Negative or Positive?
By lynpreety
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
Philippines
April 29, 2009 4:12am CST
Are you a positive person or do you always thinks negative things?
Me I do believe in positive things or wishing things to be granted, I do believe if you think in a positive way you will attract positive result also. But if you always think negative things and talks always in bad, the result hmm I think it will happen also. I know there is nothing to loose if you think in the positive side rather than negative things that may result depression in your mind.
How about you can you please share some thoughts about this.
Thanks happy myloting...
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31 responses
@dorisday1971 (5657)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
I have always lived positively and it make good results. I hate those people around me who always see the negative side of life. Those people who always thinks that there is a problem for everything will always get many problems in his whole life. Learn how to solve problems and appreciate the things in your sorroundings will give you less problems.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
Good luck for being so positive person and I also agree with you, negative things will come to us when we always thinks in the wrong side. Have a nice day...
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
1 May 09
Hi! lyn!
I am a positive person and always believe in thinking positive. I try to ignore the negative thoughts which come my way. I know negativity does not help our cause in any manner and negative thoughts bring more negative thoughts. If we keep thinking positive things, we feel better and happy and we can conveniently achieve our desired goals.
Good Post
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
1 May 09
That's why we must not entertain negative thoughts so we can achieve what we want. Thanks my friend have a nice day...
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@Braveheartok103 (380)
• China
29 Apr 09
Well for most of the time and most of the thing, I think i am quite positive, but sometimes i also feel negative, such as , can i find a better job and when??
can i earn a lot of money and how? Sometimes i think it is too hard to live in this world, but just think in another way, my condition is much better than others, I have a very nice husband, and he is very clever. In my depression time, I just consider it as my hope, then things will go well. That is my life, thanks for sharing.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
Yhea your right sometimes we cannot be always stay in a positive way but as long we have faith that we can do it things will go on in a nice way. Maybe we have just wait for what we want. Thanks for sharing have a nice day....
@111flylcx (267)
• China
29 Apr 09
I prefer waiting for a chance .I am a lazy person.It is negative.I think i will be the most commen people.The commen life is my goal.Donot need much money.Just have a peaceful life.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
we always a peaceful life.... thanks for sharing have a nice day....
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
That's good being aware of mistakes is a good attitude. Thanks have a nice day.
@praveenvinjam (2)
• United States
30 Apr 09
I am always want to be positive and being...if you have something negetive in ur mind then u will not be able to complete the things that you want to be in ur mind.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Apr 09
You are very right Lyn, Like thoughts beget like thinking and more we think negative it makes us more sad and depressed. Positive thinking has no substitute. That's what I am reading in the current book THE SECRET by Rhonda Bryne. Its an amazing book, you must read it.
I always try to see the silver lining and instead of thinking ' I will be late' I rather try to think, " I will be in time'. This kind of thinking helps in dealing with our shortcomings to a great extent.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Apr 09
Indeed its an amazing book Lyn! I carry it all the time. Just flipping through any page helps.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
That's very true Mimpi, although I don't have the copy of that book cause I only borrow it but I have the 101 important things to remember and I do always read it whenever I felt a little negative in my surrounding hehehe
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
Hmmm that was a very nice book mimpi. I already saw the video and I have also read the book last year when I discovered it. My professor in computer shared me this wonderful dvd thats why since then I already found The Secret in me heheh thanks for sharing may that positive things always be with us.
@Elixiress (3878)
•
29 Apr 09
If I am in a good mood, because something positive happens then I will think more positively about other things. However if something bad happens putting me in a bad mood then I will think more negatively about things. Today I am feeling ill due to a cold, therefore I am thinking more negatively about things today than I would do if I was fighting fit and doing something interesting.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
Yhea that's true also sometimes when our body is tired and sick our minds also is affected that's why sometimes I did not mind too much what I feel I just used some remedy to feel good. Thanks have a nice day...
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
29 Apr 09
Hi lyn, I totally agree with your views- positive people attract positive reactions and bring positivity all around, but negative people make things look very depressing and cause unhappiness wherever they go - i am a very positive person no matter what..
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
congratulation for being so positive keep it up and good luck! Thanks have a nice day.
@wahmivy (776)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
My natural inclination is to be negative, but I'm really trying to change my disposition now that I have a child. Also, as a Christian, it's kind of contradictory to profess faith and be negative, so I'm really trying to get rid of this trait.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
That's a positive one try to keep it up..... Goodluck! Have a nice day...
@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
most of the time. i am a negative type of person. but i am trying to be optimistic at times.
yes, you are right. you have to be positive to attract positive too.
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@rakesh284 (1472)
• India
30 Apr 09
I think you are right and everyone should think in the same manner.
I am also positive thinker and I never think in negative manner because it is giving negative ideas.
On the other hand if we think in a positive manner then we can even get good ideas without harming anyone else.
This is because negative thinking can even make you think to harm someone or trouble someone else.
@hxstar (510)
• China
29 Apr 09
Hi,lynboobsy11
Well,I agree with you.However,there are still some exceptions I think.Thinking negative is not always result in bad results,some people can transform depression to motivation you know.Just don't think negatively too much and that is not bad too I think.You know always thinking postive is not good too.
Have a nice day!
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
Hmmmm far from my experience luckily thinking positive always good to me, I just don't expect too much and don't got depressed to easily when it turn it too negative result. Thanks have a nice day....
@ceejay2009 (107)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
Before I used to live in "what ifs"... so negative, right?! But not for now! Now all my plans and endeavor I lift them up to the Lord. I know that He will never forsake me so everytime that I have a decision to make I'll just pray and say "Lord, Your will be done" and everythings put into their proper places.
Happy mylotting, my friend!
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
Thats' very nice just keep it up God is always looking and helping us for the good. have a nice day....
@subha12 (18441)
• India
30 Apr 09
Hmm, in this case I have mixed experience. Till some point of time I was very positive in life. Things were working out as I worked hard. But the spell of bad luck started.It may seem negative, but whatever I do never was rewarded or acted for me.It is going on till now. It is in every field of my life. My personal matter, where a so called best friend, for whom I did so much cheated me.In my career front, I do good job, managers admit me but pays me least.In money matter also there is always I can't afford any good things. I am not any great person to keep positive attitude still.
@angelbelle578 (1635)
• Philippines
30 Apr 09
You are inded right with that. I think positive and negataive things. I cant stop my self from thinking negative. I dont know It just pop in my head sometimes. With want you right I think I have to do that. I always feel there's nothing good happening to me. I think I have to think more positive things now.
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@teteimathews (265)
• Singapore
30 Apr 09
I am a negative thinker and I feel bad about this. I have been trying to change myself so hard but I just can't change it. I really wish I one day I my negative thinking could change to a positive thinking. Frankly speaking, to think negatively is very tiring and it tortures me.
@hofmanna75 (16)
• South Africa
29 Apr 09
I'm a positive person, cause without a laugh nothing goes. If you give a smile to somebody, you give a smile to yourself. So if you think positiv the most time you can enjoy your life, believe me. Sometimes when we feel us unhappy or negative about everything, then stop it and think about what great things you have in your in life. And you will see the negative thoughts are gone.....
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
Your very right about that it is very nice to every person to have a positive mind we can enjoy life to the fullest. Thanks have a nice day....
@orang13 (723)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
actually i am a pessimistic person, but then somewhat i have positive side still. I remember that one of my closest friend and he made me realize that i should be positive in life for it attracts that positive thing to you as well. With his advice i changed and learned a lot, that in life, whenever you think of a negative, you must endure it and be positive.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
hehehe that was true, I have so many experience some negative things that I can turned into a positive one, just always believe in yourself that you can do it. Just accept the fact that if it is yours it will. Thanks have a nice day.