I lost my job. I don't know what to do

hi frined first u should be cool leave that job think positively ....u can get many jobs outside don't stick on that things may be god created a better opportunity for u...for that reason he take off this job.........always think positive...then ur life will be sooo coloufull friend....first u don't scared...all ur frds and family members with u only ...don't worry soon u will get a better job than that....by the way ur from which country if it's from USA it's difficult to get a good job soonnn....anyway try ur level best and rest leave it to god ....ok friend

First file for unemployment ASAP! Get your resume up dated. Have some friends with brains look it over to be sure it's appealing. Go on line and use the search engines, there are a lot of them that are good, and start looking kepp a log of where you apply, that's for unemployment they require that! If you need some tips on the search engines pm me! I'm going thru the same thing only it's been 3 months! If you have kids go to family services for food and medical aid! Good Luck!! tdemex

Don't waste any time. Does your government have a type of "unemployment insurance" that you could get on? (We have it in the U.S. - not sure if you do, too, but it's like where you get a monthly check for $300 or something like that). Or some kind of assistance program for the needy? You should look into it, and try to do that as you look for another job. You should check out any job listing sites you have online and newspapers from your area - and start applying anywhere and everywhere you can! Post your resume online. And good luck finding another job!

Hi Ajithlal, sorry about losing your job. I think you are very honest with yourself, at least you know that you placed too much emphasis on your job, so much so that your happiness is tied to your job. I think it's time for you to find out why losing your job is such a great deal. And to find out how people in your town make money without holding a full time job. There are a lot of people who makes money without working full time and facing the boss every day. And now is the time to find out what you are good at. Do you have any hobby or any skill that you want to learn? Since you have time, might as well develop another useful skills or turn your hobby into a business to make money.

It is very sad to be in your position. You sound like your entire life was wrapped up in your job. I can't imagine losing peace and hope over a job. Sounds like your job was your god. (I am sorry, I don't mean to sound harsh but my heart breaks for you feeling like your job was everything to you). Maybe it is time to reevaluate what is most important. God is our provider He can open doors for a better job if you open yourself to Him. Have you asked Him to help? To guide you to where He wants you? Have you ever considered repenting for putting your job at such a high level and choosing to not trust Him? He wants the best for you. I will pray that God would give you peace and hope and help you to know Him like you have never known Him before. He will provide.

I know how you feel, as I not too long ago went through this same situation and feelings. First I want to say is pull yourself together, I know it's hard and scary, but do it. You are no good to yourself all falled apart. Depression will only lead to unwanted stress and vice a vers. You already know what it is, meaning your situation, now it's time for you to get back on your A game. Start networking with other ppl, look thru the papers for jobs, civil servant posting , anywhere to help you bring an income in. Don't sit around moping it will do you know good and only cause unwanted health problems. Now I'm not attempting to make you think that all of this job hunting you will be successful in a day, nor will you snap out of your depression just as quickly, but help yourself help you, is the best and most sound advice I can offer you. You are scared, we all are when faced with new boundaries to overcome, but have confidence in yourself and you can do it..

Well, I know this discussion was started quite a while ago, so I am hoping things have gotten better for you since this post. A lot of people continue to still loose jobs all of the time, and it does get a little scary for sure. I know many times you hear about all the things going on and you begin to wonder when it might ever end. But just remember in anything you are enduring God is in control. Wishing you the Best.

I just read your other discussion that you got another job offer and therefore I wish you good luck with the new job, and hopefully your salary will rise really soon *smiles*.

I think you shold not panic. Have faith in God. He must have thought something better for you.Try to concentrate on your problem. I will tell you my fiends story. He was working in Africa. Last month he lost his job and returned to India. And to his surprise within a week he received a job offer from a company in Dubai.Can you belive it ? Today he is working in Dubai.

Look for another job and believe that you will get one.

I have been in your shoes before and want I did is that I cried a lot for few hours. After realizing my mistake is minimal compared to what my supervisor lied to me, I realized that my colleagues are not worth my trust and commitment to work. The company is of no problem to me but my co-workers yes they messed up my plans. I was termed from work due to failure to meet the metrics. I was then five months pregnant so I tend to be unfocused to work due to my condition. I was aloof and loner because I have lots of things running in my mind. Anyway I have put no blame to myself because I knew I did my part with minimal fault. Maybe that is my fate, that is what God has planned for me. My advice to you is to never lose hope. Cry for a while but then get back to yourself and compose it. Always think positive because when God closes a window He opens a door. Never give up and keep on looking for better and bigger opportunities outside. Think of the things that motivate you to work. Think of the things you want to achieve. Always remember that you need and you want a job. And again think that you are luckier than others, that will give you more confidence.

I have my sympathy with you. Things are not going well now for anybody. All of us have this fear of losing their job and it may happen any day. Try not to be depressed just keep up the fighting spirit. If you have the internet at home just keep up the job search do not loose hope. Try to visit every office(related to your career) in your area and just give them a hard copy of your CV .... even if they say there is no vacancy.... some day vacancy will be there. Most important try to enhance your skills during this time and read a lot so that as and when the economy recovers you have the best chance of getting a job. And surely keep mylotting .... the interactions will always help you. Hope this helps. Good Luck.

It is important for you to take some time and think what you would like to do, what are your stronger points, and start looking for a new job. I went through that when I lost my job at age 47, after working 25 years in the same company. Establish yourself a routine, don't get up too late. Establish a daily plan and go out to see the oportunities. Talk to people. Another important thing is networking. Call your friends and tell your situation. They will pay atention and tell you if something shows up. Depending on your profession, online networking may also help. Can you detail more about your past job?

Hi friend, sad to hear about this. Hope you find a good job now, as you created this topic 4 years before. Hope you are settled down in a great job now and earn a good income from it. Don't give up your hope and confidence always try your maximum to face all your issues in your life. All the best

DON’T LOSE HOPE…that is the first thing I would tell you to do. Secondly, if you have some money, then relax and with a cool mind, start scanning newspapers and start applying. Both my husband and me have lost our jobs many times in our 12yrs of marriage…but we keep a buffer of at least 6months expenditure in the banks so that way, we have some time. Thirdly, cut down your personal expenses and modify your budget. Losing a job maybe painful and shameful to us but it’s a reality we must face…the more we face it with a clear mind, the better for us. Talk to friends and acquaintances about any openings they may know of…make it sound lighthearted…like a joke on the recession which finally got you! Remember, people have this peculiar tendency to always support a person who seems smiling and cheerful…grumpy, worried, nagging people are avoided. Fourth – take a second look at your CV and update it to your best advantage. Lastly, if you have money, you can think of trying something new…after all job is a job and you are always under another person.

I know it is easier said than done. But your have to keep your nerves on check and try to be positive. You have to understand that you are not alone in this. Hundreds of thousands of people are facing this predicament as we speak. The best thing is to hunt for another job and not be choosy right now. Take this time to update your skills,enhance your knowledge. Manage your finances carefully. And this hard time will pass. All the very best to you.

First of all sorry. But do not take this negatively. I know its easier to say so.But try to contact all networks to get new one. In which field you are working? Try to update resume.

First you have to get out and look for a new one. Find out also why you lost your job and if it is because of the recession then it is not your fault. However if you did something wrong, you have to examine yourself and see that you do not repeat the same mistake. Then since there is a recession take whatever job there is. Go talk to someone. It sounds as if you are suffering from depression and you need professional help.

Don't be afraid , be strong and be courageous, you can face the problem with he help of the Lord. Don't forget that if you will pray and ask the Lord, He will hear you. Jeremiah 33:3 Call unto men and I will you, proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. We are the same, I lost job and you can have a job thru online earnings . Here in my lot, you can earn too. Please don't entertain negative things. Pray and be more closer to God now.

I hope it's not like it's the end of everything to you.. Don't lose hope. I'm sure you are talented enough and skillful to find another job. Just keep your thoughts together and be strong. Ciao!