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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 5 Oct 15

I came across this post by a person with the username Aries1973 with the title I used for this post. Didn't find it in any posts here but at her own site. How true is this? Then why am I writing here? Am I returning here for...

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 5 Oct 15

Don't our attention get diverted by sooo many things as we grow older? Too many responsibilities and obligations to attend to. And singles aren't spared from these stuff. A lotta things we deem more important now than we did years...

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sharksfin I so agree. ^_^ Thankies.

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 5 Oct 15

Am staring at my profile and I can see basic details showing. It's amazing how time went by so fast. It's been nine years now since I registered here, made friends, and posted more than a thousand discussion and responses. In...

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 5 Oct 15

Don't our attention get diverted by sooo many things as we grow older? Too many responsibilities and obligations to attend to. And singles aren't spared from these stuff. A lotta things we deem more important now than we did years...

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 19 Nov 12

To earn extra cash, I do other stuffs (offline) like modeling, hosting and acting. But, there's a downside to this so it's really not been a big help for me. I said COMPROMISE because there are convictions I had to give up to...

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 5 Nov 12

Since I moved to my new unit last March, I didn't get to have the luxury of cooking anymore since I returned the rusted electric stove the owner included in the rent. So, I had to put up with steaming food, usually fish and...

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 5 Nov 12

There's always this problem when you're in a relationship. You gotta always consider the other person when making decisions. You can't think for yourself anymore. So, every time you have to decide even small things, you have to...

love

relationships

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 5 Nov 12

How many here will admit that more often, we ask questions but will not believe the answer given because we already have a preconceived answer to our own question? This usually happens between partners (boy and girl relationship)....

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 4 Nov 12

I guess this is true with everyone. We get to be in this habit of people watching. Carefully and critically looking at the lives of others, how they stumble, how they fail, how they succeed... It's like watching a movie or a...

critical mind

judging others

judgment

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 24 Oct 12

They say we shouldn't be too concerned when people don't like us. Just let them be. There's no need to force yourself to them. I agree. But, the dilemma comes in when you're part of a circle and you just need to get along and...

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sharksfin Thanks, francesca5. ^_^ It's nice to bump into you here. I also started taking interest in psychology and other stuffs related to understanding people like personality typing. They help a lot. One thing I've learned was I gotta understand myself completely,...

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 24 Oct 12

They say we shouldn't be too concerned when people don't like us. Just let them be. There's no need to force yourself to them. I agree. But, the dilemma comes in when you're part of a circle and you just need to get along and...

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sharksfin Thanks, Raine38. I understand what you mean. It's but wise to just set a limit to how much you give to people, esp effort and emotions. But, well, I guess, there are people who are simply important to you and so you'll end up with a decision to put up with...

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 24 Oct 12

They say we shouldn't be too concerned when people don't like us. Just let them be. There's no need to force yourself to them. I agree. But, the dilemma comes in when you're part of a circle and you just need to get along and...

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sharksfin You're so right. There are times I just end up rehearsing and rehearsing the chain of events to figure out if I had really done anything. I wish people will also give enough importance to the people around them enough to learn how to communicate in stead of...

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TheBloodBoilingGuy @TheBloodBoilingGuy (9) • Singapore 1 Nov 12

Most people know that in order to avoid a conflict,you have to listen to the opposing party's opinion, try to understand what's going wrong. But i just came across my mum today and we quarelled. I tried listening to her, but she's...

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sharksfin Hi, TheBoloodBoilingGuy. I do understand that you do want some freedom. But, you gotta understand, too, that your mom only wants what's best for you. Of course, it will appear to you as if she's only killing your joy, but know that every parent wants the best...

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

attitude

judging others

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sharksfin Right, as in RIDICULOUS, INSANE, NONSENSE. We are all different and we have to respect each other's uniqueness. If a person is vain, and another is poorly groomed or even smelly... it's not for us to judge PERIOD. Thanks for your comment, canellita.

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin There's a proper way to address our concerns about another person and this doesn't have to be talking behind their back. We can confront them gently and tell them what they did which offended us, in stead of sulking in one corner and mull over the offense and...

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin I couldn't agree more, Angelpink. Thanks.

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin Very well said, 41CombedaleRoad! I, too, had moments wherein I participated in hasty judgment due to peer pressure. I wanted to be in, but deep down, I hurt myself because I hurt God Who created the persons I judged. And, I did that only because I wanted to...

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin Thank you, deriellevc73. You're so kind. I agree to all that you said. It is none of our business anymore whatever others might want to do with their lives because that's theirs and we have ours to focus on and be concerned about. By judging them or...

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin I had answer this same idea a few times already through the comments of people who posted before you, Asylum. Please, if you have time, just browse the discussions. But, I so appreciate your thoughts. My style is like yours. I don't really allow myself to...

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin I do have that same principle and conviction, MiaFerrari. Though, I won't say that I don't have the nature of having judgment in my head. There are, of course, times when my mind just goes before me. But, I see to it that it doesn't affect my behavior and...

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