Why marriages are important for people?

u r perfectly correct... marriage is very much needed for both male and female... this keeps them in good level among public... after marrying too they should lead a good life... keeping mate more than one is like cheating his/her first mate and also cheating tye pure and real love......

marriage is the home of love i think. we might love first but we should go to marriage at the end.that will be good.if people know just love but won't get marriage at the begining.i think i don't want to love that person long time.marriage is really important to me if i fall in love.

I have never married, so I don't know that I think they are vital... I did, however, respond to a discussion about men and women that is here: http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1814327.aspx?p=1#1_10173591 I hate repeating myself, and besides, it gives my friend a new page view...

Having been married for 27 years and with two grown up sons, I have this to say. You can be a romantic at heart, but when it comes to your expectations about marriage, remember, no marriage is perfect. So do not rush to your lawyers to get a divorce with the slightest misunderstandings. You'll need a whole lot of patience, and an open and forgiving heart.

Hello Dasari100, For me, marriage is important part in life but I won't get married just because people want to see me getting married. When we're ready, we should think about it seriously. Marriage is for you to have kids, to continue with your descendant. Marriage life is not easy but I think it is still better than living together.

In choosing a lifetime partner, you have to make sure that you are seeing yourself growing old with this person. It is also best that you accept the person not only because of her good side but the bad side as well. Loving unconditionally is one of the factors to consider.

i don't think marriage are important for people. you can choose other if the one dosn't fit you again. and the law permit this. so don't take you a lot of press for looking a perfect one . that you will find nothing at last.

I don't think there is a formula for finding a life partner; when you find her you will know it! I think you don't have to be married these days in order to share your life together but I like the idea of marriage. I like the idea of making a commitment in front of family, friends and in a lot of cases God. To me marriage is the formation of a family unit. Sharing values, life views, goals, trust, respect and love I would say is a good basis for a lasting marriage.

infatuation = appreciation + curiosity love = infatuation + responsibility + understanding marriage = love + a promise + the courage of you two fighting against all the handicaps hand in hand, till the end of your life. that's my point of view about love and marriage. so boys and girls,never say "love" if your shoulders are not strong enough to bear the weight of it;lovers, cease your feet before the gate of marrige if you can't give each other the promise.

Marriages are important as one gets an excellent night sleep and the life is so much more relaxing at an early stage of the relationship. Also for financial and security needs being with someone can help financially both in the short and in the long term.

Maybe for continue their next generation.Sometimes people want build their own empire family.....

Genarlly people think that love marrage's are good and some say arranged marrages are good & some say both of them undertstanding should be their. But i say that frist they should respect each other in everything in each others like share everthing in their life be in broad mind and this slowly comes in understanding & finally turns in love. for ever malleswari

Many say that marriages are made in heaven......well i don't know how far it might be true.......but i feel that one really has to take the right decision while marrying someone......as its not the matter of one person it involves two individuals.......if you are not serious about getting married and having a family then you should not get married.......today divorces are a common factor.......its like if you don't like someone just leave that partner and move on........that move on factor is affecting many lives today........and i feel a stable marriage can really bring all the happiness to you......subject to you are ready to make some compromises and adjustments........so i really feel a marriage makes you complete and it is really sacred when it comes opt religion......

I think it so important for me . But I don't want to marry,I don't have confidence about live with someone.

In contribution to this issue. You see marriage is made to be done by matured people. When a marriage is done out of maturity, divorce is inevitable. I agree with you that marriage is made to be one and never but it must be matured before this ideology will work. Dav.

A happy marriage will give you a happy life. It is another aspect to show you are successful. The career is important, but a happy marriage is much more important in my opinion. As one day you will get retired. But the marriage is still with you for your whole life. If you have a terrible marriage, it is so suffering. I love China

Being each other's best friend is one key to having a good, life-long marriage. My wife and I have been together for 27 years, married for 22 1/2 years. I am married to my best friend, companion, and lover. I consider myself the luckiest man in the world! Being best friends mean we can be ourselves with each other, and not have to pretend to be someone we're not. We can confide in each without fear of ridicule, rejection, or retribution. We accept each other for who we are. We share similar goals and values in life. We may have differences and disagreements, but because we are best friends, we work out our disagreements respectful of each other.

Hi dasari! How are you? Very interesting discussion! Marriage is most important I think because it is a committment to be with that person all your life. I think that when choosing a partner there are several things to consider. I think that partners should have common interests but not be to much alike. Sometimes things about us need to be "evened out". I think there should be a like factor more than a love factor as well. After a while..when the chemistry wears off a little..you have to really LIKE the person you have chosen. I think it is important to always be on your partners side..even if you don't agree..you can talk about that in private..loyalty is so important. I also think that you should never go to bed mad at your mate. I think it should be resolved before sleeping and beginning a new day. I think that both people should do things together but also be supportive of your spouse that pursues interests that you don't share...and visa versa. I think that this can give each person a feeling of independance and importance. People don't like to feel as though they have to give things they like up just because they are married...I do mean hobbies and activities. Take care.

friend dasari100 please read this secret of happy couples... the couples i talked to had been married between 7 and 55 years.More than half described themselves as very happily married. Only 2 or 3 were actually miserable. the remaining 35 couples are hanging in there and doing all right. The happiest couples share a number of characteristics -qualities from wich we can learn. And they dispelled several popular misconceptions... -mith: be realistic, not idealistic. Reality: in Fact the most happily married people idealize their spouses.Many of them say they think their husbands or wives at the greatest people in the world. In other words the society and couple are the base of this great world.

It's a traddition. If you don't marry, others will think you are weird. And your parents are chattering all the day, you are so bored. As time goes on, most of your friends are married and even have a baby, you will feel you lack something. It's the feeling of home.