Have you ever missed an ex...
By YoungInLove
@YoungInLove (1254)
Canada
April 19, 2009 11:50pm CST
..months sometimes years after the breakup? It hasnt been long since me and my ex broke up. Maybe.. 5 months. Long enough I guess you could say. Some days I really dont care that were not together anymore. Then some days when im just chillin out and see something or think about something that somehow has to do with him. i get very sad and miss him. It doesnt happen often, but when it does it doesnt feel good AT ALL. I feel like I regret the decision of breaking up with him, while other days I think it was a great idea.
Do you ever do that?! Randomly miss an ex, even if there were good reasons for the breakup, if you broke up with them, or it has been a long time since you broke up?
Tell your experiences.
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16 responses
@marshiemallows (1010)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
yeah. sometimes i do have thoughts of what could have been hadn't we separated but i think everything happens for a reason and him finding another girl was probably God's way of making me realize that someone else could love me better than he did. i don't care how long i would wait because i know that everything happens best in God's time.
@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
actually and definitely NO,.. i dont love him anymore before we've broken up, i hated him that time coz he wont accept that i didnt love him, instead he believes that i've found someone else to replace him right away.
@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
20 Apr 09
I've been married for 10 years so there are no ex's that I miss. I can understand that you would think about a person you spent some intimate moments with and its perfectly natural to miss those times.
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@neerajpandey_13 (1765)
• India
20 Apr 09
Since, I don't get any of new partner after my broke up so due to this I miss my ex more then 10 time in a day. I am living only because of his memory.
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@tnyoriginal (12)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
I broke up with my ex 2 years ago. And sometimes I miss him. Then we talk about our past and just tease each other about it :)
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
Yeah I guess its pretty human to think about the past and reminisce especially if that was a romantic one. But it all stays that way and there is no more than that. I really think that past is past and you could do anything anymore and just move on and live your day as it is.
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@crazyredhead (954)
• United States
21 Apr 09
I have been apart from one of my ex boyfriend's for almost two years now I think and I still miss him terribly. There were boyfriends after him but I don't think about them, I think about him. It does suck, but we're friends so I simply text him and say "I miss you."
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
20 Apr 09
No not really my last ex was really crazy and didn't treat me all that well when I tried to treat her like a princess. I have the greatest girlfriend I'll ever have right now so I don't really miss any of my exes. Then again I don't really have all that great of exes to miss so I guess I'm not a very good example.
@Archie0 (5652)
•
20 Apr 09
Its been almost 3 years from now.he left me forever and never returned till today, but i cant forget him for even a second of my life. i still miss him and love him the way i did the time when he was near me, or even more than that.but just the difference is he is not with me as he was.
happy mylotting.
@shikaymaru (700)
• Malaysia
21 Apr 09
Maybe he like the idea of there are no string attached between you two, but he still can kiss you and spent some time with you. Or maybe the chemistry between you two are still there and you or he can't seem to get over it. In my experience, it took me nearly 2 years to clear my feeling towards my ex. Now, I don't even want to know what's up with him, I forget the reason why I like him. I'm glad I broke up with him. Really, times are an awesome cure for heartache.
@brandoppsx (93)
• United States
20 Apr 09
Yes! My god, it still kills me that one particular relationship that I was in didn't work out. What makes it worse, is that it was NOT MY FAULT that it didn't work out... It was a different ex that was completely and utterly determined to ruin my life, and she did...
I will never be able to forgive her, because I was truly in love with this girl and she was stolen from me so easily...Now, even though there are other prospectives, I am still caught up in her...and she's happily moved on and forgotten all about me....yet all I do is think about her day in and day out...
Argggghhhhhh.....I hate relationships...
@supersionx (142)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
Well you see me and my ex had been together for 2 years so after we broke up I really missed every bit of him. Luckily I was able to conquer this feeling after a year and met someone better than him. Now I think of our break up as a blessing in disguise since I'm so happy with my new guy, we're almost 2 years and a half now =). It's ok to miss someone. It's in our nature but don't let your feelings get to your head. You don't know, something better might be in line for you.
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