Relationship are for two mature and understanding people?

@med889 (5941)
May 6, 2009 1:52am CST
Well this is what I think because if the person are not mature enough and understanding then the relationship is bound not to be too successful. What do you think?
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6 responses
@joy4you (641)
• India
6 May 09
I agree, while love might make a relationship more enjoyable it is maturity and the understanding for each other and respect which make the relationship strong and durable. Many a times, especially with young couples, are so blinded by love and believe that it is all that matters that when the relationship faces tough times they are not able to handle it and end up in lots of problems both physical and emotional. A mature person knows how to balance the emotional and practical aspects of a relationship.
@joy4you (641)
• India
7 Jun 09
thanks for the best response. Cheers and happy mylotting
@med889 (5941)
28 May 09
If there is no maturity there is no understanding, if there is no understanding there is no wish to continue a relationship because there will be no communication also, so it is just a trend we should keep going to improve a relationship for the betterment.
• Italy
28 May 09
Certainly, if the two persons in a relationship are mature, it is easier to build a solid story...but it is not so important for a good couple's life, everything depends only on how deep and great is the love felt by the partners...If there is a true love the couple can grow together and become mature!
@med889 (5941)
28 May 09
Yes I also believe in this because it will be much easier to stand to this relationship rather just having a bad aspect out of it.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
6 May 09
I think relationships are for mature people who understand what it means to be in a relationship with someone. Too often people who aren't mature take for granted that they THINK they know what it takes to make a relationship work or are too selfish and don't think much for the other person.
@med889 (5941)
28 May 09
Yes I also think the same like all mylotters, if someone is not mature enough to understand his/her partner in a relationship then I think he/she is just not yet ready to explore the stage of a relationship.
@sharksfin (1091)
• Philippines
28 May 09
I believe so, too. Relationships need maturity. Many people think that loving someone is enough reason to be in a relationship. But, it is not the sole requirement in having a relationship. It is important but what is love if the persons are not mature enough to understand what love really is? That love can be in any form? Many believe that when you're happy in a relationship you're already in love. But, truth is happiness is only an emotion. While love...love is a deeper feeling that comprise fate, choice and decision.
@med889 (5941)
28 May 09
Yes indeed it is one of the pillar factor which is very essential for a relationship to continue. To be mature is to be inderstanding and comprehensible in life.
@Informer (802)
• India
6 May 09
Hi Again, I do agry with you. If you are not mature enough u can't understand each other and there is no place for good communication either..
@med889 (5941)
28 May 09
Yes indeed, if we are not mature then we will tend to stick to the same stuff every now and then in the relationship, we will not bother to understand if ever we are immature.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
6 May 09
Maturity in a relation is second place, after comunication and trust. To be mature in a relation is a need. Who want just play, all time will make others to suffer. This is not a joke, is pure life. And in life we need don t be selfish and think just what we want... a relation is not just a game. must to be something very serrious.
@med889 (5941)
28 May 09
Communication is very important as two people should feel really at ease when they are talking to each other, if there is no communication then I think the realationship will not continue as it should have been, when there is a fight, there should aleays be communication after else the fight will always stay a fight.