Do you care about somebody who don t care about you?

I think if you care for someone you try as hard as you can to make thing work.I have been working so hard on my own marriage that now i am starting to think is it all worth the effort,after all it seems like im constantly showing that i care and love him,but i have been trying so hard the last three years that i know i will never get the same back in return.I am thinking now of letting go no matter how hard it is for my sake as i feel that i am now only here for the children we have.

Well for me I just could not stay in a one sided relationship becuse if I care for someone and they do not share the same feelings as I do, it would hurt to much, to know and feel that the person I love dosent love me back, I think that everyone who has a good and pure heart deserves to have someone to love them, and if the person I'm with dosent really love me, then its better to move on and find someone who shares the same feelings as me, to stay in a relationship where the other person is indicating that they dont love you is just unhealthy and it will in the end be more harmful to you.

Relationship refers to connecting or binding participants, if there is no participants, how can be a relationship? I do not insist in wasting my time in situations with no future, I like to invest my time in more rewarding experiences. To enjoy a relation is necessary that both parties agree they have an interest.

Of course especially my boss. He doesn't care about us as his employee's but we do care about him. Especially that the company is not doing good at present. We are still not losing hope that one day he would treat us fairly. and he would not be selfish and hopefully he would care about the people around him.

hihi...it is really very saddening when you realise that someone who you really care about, do not care for you at all...it is like your good efforts are all wasted and useless and nobody appreciates at all... i do not really know how to care for other people, but i really really care for them... they may all not realise it but i really care...i do not know how to express it but i really hope they can understand... sometimes they even misuderstand me..and i do not bother explaining..because seriously, those who believe you will not need it and those who do not believe you will not believe it anyway..

I feel love needs to be unconditional........if you care for someone then you just care for them......its not that you are forcibly doing this or you want to gain something out of it..... But you should be careful that your care is not suffocating the other person....or you are not putting yourself into trouble for it......sometimes people don't care about you can be because of simple reasons like misunderstanding.....some people might just brain wash the other person for some gains.... but I feel that I would still keep caring for him/her as I don't care for people just to get something out of it or to gain something.... I care for them because I really CARE !!!! Have a nice day friend !!!!

i guess i can really care for people who have been a big part of my life.. i am the kind of person who gives and not expect anyting in return... to borrow your word, "selfish" is not in my vocabulary if we are to talk about caring for people, especially for the one i really care about, i do make sure that they feel it,m realize it, and know that i am always with that person and that i am always thinking of him. but if the kind of person i love is not minding me, not reciprocating... i owe it to myself to help myself move on at least... to find my happiness and the person who truly deserves what i can do as well.

I guess, it depends on the level of care and your intention towards that somebody. Same is through with the kind of relationship that you have. If your relationship with that somebody is a love relationship, and in fact you care so much of that somebody, who on the contrary does not care for you is what we often call it as "one-way love". Such is not a healthy relationship because to love is a give and take. Hence, it is not as well healthy if only one is caring. For other kind of loving, application of give and take may be possible, but not to love relationship between a husband and wife or to a man-woman relationship. Henceforth, I say that if you have determined the relationship you have with somebody, you can definitely say whether to stay or end it. Again, if your topic falls on a relationship between two opposite persons, where only one is caring for the other or one is loving, I construe that the relationship has to end. Do not pour water or tolerate the pain to grow. Neither force someone to love or care for you.

I care about someone who I now come to believe doesn't care about me. I have decided after many many years that this relationship must come to an end. For one i need to finally think of my happiness because though there were good times, for the most part I felt horrible. Two, he should be with someone he cares for instead of being with someone he has no feelings for. And three I surely deserve to feel love and that I am attractive and a joy to be around. So though it pains me to let go of such a long term relationship, I know that spending the rest of my life in it would be absolute torture. That isn't fair to me at all. A relationship is a two way street and there needs to be two people wanting to make it work. I was the only one working it and so it failed.

if i love someone, i'll try to care her though she doesn't care me

Actually sometimes Yes, Because I'm Quite Naive And Stupid, It's Depended on What Kinds Of Persons..... But, Most Of The Time I Would say No Because the Only one who get hurt Is me, not the other part......

i care for someone whom i think doesn't care for me anymore. it's alright. i think that i've done enough. and i think i'll let it be alive and i hope it fades away, i've been waiting for many months for it to fade away. anyway, happy earning!

I care about her because i love her! No matter she love me or not. In my mind ,love means giving.If you love her or him ,you should love to do everything for her or him.My girl ,a beatifull girl, do ont care about wheater she is caring about me. I belive that she will know me one day in future.Do you think so?

I don't care the partner if he or she don't care about me.But we should see the condition we are.

for me,if i feel the person don't care me,i won't care her/her too.i was always easy to do that in my life.

If you have already tried to get that person to like you and they don't then it is time to let them go free and find someone else

it happened to me when i had a great crush with this man, that was way back when i was still single. i care for this man, but he doesn't care about me, he didn't know that i had a big crush on him.

I thing that a selfish. I never want to care anymore. Because some people like that just make our self not comfort. I don't say die to our relationship, but i never bother him. Just saying hello every morning, but not more.

Hello icesmile, I have spent alot of time caring and loving and after a while I realized that the other person did not care or love me back at all, they just wanted to feel good about themselves, get the attention and do what they wanted and it was screw me and my feelings all the time. I will admit I stayed for a while because I did care and I guess I felt if I tried harder or did things differently and gave everything I could my love my attention that maybe things would change, but then in the long run it had to end. I knew that it was going to be anybody but me and I also knew that I needed to be cared about and loved and that I deserved things to. It was extremly hard because no one wants to lose someone they love, but then again if they dont care about you then its time to realize you need someone that is going to care about you and be there for you just like you are for them.