How do you think of One night stand?
By cindyhxf
@cindyhxf (1446)
China
April 29, 2009 10:24am CST
i knew some friends who went to bed with people so easily.we could understand that man needs woman and woman needs man too.but did you ever go to bed with her/him without choosing and just need one night stand? i don't like one night stand cause i think it is short and like game between two people.i am sure some people like that way cause they need nothing sometimes. how do you think of that?please share more here,my lotters.
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3 responses
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
13 May 09
the ONS is something I think of when I get really frustrated at times but when that time gets over then I feel that it is good that I didn't get indulged me into it.
It is never good having ONS because I will be feeling guilty for it for my entire life and I would not be assured What my future wife will do if she will know about it. May be I am not that brave but I belive that ONS are not good for me.
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
13 May 09
yes,i understand that your feeling.i don't like to have guilty feeling and i never want to try with strange man which i have not serious relationship with him.so sometime i date with men just dinner together no further step cause i don't want to make relationship just for Se.x
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@buckgiants420 (40)
• United States
21 May 09
i have had quite a few of them, some turned into two or three night stands, but for the most part ive only been with like 5 girls that i have actually dated. the rest were just having fun.
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
29 Apr 09
I find that there are people that are having a one night stand and that is what they are looking for and then there are others who have a one night stand that truely want to have more and then it isn't okay. I remember drying my friends tears in the bathroom after the guy they liked didn't phone after they did it. Well what do you expect, really. I have had a one night stand. I planned it before I even left the house. It was a birthday gift for myself. LOL I was protected and had a great time. I had no intention to see the guy again so I didn't have the nerves I would if I cared about a guy. It was nice and I never bothered to see him again. I wouldn't make it a habit to do because I am a mom living in a small town that know all your business, but I see no harm in two grown people consenting to having some some and use protection.
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
29 Apr 09
maybe you are right.if you got married you still went to look for one night stand ,i think it is not good to your husband.at least ,it is unfair way to do to your husband.i don't mean to judege you for that.as you said ,don't make it a habit is ok. take care and be good.
