How come some people have so many friends?

Well, its about the circle. If you are in a circle where there are lots of open people, you'll make friends. Also he maybe on a different level. Maybe he speaks their language better(which is the case with my brother) or maybe he is resourceful. You can't really tell

Human by nature is a social being. Ever heard of the saying, "no man is an island?" Possessions, popularity or even poise is not a guarantee to have friends. People are attracted to you because you are your own self. When people see the real "you," they will be drawn. Learn to laugh at your own mistakes, don't take life seriously, i mean learn to understand that you don't have to please people at all times - or you end up pleasing no one. Don't be bother what other people will say about you - learn to appreciate your own self and what you have...your skills, abilities and eccentricity. Don't copy other people - you are unique and beautiful! so be yourself, smile a lot, be respectful and laugh and cry with people - show them who you really are. Finally, know that you are loved! Go out there and love people no matter what or who they are - it might be a tough task but in the end you'll end up having friends. Then you become the person who could make this world a better place to live in. It is still a beautiful world isn't?

People with the need to have a large circle suffer from low self-esteem. They need validation from others so they do whatever it takes to fit in and please others. It is impossible to have more than a handful of true friends.

hi anuraa, They are definitely friendly persons and very approachable. I have also a friend in high school which is very popular. She is older than me and I treated her as my sister and she did same with me also.She was fourth year that time and I was in second year.Unlike with other seniors, I am not afraid to talk with her. She is a beautiful, jolly, talented and very intelligent girl.Those are the reasons why she is so popular. Despite her characteristics, she is not proud. She smiles at everybody.Why she became my friend is because we are in the same organization at the school. We are both members of the theater club. She is our group leader. And I can say that she practices democratic way of leadership. Whenever we have to decide on something, it is always the majority who wins. Weather she like the idea or not much, as long as the majority can sense that a certain action is good, she accepts it with all her heart.

Because they know how to make friends and they smile when they meet familiar faces. And also they are also pleasant when they talk to people..other people i would say. You have to be approachable to gain lots of friends, and be conversationalist.. basically you will get their attention if you know how to get along with them and if there is something in common with you guys.. and one thing you need to be observant and try to contribute topics and ideas..in short you need to be talkative..but not too much though..

I envy those people who easily gets acquanited and be friends to other people easily...maybe by smiling and being friendly to everyone can make friends.

my view is whether a person have many friends compare to the other one , basically is due to their different personality. A person who is more outgoing ,active ,have more confident type and like to interact with people and feel ease publicly. They are also more initiative in getting to know new friends. For those who have lesser friends not because they are not good but mostly who are passive, shy , uncomfortable if surround with many people. They are also lack of confident .

Friendly people can easily meet different individuals that sooner or later will become their friends. If you are open-minded, understanding and unselfish will be the best assets that a person might look in you. If have this quality you are a good friend of them. I have lots of closed friend and they are always be there for me not only in good times but also in bad times. They are my strength because i leave alone and they visit me everyday. If i have time also i will visit them and we mostly unite for fun.

those who have many friends are extroverts. we all have an aura around us and we don't allow many people to cross this aura and come close to us. there are people who extend the boundaries of the aura and let many people to come close. these are extrovert people and they don't hesitate in sharing their joys and sorrows with people. people who are intoverts would be restrict their conversations but extrovets would talk, they are dynamic and energetic. these qualities attract many people towards them and when people reach out to them they are welcomed whole heartedly and hhence, extrovert people have so many friends.

I think it's when you have a freind, and that friend also have friends that she or he will introduce you to, and automatically your friend friends become your friends, because for some reason you might always bump into your friend friends and you all might end up chatting and one chat will lead to anoter chat, and your friend friends might introduce you to their friends and I believe that's how some people end up having so many friends.

At times cheerful people tend to have several friends. They are easy to deal with and fun to be with. You won't be bored spending hours talking to them and every time you're with that person you'll feel at home. They are warm and funny, everybody wants a good time everyday so a crowd usually go with "these" friendly people, no wonder they have several friends. My best friend has several friends and at times I feel like I need an appointment before I can even talk to her, but I'm grateful coz she takes time to be with me. I also have a lot of friends but its hard to divide quality time for so many so I only keep the ones that are really precious closest to my heart. It's not really about the quantity. Its the quality of time you can give to one when they need you that matters most.

i don't believe in friends.

becoz they are open minded , they dont hesitate to talk anyone , they understand each other & due to some similarities in nature of them. they dont try to make friends ,but try to make others happy.

I think de first thing these kind of people make so many friends is that they are good in comunication.I've seen such people around me,and I think they share the same characteristic.once you know how to talk,people will lk you and join you often,but of course,he/she need to know the thing people lk or dislike so tat they will not get angry when he/she mention about it.