wgh423

@wgh423 (65)

China • Age 41

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The new job, the new life

wgh423 @wgh423 (65) • China 10 Sep 12

I just left Shanghai two months ago due to the family problem. My brother died in an accident. It's a terribly miserable thing for our family. To comfort my parents, i choose to come back to hometown. Now i find new job,...

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After while, she is not the one for you?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 9 Jun 09

Had you ever experienced that? After a while, for instance, 3 years relationship with that person, you just finally realized that he/she is not the one you really want for your life. That might be her personality, her habits, or...

decision

love

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wgh423 That proves u don't love her any more, such"she is not the one for me" is a lame excuse,when u decide to ask her to ur gf, u must think "she is absolutely my better half". As time goes by, we all change little or more, and we begin to doubt she/he is the right...

10 Jun 09

Don't you feel like that you are fall behind in getting married?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 1 Jun 09

When you go to one wedding to another, that you saw your friends got married, your cousins, or your sister all got married, don't you feel like that you are so fall behind on getting married yourself? Don't have this internal...

cousins

friends

get married

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wgh423 i aslo ask myself the same question why i cann't marry with the right one. i'm not ugly, i have own job, my character is not bad, why i cann't find the mr.right? we maybe met some one who is not bad,but cann't be spouse,as he is not my cup of tea. anyhow, i...

2 Jun 09

Especially for LADIES...CHICKEN WINGS IS DANGEROUS...MUST READ..

myfb2009 @myfb2009 (8296) • Malaysia 16 Apr 09

Any ladies like to eat chicken wings here? I just received this email from a friend of mine regarding chicken wings..It's a true story and just happened a few months ago. That particular lady, likes to eat chicken wings...

chicken wings

dangerous

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wgh423 how terrible it is! I just heared the similar news. In fact i like chicken wings very much before,but now i'm afraid i won't touch it for long time. I wonder whether these profiteers eat the chinken wings or not, don't they know their action can destroy so...

21 May 09

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Counseling

marcyyyy @marcyyyy (517) • United States 18 May 09

About 4 years ago I was going thru some emotional and life problems. My doctor suggested I go to a counselor. I doubted that it would help me, but I did go for 3 sessions. I talked about my problems, and he was kind and tried to...

counseling

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wgh423 I don't have experience of counseling. Here if we have emotional and life problems,we prefer to talking with friends,relatives or even strangers,but no counselor.We don't consult until we have problem of investment,stock and company management and so on.I...

20 May 09

When First Impressions go wrong.

alokn99 @alokn99 (5717) • India 17 May 09

Smartly dressed, good command with the language and speaking with soft tones and a very dignified manner while speaking to the lady at the bank counter. I thought of the person as a pefect gentleman. I was in for a rude shock...

faking

first impressions

misleading

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wgh423 It cann't be denied that we should not judge person by appearance or the first sight. I always see some very beautiful girls with dirty words or impolite behaviour.

18 May 09

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what are the things you do if you can't express your anger to the right person?

christian1 @christian1 (134) • Greece 1 May 09

There are times that we cant express our anger to the person we are angry with.What i do is im writing my anger to him to express it.then after reading many times i burn it.you what are the things you do if you cant personally...

anger

expression of anger

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wgh423 For me, i think i will eat a lot of snacks and go shopping.

14 May 09

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You have to do this.... dont do that.....

bhabytart @bhabytart (1116) • Philippines 5 May 09

sometimes i feel like im a robot.... people keeps telling "you have to do this...... dont do that" sigh..... why do other people feels that they can always order other people around? am I different from them? why are they SO...

myself

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wgh423 U should admit that everyone enjoy leading others if they have that power, and on the other hand,everyone don't like be ordered. They are bossy because they wanna get confidence from that,though some don't have that right and power. I dislike those people...

14 May 09

Do you ever think yourself as a failure?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 10 May 09

I always thought of myself as a failure. I watch my friend one by one getting married. Although I am in love with this girl, but I am not sure whether she likes me or not. I am afraid of many things. I couldn't make up decision...

failure

myself

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wgh423 Anyhow, don't give up and try ur best to fulfil ur dreams. We all know that success is mostly failure, but we are so young,we can learn from these experience and do right in the future. And give u a sincere advise, never compare with others in the life, how do...

14 May 09

Will You Ever Get......

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 13 May 09

married again? This is a million dollar question that often comes to women or men who have been in limbo for a long long time. Can you bear to answer such a question without feeling agitated to the person who asked. I hope you...

love

remarried

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wgh423 Though i'm single and don't have experience of marriage, i'm already aware that no one can say that she/he would never divorce all her/his life. One of my friend divorce,when i ask her why, she just told me that they just no longer love each other.Speaking...

13 May 09

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Hindsight is always 20/20, the things we regret.

drknlvly6781 @drknlvly6781 (6246) • United States 12 May 09

How many of you have made decisions that you now regret? I know this is a dumb question, most everyone who has made it to adulthood have things they regret. But this is something that I am dealing with now. Before I moved in...

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wgh423 First we are not prophet, we cann't predict what will happen tomorrow,so don't complain urself. Anyhow, work hard to get what u want and be positive at any time...

13 May 09

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do you find it hard to say sorry?

donnakristel @donnakristel (1704) • Philippines 11 May 09

i don't know why i find it hard to say sorry. i think i don't want to accept that it is my fault. i find it hard because i believe that i have my own reasons why i did something wrong. it makes me think that i will be a lesser...

relationship

sorry

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wgh423 It's hard for me to say sorry though i'm wrong, not because i'm shy or others can underestimate me, i just don't wanna say sorry, i can do it by action instead of saying.

13 May 09

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Lure Me

russso @russso (1693) • Philippines 12 May 09

If there's one luxury that I have --- that's traveling. I am almost done seeing all the nicest places in my country and I'm set to start seeing the world pretty soon. If I were to visit your country, can you reco one beach and one...

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wgh423 I like traveling too,especially climbing mountains. however, i have no enough time to go travelling after working.

12 May 09

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Do you have the right to interfere on your bestfriends life?

christian1 @christian1 (134) • Greece 11 May 09

My bestfriend is the one i trusted most.sharing secrets,laughters,and sorrows.and shes the first one i asked whatever i need an opinion.and what she says most of the time are considered.but in terms of personal life,do we have the...

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wgh423 U can share anything with ur bestfriend but don't interfere her life. If u think her bf is just wanna fool her, you can tell her what u think and the proof,but let her decide what she should do next!

12 May 09

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Do you have a savings?

larish @larish (2191) • Philippines 11 May 09

It is said that it is not how high your salary/income is, It is how much you save? The standard of living a person has does not depend on the material things he owns - brand new house, brand new car, branded clothes an...

save

savings

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wgh423 My salary is just enough for the monthly budget,If i can manage it well,i think i can save much now,but i cann't help to buy things when i have money in hand,I know this is a bad habit,but i cann't control myself. From now on, i will try my best to save...

12 May 09

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what is the biggest mistake you've ever made in your life?

cainam @cainam (493) • Philippines 11 May 09

i have done lots of mistakes in my life but the worst one was when i resigned in my previous job. i find it hard to find another one after that. if feel dumb that time.

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wgh423 I have similar experience with u, i quit my job without new offer, it takes me almost two months more to find new job. But i never regret what i did, as in the previous company, i'm treated unfair.

11 May 09

let's pray for the people in SIchuan

ibelle09 @ibelle09 (155) • China 11 May 09

Tomorrow is just exactly one year after the big earthquake happened in Sichuan. 5.12. This is the date that we will remember in our heart.During the earthquake, we found that we were so helpless when facing the disaster. Our...

pray

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wgh423 I cann't find more words to express my feeling now, let's observe silently and pray for them,hope the reconstruction can make sichuan people live happy life both physically and mentally.

11 May 09

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Can You live a Quality Life with Chronic Pain?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 8 May 09

Are you living with chronic pain? We all wish to live a quality life but not many people are blessed with good health, they always have health issues and hospitals have been their haunt place or second home. I feel sorry for...

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wgh423 i'm not living with chronic pain,but i have a surgical operation four years ago, the doctor told me that my disease maybe recur within 5 years, the percentage is 30% of this kind illness. So at the short time after opertion, i always worry about the...

11 May 09

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A Tea mate is bossing around. Its Irritating!

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 21 Apr 09

In our team there is a guy who likes to sit on others head. He has a nature like he keeps on oiling the team lead, manager very much. Thats why they also favor them. He also back stab all others and I have seen my team lead also...

irritating team mate

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wgh423 yeh,there are always such people like leading others, they hope others obedient to them, they wanna show their power,but in fact they are nothing, maybe the leader like them just because they stab other colleagues in the back. I also hate this kind of people....

11 May 09

how many money have you earn every month, what's your salary?

TerryYuan @TerryYuan (229) • China 2 Dec 08

hi friends, i am curious about the salary. i am from china. i have always heard that western have high salary. i want to ask some friends from western, that means europen, sua, canda, aus..... i mean developed countries. please...

salary

the meters

what is meters

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wgh423 HI,Terry,ur salary is very high compared with us, mine is only half of urs, how poor i'm! I cann't even think the house,that's a extravagant hope, a dream.

11 May 09