A lady has had four abortions...

In my home country sadly abortion is available up until 24 weeks pregnancy but many other countries have much lower limits. I am pro-life and would never have an abortion. Pills are easy to take and many types are available.

I wish the lady had got herself sterilized because she has never ever wanted to have children. She made mistake after mistake and is surprised her doctor has said no. She has taken the morning after pill lots of times and she hasn't had abortions in early pregnancy. I think those ladies that have abortions at 20 weeks usually do so for a medical reason.

You took the words right out of my mouth.....Don't want kids.....keep your legs shut. That is a human life inside you and if you don't care and want to mess around like that, then she don't deserve kids in the first place. If she is only 20, I would hate to see what she will do when gets older. I mean come one, this is something to be toying with and its not a game. She needs to be fixed, sterlized, her insides taken out or something.......

also no one has mentioned STD's etc etc abortions are sometimes neccessary but not as a contraceptive, and STD's are on the rise and sounds like this girl is going to become a STD breeding ground she really does need to sort her self out.

The lady could have got sterilized and then she wouldn't have had all those abortions. It is understandable to have one abortion but having multiple ones I think is irresponsible. There are lots of different types of birth control available. Thanks for your response here and commenting about the lady that had 7 abortions as well.

The lady must be mad to act how she has. If she didn't want her current baby I wonder why she waited until 20 weeks to request an abortion. I like your description of what she is. Many thanks.

Your right Smartx she is a murderer and very cruel

Thanks for suggesting the lady has help from a counsellor. I think the ladies mind must be messed up for her to be behaving in such a very poor way. If a lady hates birth control she should not be in a serious relationship I think.

The keen to be having a baby expectant mother is horrified about her friend's behavior. I feel sorry for the baby because he or she is in danger of being aborted if the lady finds a way it is possible.

I am currently pregnant and I feel excited about meeting my baby girl. I know a foster carer that looks after children that go to my son's nursery. She is having two children go to their adoptive parents next month. Abortion could be to save the mother's life or to stop a disabled baby from suffering in life. I know a lady that is pregnant with Siamese twins and she is carrying on with her pregnancy. Abortion birth control is very sad and it is legal. Thanks for your superb response Zelo.

...... from personal experience (on the adoption side of things) and from my heart. Isn't that how all responses should be? Congratulations are in order! Thanks Zelo

Life is beautiful and precious and I don't think she should have the Right to get pregnant numerouos times and kill these beautiful little babies just because she is irresponisble. I have lost a son at birth, and I will miss him til the day I die, it makes me sick to think my beautiful baby was taken and this loser has so many kids just to kill them, and especially now, at 20 weeks, how do you feel that little baby growing and kicking, and probably even hiccuping by now, and you know taht baby is used to her voice and is comforted by her, not even knowing she is planning on killing it before it even has a chance. honestly, I am sorry I read this post becuase it is making me physically ill (nothing against you ), and there are so many loving couples out there that would love to have a child, I will take it if she's serious and is going to abort it. Please beg with her, she can even leave it on a hospital doorstep, no questions asked, this baby needs a chance, and someone to be a voice, he/she can't speak for themselves!!

Your daughter sounds delightful. I wish her happy birthday for next month. my son will be 2 years old on May 19th. May is a busy month for me as far as birthdays are concerned. There is so much joy to having a child.

I am currently 31 weeks pregnant and at 20 weeks pregnancy I had an ultrasound scan. My baby girl was well developed at that stage of my pregnancy. I would never have an abortion but knows that some ladies do for reasons that might not be straight forward. It is their choice and anyone can make a mistake in life. I think the lady is being irresponsible and unkind.

I am currently 31 weeks pregnant and at 20 weeks pregnancy I had an ultrasound scan. My baby girl was well developed at that stage of my pregnancy. I would never have an abortion but knows that some ladies do for reasons that might not be straight forward. It is their choice and anyone can make a mistake in life. I think the lady is being irresponsible and unkind. Oh I agree. I've got an almost 1 year old (She'll be 1 May 16) and she's the light of my life. I can't imagine my life without her and how people can wait so long into a pregnancy and then wake up and go, "Oh, I think I'll abort today!" is beyond me. She needs to get a tubal or better yet, a hysterectomy.

Hi Deejean. I think using abortion as a form of birth control is irresponsible and cruel. I fully agree with people adopting babies and know many loving couples are available for that. One of my friends is a foster carer and she feels great reward for preparing babies and children to be adopted.

Your friend truly is an angel for being a foster parent. I don't know if I could have a child for a certain amount of time only to give him/her to other adoptive parents.

The lady should be single because she can't handle a serious relationship I feel. Sadly ladies like her use abortion like others use birth control. The lady should experience birth and then have her baby adopted. As soon as possible afterwards she could get sterilized.

Sounds like a plan!

No form of birth control is 100% effective. However most ladies use it that are in a serious relationship if they don't wish to get pregnant. I feel so sorry for the babies the lady has had aborted. My wish is she gets adoptive parents for the baby she is currently carrying.