I have recently meet a wonderful person....
By sxrxnrr45601
@sxrxnrr45601 (1171)
United States
May 5, 2009 5:12pm CST
I was introduced to a younger female than I not to long ago through a common friend of ours! Now let me tell you a little bit. I am a person that I am all willing to help people as a matter of fact I almost feel that is why I am here I have a very strong motherly instinct. I am always the one helping people and I expect nothing in return other than they do good in their life. Here recently I have hit some really big bumps in me trying to get back to school. which I have succeeded to do. It took a few hundred dollars to get me there and I owe it all to her. She is so giving and loving. She is a little better off than I am. She has taken it upon herself to pay a 355 dollar phone and internet bill of mine. All my classes are online and with out my internet I would not have been able to attend my classes Now I plan on giving the money back to her. But I would really love to do something special for her. I will get an overage check from my student loans next month. I plan on paying her back then but I would really love to add to it but with a gift. I was thinking about making a basket with like body sprays and at home spa stuff is this a good ideal I know she likes things like this any other ideal. She has 3 kids of her own so I was thinking I could include like a coupon for like a free night of baby sitting
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@tamarafireheart (15384)
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6 May 09
Hi sxrxnrr4,
I have a dear friend just like that, if I don't have enough mone for certain thing, she always pays for me and never ask back for it and they are so many little things she does, she is my very best friend and know her since we were children.
Tamara
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@sxrxnrr45601 (1171)
• United States
6 May 09
I am not used to this yet lol lol for I am always the one that's helps I am not used to getting help when I need it maybe all my good deeds are paying off just when I need them the most. Things always work out the way that they are meant to be. Thanks Tamara and Happy Mylotting hun!
@jugsjugs (12967)
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6 May 09
I think that is a lovely idea,i think she will love that.You have found a very nice person who has helped you to achive what you wanted its a shame there are not alot of people like that out there like that.Sounds a great idea,hope all works out for you in the future.
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@sxrxnrr45601 (1171)
• United States
6 May 09
I just hope I can be as good as a friend to her as she has been me! There are not to many people that my b/f likes and she is one of the few of my friends that he does he does not have a bad thing to say about her.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
7 May 09
that is a good news to hear... in the world nowadays where people only think about themselves, it is nice to know that there are still some people who actually care about other people... i think you are doing the right thing by wanting to give her something special on top of returning her money... she deserves it... take care and have a nice day...
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@sxrxnrr45601 (1171)
• United States
8 May 09
Yes I know how it feels to have helped someone just to get not even a thank you back. I am usually the one that is helping. So I really want to show my new friend how much I appreciate the help. Thank you and Happy mylotting!
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
6 May 09
That sounds like a wonderful idea. That is very nice that she would help you like that and that you will return the favor. Isn't that what good friends are for? It's nice when you return the favor when you are able to do so. I hope she likes the gift basket and I think the body sprays and such would go over great. As will the free night of baby sitting.
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@sxrxnrr45601 (1171)
• United States
6 May 09
Yeah I know I would like a basket full of stuff like that and with us haveing a lot in common I figured she would as well. Thanks and happy mylotting.
@justiceliu (117)
• China
6 May 09
a friend in need is a friend indeed ,and i think she is a friend indeed ,without doubt,so i think you should treasure it .
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@sxrxnrr45601 (1171)
• United States
6 May 09
I do treasure the friendship very much so...... she is such a sweet person. Thanks you for your response.
@cainam (493)
• Philippines
6 May 09
i also know persons like that but they are usually relatives of mine. they unconditionally help me during tough moments specially regarding financial matters. in return i do paybacks by helping other people also in little ways. i have no enough money but i can always be a good companion.
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@sxrxnrr45601 (1171)
• United States
6 May 09
Well a good friend is harder to find than money so I would say your friendship was worth more to them!
@lexus54 (3572)
• Singapore
6 May 09
It's great to know that you have found a friend who is so kind and generous at heart, and responded to you in your time of need. You should treasure this friendship and build upon it, because great friendship is not a given. It's also good to know that you appreciated what this kind lady has done for you, and you want to show that appreciation. I think the actual gift doesn't matter that much if it is given with love and from your heart. It can be in the form of fragrance or food like biscuits or chocolates, or just a bunch of flowers to go with a card... all these can be suitable, I believe. She will know how you value her generosity and friendship by your gesture and approach in returning the favor.
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@sxrxnrr45601 (1171)
• United States
6 May 09
I plan on build upon the friendship we have formed. She says me being there just to talk to her and knowing I am not using her is good enough for her I just see her give so much and not getting nothing back So I want to be one that gives back to her. She is s sweet heart of a friend. Its almost like I found the sister that I have always wanted. Thanks and Happy mylotting!
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@patrickran (23)
• China
6 May 09
i really envy you have such a nice friend, lol,but i think it's your responsibility to return the money back to her, the real friendship is built on the independency between individual person
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@sxrxnrr45601 (1171)
• United States
6 May 09
I plan on giving her the money back and then some so.....It is so nice to have a true friend for a change.
@jcservant (96)
• Philippines
6 May 09
May people like you and your new friend multiply....the world needs a lot of people like you two. That's so sweet of you sxrxnrr45601...i would also suggest a bouquet of her favorite flowers...most women love to received one...hope she'll like it...God bless you more
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@sxrxnrr45601 (1171)
• United States
6 May 09
I try to be the friend that I would want to have so.. Maybe that is what I am finally getting back which is nice. I am not used to someone helping me like she has so....I will for sure throw some flowers in there for her. Thanks
