY ARE YOU SO DEPRESSED AND IF YOU DO NOT HAVE THE SOLUTION OF IT THEN THERE IS NO NEED TO WORRY BECAUSE GOD WILL SETTLE all issues ,may be some one is waiting for you ..who will give you more love in this world of relations.....no means next one...still i pray for you that you willget your true lover may be the same otherwise a pretty new face..but yuo will get..best of luck now feel realx because may be many smiles are depend on your smile like your parents ,dear ones

I'm sorry to hear that, but remember there are many other fishes in the sea. ;-)

Awwwww. :( I'm sorry you have to go through all that hurt. I was in the same sort of situation a few months ago, and yeah, it sucks. :) Just know, there are TONS of other girls out there, and I'm sure you're a really awesome guy so you'll find someone else. Girls are always looking for nice guys (as much as we dont admit it, and always go for the a**holes), so keep your head up. This is going to hurt like a b**ch, not going to lie, but it will make you stronger. :)

Sorry to hear about this loss however it sounds like a onesided love anyway. How old are you? if you're young lets say under 30 Then GET over it and get out there have some fun and meet someone.

I'm so sorry that it happend to you. I can't even imagin how awful the feeling of someone leaves you can be. I hope that you feel better soon, and raise yourself. Try to move on with your life, and don't stay in the past. She doesn't deserve it. Show her that you strong enough, and doesn't care. Good luck, and hope you feel better.

i`m so sorry about that.you would need some rest,maybe trip. well,that`s really frustrated.i`ve had this experience before and i know how are you feeling now.so don`t be afraid,i think you need your friends right now. ehhhh,recovery is a difficlt process,but you`ve accepted the truth and you need to summon up. everything would be ok,just need time.

i am very sorry to hear that. but hey,at least you know that in the early stage of your relationship,the two of you didn't lasts. face it,you are not meant for each other. maybe somewhere out there is waiting for you- just open your mind,eyes and heart. move on and don't stay sulking or mourning. get up and move on. life must go on.

it's a sadly things but i think these thing had a great purpose in life because if you are not each other you will not. all you need to is move on, i know is hard and may takes long to forget your fiance. but you really need to do and move on. you can do it, cheer up

okay you can spend sometime alone for your grievances .... and after that you should go out and enjoy life .... maybe she is not really meant for you.... you will meet someone better than the last her ...... you can find someone that truly deserve your love ..... maybe she's not worth it ..... goodluck