do you tell your friend if her man is cheating??

if i were you and if that friend is close to me then definitely, i will let her know the truth. if you can make a way where you can make your friend see it in her own eyes the better. better to let her know now than later.

There is no good way out of this as it is clear you see that. The very best thing you can do is to go to your partner and tell him to talk to his friend. If your partner is not aware of this he needs to be. If after talking to him you find that he doesn't want to get involved then it is time to talk with your friend. There is only one way this can end. She either finds it out now or later and later will cause her a lot more pain. Of course you may very well loose the friendship but how can you continue to pretend that all is well when you know it is not. This one thing will grow to the point you will not be able to be with them anymore because you can't stand what he is doing. No easy way out so it is best to consider what you would want your friend to do if the situation were reversed. There is no greater deception that this. To think your partner is being faithful and love them for it only to find they are not is very hurtful. After 30 years of marriage I found out my wife had many affairs back when we were younger. It was devastating and I never trusted her again. Don't let something like that happen to your friend.

Well I am one heck of a friend and yes I would tell her that her man is cheating..I have been through that twice with two ex's cheating on me and it really is not the coolest thing in the world to deal with. I think if you are thinking about cheating on your partner then just break off the relationship and then go about your business. Once a cheater always a cheater.

for me I'd say stay out of it. even though i love my friends and all but its better they find out on their own then to have a friend tell them. its none of your business don't butt in on it. until it becomes to an extend where the cheater has no remorse then i will tell my friend because one can never be too sure about a situation like this and if you wrongfully accuse someone some serious consequences could happen. try to think it over before you say anything alright? god bless and good luck. cheers love.

That's a sticky situation...you never know how you're friend would react. First, I think it depends on how close the two of you really are..are you just 'hanging out' friends are true close friends? Next, I think you should make sure that you're not assuming or speculating, are you absolutely positive the partner is cheating? I think depending on the answers to those two questions, you will know what to do..Good Luck, this is never easy

If he is really your friend you should tell him the truth and even if it breaks up your relationship between you and your partner and your friend and his partner, by telling the truth to your friend in the long run your friendship will be stronger.

Go tell your friend if he is a real friend of yours.You got to have the confidence in yourself and be ready for the consequences.

well if thats happen to me i will tell her that her partner is cheating. but i will tell her in a nice way that she will not angry with me so our friendship will not ruin.

Tell your friend, the cheating will continue. Your friend will just hurt a lot more if this person continues to cheat and lie. It's better to be honest to a friend, otherwise you are caught up in the middle of all the mess too. Your friend may one day find out that you new anyway, and cause a lot of friction in your friendship at that time.

Thinking of it right now confessing what you know about your partners friend to your friend is hard. He/She would think your lying or would think that you are just jealous of their relationship and that you just want to make them miserable or break up. For me I don't want to lie to my friend because trust makes our friendship strong. Yes he/she will get mad at me at first but she will soon realize that when he/she finds out the truth and he/she will eventually thank me for telling the truth and I did that because I'm his/her true and loyal friend and not because I want him/her to be miserable.

If you want to tell your friend truth, I suggest that you needn't tell him directly. You can plot a chance for your friend and let her to find out the truth by herself.

You should give some time to your friend. unnecessary hurry will spoil your relation with your friend. Or you can take your partner in consideration & ask him to suggest some good things to his friend. If he is a good friend, he will definately do it for his friend. If nothing is working out, then you should tell your friend. though its heartbreaking, you've to give her/him support. give some evidence to prove it which will help you not to spoil your relation with your friend & hence your partner too. True friendship is hard to find.

if i become you i will tell if my friend is cheating, because it for good of my friend, i want he don't cheating, and for my friend cheating i will tell him if him are don't do that

id talk to the one who's cheating secretly... i will not tell my friend. or i'll talk to my husband and ill tell him to talk to the guy. this has happened to me before, they are both my friends (guy/lady) but i was closer to the guy so i wrote a letter about it. we were still friends after it, but their relationship ended after a year i think. i think it is best to let the one who is cheating, knows that you all know about what's going on.

yes i would.i dont believe in cheaters and if i had a freind whos bf was cheating i would probubly tell him he has to tell her before i do and give him that oppurtunity to come clean,and if he doesnt i will say something.cheating is wrong and im sure u would want your friend to tell u if your man was cheating