will you fall in love with your co-worker?

When cupid strikes, I do think one cannot avoid it, that's what I think how the quote "Love is Blind" arises. One cannot never be too certain that such will not happen. When two person gets together well, share similiar interests and are both available, it is easily to hit it off, regardless if the person is "good" enough or not. Let nature takes it course.

Hi! Cindy! Yes, you and your friend are right in your opinion. It is better to be friends with co-worker or colleagues, because if one falls in love with colleauge or boss or subordinate, others in the office will come to know about it and it will be an embarassing situation. I can never think of falling in love with a colleague in office.

perhaps not. i can't say i won't but one can never know. i haven't experienced it before. i treat my colleagues the same. if i fall in love with one of the guys i work with it might pose a conflict at work. i try to avoid that kind of situations and just maintain the friendship as much as possible. some co-workers may be a bit closer than others but i would try to have my personal and work-related relationships apart.

Hello cindyhxf, I won't say that I won't fall in love with my co-worker but I will try to avoid that. It is hard when you have a different feelings towards your co-worker. It will just make you feel uncomfortable. I am married now and the chance of me getting to get closer to any of my co-workers is very slim *laughs* and yes, I hope it won't happen to me at all!

for me I would never fall in love or date a coworker. I think it would not end well either way....it will either end and then work will be awkward, or your work life will be jumbled with your personal life and it will be all work and no play. My boss and another lady in my office are married, and they talk about work ALL the time. I would never be able to live my life that way. I like to keep work at work and home at home.

For me, I did fall in love before with my co-worker. There is a bit of a conflict for a while, but he soon quit the job. I had also seen of cases of these in my company as well as my husband's ones. My manager married one of our co-workers just last year. They are still working together in the same company. There are also a few cases in my husband's company (although the 2 couples had denied of such relationships). I would say as long as the couples know how to differentiate work and personal things apart, it's really fine for this to happen.

You know, Love can happen to anyone to anywhere. But it is the person's decision if he or she will not fall for anyone. You know love has no boundaries, I fell inlove with my co-worker, but I kept it with myself because he already have a girlfriend. I felt that he have some kind of feelings for me too because of his gesture, but I did not entertain that.I want a peaceful life and please God , give me someone with no excess baggage. I am still hoping, not waiting for him, that someone will come along, because when you said you will wait you are expecting. I don't want to be hurt anymore, so I will just let God works for me when it comes to love.

Quite frankly, I do think that I fell in love with my co-worker once. I'm not sure whether he had the same feeling with me but I really enjoy his care of me. He always treated me so sweet and quite often I accidentally catched him staring at me with that special meaning. I got strange feeling but I have to keep it deep inside as we both have our own family. I don't want to destroy my family or his. That's why I have to forget him and I try to find another job.

if i love somebody , I will not care whether she is my co-worker or not. it has its' advantages and shortcomings, you must to be used to it. jsut live as normal.the difference is that your lover is so near to you

I did not want to fall with a co-worker before. Yes it really affects your work also when you guys are at the same area. This is how I think before.. " No WAY" yeah.. but now... my gosh! I think i am falling...

I think there were some advantages if they were falling love with each other.also they could deal with their relationship so very well that the quality of their work must be promoted fast.

I would never want to fall in love with a co-worker as it can become claustrophobic and if or when it ends you still have to work together mgraham126

Well, there's nothing wrong falling in love with a co-worker. You can even marry each other, provided the there's true love amongst you. Don't have any odd feeling about that.

It's easy to say and instruct yourself to not fall in love to someone, regardless of location and setting. Although it is preferred not to, most especially in a work environment, you really can't help it if your heart dictates it.

Hello cindy. I work in a school and I have quite a few colleagues who fall in love with each other and then get married with their own kids. Just next to my office there is a couple and they even work in the same office. They have been nice to each other as can be seen from what they do to each other. Also there are some other couples who work in the same school. So I don't think that it is impossible for colleagues to fall in love with each other if they are attractive to each other. Good luck to you, cindy.

I got married with my officemate, but we'd been very good friends first. Were not so many, however as our office was just a branch so we're all close to each other. You can't say however, sometimes love just struck anywhere. Though I understand how you feel, maybe nobody among your co workers seemed to meet the qualifications you're looking for a guy. That's alright maybe as seemed to be more exciting when your boyfriend is not a co worker, whom you see most of the time.

I fell in love with a co-worker before. And we will be celebrating our 4th anniversary as a couple this May. It was not the easiest thing to maintain the relationship. We had to make sure we don't appear too "couple-y" at work and our co-workers never had to deal with us fighting at work because everything was discussed in private (Read: never at work). A few months ago, I resigned and started a new job so we had little time together as compared to the time when we see each all the time.

i haven't experience getting in love with one of my co-workers, because since then, i never had a co-worker which is my type though. i am more closer to the girls and get intimidated being with the guys.

I don't understand why your co-worker feels that it is a strange thing to fall in love with his co-worker.I have heared many such cases in recent years.I think that happens frequently.For me,I think I will fall in love with my co-worker if he is good enough in my eyes,why not?One of my friends who married her co-worker told me that it doesn't influence her work.Thank you.Have a nice day!

Hmm, ever since I haven't had that experience, but I do have a friend from work that she fell in love with her co-worker, at first she didn't mind him, she doesn't even like him that much, but then after a few months, I was surprised to see them together, and I am happy for her. You really can never tell who your going to love, I know that, but he's not a co-worker of mine, but he is rather too far to be someone I could fell in love with, but then it happened. Now, I'm happy with him. Hehehe..