how do you drown your sorrows?
By flowerday
@flowerday (322)
Singapore
April 19, 2009 10:46am CST
Everybody have different ways and methods of drowning their sorrows..
Some people choose to cry it out loud..
Some people choose to shout it out loud..
Some people choose to do some sports..
Some people choose to write diary..
For me, sometimes i will choose to write it down..sometimes i will cry secretly in a corner..sometimes i will just listen to some songs..
what about you?
3 responses
@janiceines (799)
• Singapore
30 Apr 09
i will cry, but not a loud one, just secretly on my bed until i fall asleep
@flowerday (322)
• Singapore
30 Apr 09
hihi... same as you, sometimes i will also cry secretly on my bed...without any noise because i do not want anybody to know...
and crying is indeed very tiring...i also always cry until i am very tired and just fall asleep...
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
i talk to my wife. shared sorrow is half sorrow. i love talking to her for she lifts my spirit up when i am down. she is the only person that i can talk that will make me feel okay. she even gives me a massage to make me feel okay. she say a lot of good comforting words and she is always saying that life has full of surprises but sometimes the surprise are not that good so we need to try again and to make sure not to make the same mistakes anymore.
@flowerday (322)
• Singapore
30 Apr 09
hihi...it is good to hear that you have someone always by your side, whom you can talk to and share your sorrow with...i feel that it really helps alot and it is nice to hear those comforting words when you are really down..
but unfortuately, i am not so lucky like you..i do not have anyone beside me whom i can share my sorrows with..there is no one to say those comforting words...it is really painful for me..
indeed life is full of surprises and no one will know what is going to happen next...
@ladynetz (968)
• Canada
19 Apr 09
if it's too big a sorrow, than I can't help it, but cry.Almost automatically.
If it's just something verry, verry annoying, I try to keep my mouth shout and think of ways to solve it. Because I'm going to talk about it with the person that brought this upon me. The only thing is, that, I don't want to be rude or unlogical and let my emotion dictate me how I behave. And I do not want to behave in any way that I'll feel guilty after a while.
if I have an issue, I'll seetle it with a calm voice and resonable logic.
Of course, from time to time, all of us make mistakes, and not always I can keep my mouth shout.And then I feel guilty that I was too rude, and did hurt people who maybe had no intention to make me feel sad.
oh, well - I really try to do my best!
@flowerday (322)
• Singapore
23 Apr 09
yepp i agree that if the sorrow is too big, tears will flow down my cheek automatically..and recently i feel that the tears are flowing down more easily and i really cannot control at all...sometimes, when i am alone and i start to think about alot of things and i will start crying...the feeling is really bad..
and i also agree that sometimes i also feel guilty at times when i was too rude.. but it wasnt my fault, how can i not be angry..
i get angry easily but i can control alot too..
yeah.. we shall all try to do our best!!