what about your relationship with your brothers or sisters ?
By rocketsky
@rocketsky (1013)
China
17 responses
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
17 Jun 09
I have a younger sister who is 2 years younger than me. It's funny. When we were little, we fighted all the time, we fighted for everything, food, bags, shoes, clothes.etc. Now we are audlt, we are good friends, i can tell her the secrets that i have, and she will tell me hers. That's a good thing having a partner who grown up together!
@charlenmendoza (922)
• Philippines
17 Jun 09
i have a good relationship with my sister. we are always together thru ups and downs. In fact i considered her one of my besfriends and she is even my friends older sister. She knows our deepest secret.
As for my brother, we are not in good terms. He hates us so much and he said he dont want to see us anymore. He is also not in good terms with my mom.
@spicysweetie21 (2573)
• United States
10 May 09
I have two much older brothers, one is 8 years older and the other is 12 years older. Growing up I idealized and worshipped my oldest brother, i thought he was the coolest person to ever live lol, but since i have grown up i have realized that no hes not and have seen a lot of his faults because he lies a lot and hasn't called my mother in 8 monthes.....my other brother i have always had a sibling rivalry with because he is a bit of a mama's boy, my mother always coddled him a bit...but me being the baby girl kind of rivaled that....so still to this day we have a bit of rivalry going on but i love him and i love my other brother and i think thats all that matters.
@mflower2053 (3223)
• United States
16 Jun 09
When my brother and I was growing up we would fight all the time. When he got a little older he would stay in his room most of the time with his girlfriend and their son. Now that we live in different houses we have a pretty good relationship. Hes there whenever I need him and we try and stay in touch at least once a week. He lives only a street away from me. Now my stepsister is a totally different story. When we were growing up we were close but then she became this really horrible liar and always tried starting stuff in my family so I try and stay away from her. Shes one of those people who has to put other people down to make her feel better about herself.
@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
10 May 09
I am the eldest, and have a brother and sister. During our younger days, my relationship with my brother was filled with quarrels and arguments (he's 3 years younger than me). However as we mature, our relationship becomes better. My sister is 10 years younger than me; since young, I have been taking care of her. Our relationship, needless to say, is very close.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
5 May 09
I have an older brother and sister..I love them but we dont like each other....My family wants to keep our dark secrets and skeletons in the closet and back in my mid 20s I realized how much damage it was causing me so stopped doing it and protecting them..they didnt and dont care for that much. I've not talked to my brother in about 2 yrs and I've not spoken to my sister in going on 10 yrs
@reinydawn (11643)
• United States
9 May 09
I have an older brother, 2 younger sisters and a younger brother. When we were growing up, I was only close to one of my sisters, but now as adults we all get along VERY well!
@eagle_f15 (1827)
• Malaysia
5 May 09
Well I am married and live with my husband so I only see my siblings (brother and sister) once a week. We don't quarrel or have any misunderstanding now as we don't live under the same roof. But when we were teenagers of course we did have our misunderstandings but no hard feelings were kept. I can't recall any bad memories with my siblings.
@dsharat (456)
• India
8 May 09
I have a elder brother.Till now I've never called him "brother"...That itself says how friendly we are.We share every thing we have.I always shop for my brother.I know what my brother's taste is and I'll buy anything he needs to buy and he never rejects it,because he knows that I'll never select wrong ones for him.We used to fight till when we were in school.Now we are grownup and we never fought with each other.I think that's not our greatness but the credit goes to our parents who gave us this wonderful life...
@happyforever (191)
• China
10 May 09
Hello rocketsky,
I have two brothers. One is 12 years elder than me and the other is 15 years elder than me. They both have their own family and now i have a nephew and a niece.
Perhaps there is a generation gap between us and they are busy, we don't talk too much. They are more experienced and mature, when we are chatting, they often teach me a lot. I am thankful to them.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
5 May 09
When my sisters and brothers are still young, sometimes we do quarrels when we disagreed about certain things. But, usually we ended up becoming friends again after we discussed with each other about our likes or dislikes..As time passed by, now all of us are grown-up adults, we are becoming very close and always keep in touch with each other..
@fan2009 (121)
• China
5 May 09
Brothers and sisters are the most close relatives except parents.I have brothers and sisters,we often quarrel when we wre young.now we are all grown-ups.we have good relationship with each other.And i think we are the best brothers and sisers in our big family.
@Andy12 (18)
• Indonesia
5 May 09
hmm i have two brothers in my family. and we do lots of quarrel everyday when we was child. today we couldn't do this anymore because of age and i miss that thing actually, remember of that silly face, playing around our house, grab my brothers hair and toys lol. our relationship is ok right now, although we are lived at separate island but still in one country
@Nisha_Verghese (551)
• India
5 May 09
well i got 1 sister.. younger by 6 years.. initially we could not stand the sight of each other.. we used to quarrel 24 X 7!!
i used to put her in trouble all the time and she used to complain against me as well.. but now when we have grown up, we have come close and are as very good friends..
@nabamita_mome (56)
• India
5 May 09
Hi.I am very sorry to say that I don't have a sibling.Though I have cousin,but the relation with them is not so formal.However our relation is not so close to share every moment of my life.
@farmerbrown (54)
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5 May 09
Im the youngest in my family. I have 2 older brothers. The one is 2 years older than me and when we were younger we used to fight all the time. We still have a rocky relationship but it is much better now that we don't live in the same house. My other brother is 8 years older than me, when we were young we hardly knew eachother because of the age gap I'm guessing we just didn't have much in comman but today we are the greatest of friends and very close.