I once was told by my teacher that "Life is like a field of newly fallen snow where I choose to walk every step will show."Inspired by the word,i began to be true to myself,and when life's tough,do it tough.
yes, when we said can't my mom always said can't never could.....and if we were critical, mom always said, well that person could be thinking the same things about you....they made us think and they gave examples...biggest one...do unto others as you would have done to you...from the bible and repeated back to us many times during childhood.