The One You Love or The One Who Loves You?

This is a good question and its very difficult depending on the situation, if you love someone and the other does not love it is difficult as you cannot be happy and at the same time the other person is also not happy. This is with reference to you but if considered from other perspective if someone loves you then atleast you know that you being taken care of and that way you remain happy and the other also stays happy because he/she knows that you are happy. For me staying with someone who loves you is better than someone you dont love and you cannot stay with someone you love!!!

hey!! nice topic here. I had chosen the one i love and left the one who loves me and i am still wondering whether it was the right decision or the wrong one. Maybe in some few years i will either regret it or be happy to have chosen the one i have loved and listened to my heart. Elders have always said that its better to marry the one who loves you and not the one whom you love. but i guess it depends from person to person.

I don't know weather i will choose thw one who loves me or not,nut now i prefer the one i love.I don't know this until i met one guy.he is almost crazy with me,he said that i am the one for him in this world.but the fact is that i have no feeling toward him,even when he hugs me ,i know i don't love him at all from the begining to the end.And i tell him about this many many times,but he seems never give up.He just keep calling me.oh,yes,he is the type of person who choose the one he loves too. ok,SO WE ARE the same kind of person,but the sad things is that we met together.

i feel there is no pot in running behind the person who doesnot love you. in such a relationship you give everything to the relationship just to get back a fraction of what you give. you bring happiness fo the other person but the other person is leat interested in you. where is your share of happiness....? chooose the one who loves you... in this case you would get get more than yo expect. well, whatever be the case, i feel the best is when there is mutual love and understanding. one sided love cannot carry a relationship far.

As for me, I'll choose the one that I love. If you love her/him, you would love to give your whole love to her/him.

It is tough. And, of course, it´s just a question. If might be different if I really had to choose. But most of the times both go together up to some extent. Many people say (an I agree) that there´s always one who loves more. I suppose that it´s because that person has more ability to love. I don´t want to chose but I like to be loved. Take care

Almost everyone would choose the one they love. For whatever reason. My logic would tell me all the time that I should better choose the one that loves me. It won't be long and I'll learn to love him back. But, it doesn't happen that way. Because love is love. There is no question anymore about it. We always choose to follow our feelings cause whenever we don't, we don't end up happy.

i will choose the one who loves me!love is the course of events,but live is unfeigned life!

It is a good topic. If I have no choice but to choose one,I will choose the one who loves me. Choosing the one who loves you can gain reputation in home. He/she will be a comprehensive mind to understand what you said and done. If you choose the one you love,but the one does not love you,you maybe live a unhappy life. He or she can not respect you. Actually, loving each other is perfect.

Either of the two, i will have to take d risk. But i guess, the situation is easier and wise if i will choose the one who loves me. If someone will love me to the fullest, of course i will try my best to reciprocate (there would be give and take). And also, most people say that in time i will learn to love him especially if he proves and continuously show his love. We will be both lucky if it will turn out good. If it ever happens that i will not fall in love with him, at least the weight of getting hurt will be lesser. But i wonder, maybe i would be feeling guilty after as he gave everything and i did not learn to love him. If i will choose the one i love, the risk of getting hurt is higher as definitely it would be a one way relationship. It's possible that i would be the only one giving and he would be the only one taking. I would be afraid that maybe he will leave me later on. But, on the other hand, if he is good and he falls in love later on, i am lucky.

Hmmmm...for me it is ideal that both of you love each other, if the one you love doesnt love you, then don't push it. It's like your the other person you really loves you but you can't love back that person. So I guess it is a never ending chase. For me, its better to not choose, that why time will tell who will really be with you. You never know there are another one who will love you and you will also love him or her. LOL I hope im not too confusing though. :D