do you find it hard to say sorry?
By donnakristel
@donnakristel (1704)
Philippines
May 11, 2009 9:41am CST
i don't know why i find it hard to say sorry. i think i don't want to accept that it is my fault. i find it hard because i believe that i have my own reasons why i did something wrong. it makes me think that i will be a lesser person when i accept my fault. i can't accept my faults easily.
how about you? do you find it hard?
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6 responses
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
13 May 09
i dont like being wrong but when i am i will apologize.. if i am NOT at fault i refuse to apologize though.. a lot of people just want to guilt you into apologizing for something that isnt your fault or is really their fault which is bs..
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@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
13 May 09
thanks...
it is really difficult. wish i can have the courage to say it,
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
12 May 09
It is ego problem and the sooner we get rid of this problem the faster we would reach to our goals. Saying sorry is one of the toughest task in this world. Saying sorry to your boss isn't that hard but to your family members ,it is like climbing a mountain, is'nt it?
I am also no exception, I also feel that I will be smaller person when i will say sorry to my family members.
@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
13 May 09
thanks..
yes, you are right..just ego problems. your ego that you can't beat easily...hope we can beat our egos!
@gongchhua (272)
• China
11 May 09
when I face to different person, I have different attitudes. Facing my good friends,When I did something wrong, I find it easy to say sorry. Because I don't want to do harmful to my friends and break our relationship. Facing my parents, I find it hard to say sorry when did something wrong. Because I don't want to accept my fault. Maybe I shoud change my view. No matter who I faced, I should say sorry when I did wrong.
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@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
11 May 09
thanks...
i think we should change our views about this.