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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 5 Oct 15

Don't our attention get diverted by sooo many things as we grow older? Too many responsibilities and obligations to attend to. And singles aren't spared from these stuff. A lotta things we deem more important now than we did years...

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sharksfin I so agree. ^_^ Thankies.

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 24 Oct 12

They say we shouldn't be too concerned when people don't like us. Just let them be. There's no need to force yourself to them. I agree. But, the dilemma comes in when you're part of a circle and you just need to get along and...

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sharksfin Thanks, francesca5. ^_^ It's nice to bump into you here. I also started taking interest in psychology and other stuffs related to understanding people like personality typing. They help a lot. One thing I've learned was I gotta understand myself completely,...

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sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 24 Oct 12

They say we shouldn't be too concerned when people don't like us. Just let them be. There's no need to force yourself to them. I agree. But, the dilemma comes in when you're part of a circle and you just need to get along and...

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sharksfin Thanks, Raine38. I understand what you mean. It's but wise to just set a limit to how much you give to people, esp effort and emotions. But, well, I guess, there are people who are simply important to you and so you'll end up with a decision to put up with...

1 Nov 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 24 Oct 12

They say we shouldn't be too concerned when people don't like us. Just let them be. There's no need to force yourself to them. I agree. But, the dilemma comes in when you're part of a circle and you just need to get along and...

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sharksfin You're so right. There are times I just end up rehearsing and rehearsing the chain of events to figure out if I had really done anything. I wish people will also give enough importance to the people around them enough to learn how to communicate in stead of...

1 Nov 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin Right, as in RIDICULOUS, INSANE, NONSENSE. We are all different and we have to respect each other's uniqueness. If a person is vain, and another is poorly groomed or even smelly... it's not for us to judge PERIOD. Thanks for your comment, canellita.

30 Oct 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin There's a proper way to address our concerns about another person and this doesn't have to be talking behind their back. We can confront them gently and tell them what they did which offended us, in stead of sulking in one corner and mull over the offense and...

30 Oct 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin I couldn't agree more, Angelpink. Thanks.

30 Oct 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin Very well said, 41CombedaleRoad! I, too, had moments wherein I participated in hasty judgment due to peer pressure. I wanted to be in, but deep down, I hurt myself because I hurt God Who created the persons I judged. And, I did that only because I wanted to...

30 Oct 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin Thank you, deriellevc73. You're so kind. I agree to all that you said. It is none of our business anymore whatever others might want to do with their lives because that's theirs and we have ours to focus on and be concerned about. By judging them or...

30 Oct 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin I had answer this same idea a few times already through the comments of people who posted before you, Asylum. Please, if you have time, just browse the discussions. But, I so appreciate your thoughts. My style is like yours. I don't really allow myself to...

30 Oct 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin I do have that same principle and conviction, MiaFerrari. Though, I won't say that I don't have the nature of having judgment in my head. There are, of course, times when my mind just goes before me. But, I see to it that it doesn't affect my behavior and...

30 Oct 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin Yeah, live and let live. Care not so much how others wanna live their lives and give them their freedom to do whatever they wish. Besides, so what if they do whatever crazy thing they are doing? What is it to us? We're not even a bit affected! Nice, thoughts,...

30 Oct 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin It's true that it's almost inevitable that we judge people as instantly because our mind works all the time. We are all exposed to an environment where we are challenged to have opinion about everything or you're judged to be dumb. So, we get used to it until...

30 Oct 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin Good thinking there. I like the way you try to broaden your viewpoint. Well, to answer your question which is more dangerous... judging by labeling a person in your mind OR judging by spreading nasty talks about a person... I believe both are. Labeling...

30 Oct 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin Thanks for that, heartRob. Yes, it is the Golden Rule, which happens to be also Biblical.

30 Oct 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin Hi, doroffee. I think that example you gave really calls for discernment or proper judgment. Truly, you can't just give your trust to just anyone. Esp, being a girl, we have to be very cautious to whom we give our trust to. My topic doesn't include that. And I...

30 Oct 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin Hi, mr_pearl. I do agree that it's human nature and it's hard to just change it by merely repeating the rule. But, I don't think accepting something as natural and not try to change it is anything good or helpful. I mean, well, it's natural to feel the call of...

30 Oct 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin You're right, we may have personal judgments in our mind about a person or persons but we need not let it influence our behavior towards the person. And, with all our might, we should not allow these judgments be our basis in telling what kind of a person s/he...

29 Oct 12

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

It's funny how I hear people talking about how they feel so bad that people are so judgmental and this and that. How people are always saying negative things about them. Most would even quote lines about "judging others". What...

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sharksfin Thank you for your comment, edvc77. It's true that we're not supposed to be too quick to judge because just like everyone, we're also flawed. So many imperfections and mistakes. We may do the same as they did if placed in the same situation.

29 Oct 12

papskie @papskie (85) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

For you, what keeps a marriage going? Is it LOVE? or DECISION? Does love makes a marriage last? Or is it the decision?

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sharksfin I agree, Papsie, that it's "decision" that makes a marriage last. Because if people will depend on feelings or emotions, they are more likely to leave and not try to make the marriage work. But, deciding to stick with the relationship helps love to be...

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