Afraid to become an OLDMAID!?

i personally don't have any friends for her, but i think your friend's problem may be that she's holding out looking for "prince charming" or waiting on the "perfect" guy. it's a mistake a lot of women make. it's not the worst thing in the world, but your friend must realize that while it's a good thing she's holding out for somebody who's worth her time.. she may be missing out on a great opportunity!

I think you need not to worry about her as I guess she is is comfortable with the situation as thats the way she is and she likes to be.

i can understand your friend's desperation because at 37, a woman is not that young anymore and definitely looking to spend a life with somebody... i got married at 27 to a man that i really love so much... he comes out of the blue and i never searched for him... we had gone through a lot of things together now... i think your friend have to lower down her expectation and just accept that no man is perfect in this world... i wish her luck... take care and have a nice day...

You mean she's very choosy with the right guy based on her qualifications. well, it works for some but for most, you either accept him or changed him. well, she shouldn't give up if you are right about your description. am pretty sure she'll find some one out there, there's so many men in the world she can choose between A,B, C..have a nice day

I'll be 31 this year, and as much as like to date right now, I really need to concentrate on getting my life straightened out before dealing with someone else. I'm not at all upset at not being married now--one of my friends was 36 when she was married, and another one of my friends was 38 when she and her husband had their first baby. It's all in God's timing.

Being choosy would end up nothing and being an old maid...because she's looking for a perfect guy or should i say an ideal guy and to tell you, there's no such thing as an ideal one in real life...so why not go for a try if there's someone will court her..give it a shut! And you mention that friend of yours is smart, sexy and so forth..maybe one of the reason why? Guys feel intimidated by her, so why not go out and have fun?

She sounded so desperate and at 37 her biological clock is ticking away very fast and sure it will be difficult to find Mr right at this age as most men go for younger women. And getting to know someone in a distance is not a good idea as in her bid to end her single status she might end up choosing Mr Wrong. It will be more appropriate for her to get involved in activities that give her wider opportunities in meeting the right person.

hi friend.. why you afraid to become a oldmaid...evrything is decied by god...i have a great blelif in this...have anice time...happy mylotting..

well.. the thing is most guys don't like woman who seem smart.. they usually prefer woman who are funny and dumb.. i guess your friend would have to fake out some goofing around to get noticed..ask her to give it a try and let me know.. ;)

oh,I don't know.I am 26 and I am also a single one. These days there are less and less good guys. I hope your friend have a good luck!

hi rose, you're friend is blessed by you bcoz you are comppasionate about of what she feels. Anyway, blessed singleness comes on our way...why? there were women who wanted to get married and when something happens and broke up then they will realize and say " I hope that i would be single again ". Why? lots of women were battered and fell into divorce because of pushing something that is not really the will of God for them. God taught us how to wait patiently for His will but we are hot-headed someting that we make our own way. Tell her to enjoy the years of being single so that when the perfect will of God comes, then she will ever live happily with her spouse ever after. I believe when she seek God first then God will send her a partner in life. Not only a partner but a descendants...God bless!

i think there's a problem within herself that needs to discover. her qualification is so high i think that guys can make it or dont qualify it. this is just my idea ha not sure. so impossible that since birth dont have bf, she has many it only last shorter i guess. she soon to look at it before the time passes by coz its hard to make pregnant if we are old.