How do you deal with fake people?

I understand as i did that to after realizing and got hurt many times by a friend but i realized that it is not healthy as well to just keep myself to myself because it came to a point that i already put a lot of distance that i lost contact to the outside world- well sort of. I mean i less mingle with people and meet people because maybe i had somehow lost my trust and afraid to trust again but i was referring to the past experience. Not this present anymore as i'm perfectly alright now. Just only sharing.

I think it happens to everyone, when we step into another level of life like having family some true friends and acquaintances are being out of contact since they have they have their life journey as well to priorities too. However when time permits there will be some time that you get in touch again and that's a good part. That's I guessed you are surrounded by wonderful people and yes you are lucky. I believe so that life is so short and for that we should have learned to move on and forget about those fake people. Instead meet new one and makes sure that the next time we already choose the right one and learned from mistakes. Give our trust to the one that deserve it. have a nice day!

Yes same feeling here, i would be very upset and feel wasteful of the friendship i have invested for a friend. Well i guess even how painful it is to end a friendship, we need to do it because it will not be as healthy as it was before. Thanks for dropping by your thoughts. have a nice day!

Well maybe the only thing i blame myself is giving myself openly on a friend and that respect, trust, and treat her good without knowing it for many years that she is just a friend in need to survive or maybe i am just in denial that she is genuine but i think that's life. We have to learned in a hard way and oh i am not talking personally about a boyfriend situation. It's a friend or people in general that i am referring to. Anyway thanks for dropping by your thoughts here.

Well yes i believe so nobody in this world is perfectly genuine. There are times in our life that we lied, well a white lie or maybe not but there is a big difference in being a lie all your life. I mean for instance you have this friend for many years and you genuinely thought that it was a real friend or more like a family already but after all those years you learned that she/he was just a friend for a cause or a friend for survival ( just a social friend in need of companion when times she/he needs it).That's are some of those fake ones. Its very upsetting to knew something like this. Well in friendship there are also short comings like any relationship but it can be fix up later because the true friendship is there but if its just one sided then its not a true friendship or good relationship it is, am i right? Like you said, you can tell it by how often a person do it. If its successive then its not healthy and that certain person is not giving any importance to your relationship. He/she doesn't care at all. That's a fake a friend. Thanks for your sharing.