We tell others how to live their lives but don't know how to live ours.

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I guess this is true with everyone. We get to be in this habit of people watching. Carefully and critically looking at the lives of others, how they stumble, how they fail, how they succeed... It's like watching a movie or a television series. We always have brilliant thoughts and opinions to share as to how they should decide, what they should do at a given situation, and yet fail to really think it over whether it is the same advice we're gonna apply when we're in their same situation. It's always easy to deceive ourselves only because we're not the ones struggling in a certain situation. But, I wonder what if we are in that spot? I've heard too many girls judging other girls getting pregnant out of wedlock and tell themselves and others proudly it's not gonna happen to them EVER. They are so sure until they fall in love. Many of them eat (ate) their own words because it's really different when you're the one in the boiling pot. It's always easy to give our thoughts. Easy to give advice but to apply the same advice is still at question because who really knows? Nobody knows. And because we are most of the time being self-righteous, we were damn sure we're firm not to commit a mistake...we end up being loose in guarding our hearts, our actions, our judgments...everything. We become too busy judging others we forget to look after ourselves. It's about time we all quit dictating how others should live and just be forgiving people aren't perfect. None of us are. We are all bound to fail just placed in the toughest situations. Just wait and the time will come when we're gonna face what and where we're weak at and that's the real test not by "people watching".