If you reached thirty and your not married, will you get worried?

Rather than worry about myself, I think I would be more worried about my parents.Because they have to face the pressure from others. As a new generation, I take single life for granted, but not my parents. Seeing my peers getting married, getting pregnant, they must be very worried.Then I will do something for them!

That is I am at my late 20s now but in a relationship. Age doesn't bother me about changing my life situations to having someone to grow old with. We have talked with my baby(as we call each other) to have to get most out of it before getting married of which I agreed too. Having everything on the right time and place that is having our careers gone stable before we would end up to married happily ever after.

I will be 64 this year and i am still not married but leading a very happy and contented and healthy life.

I am a girl approaching 30 & single. I am not worried if i still have not got married until 30, but truely parents will be so worried about it, in their idea, a girl must be marreid before 30. if not, the people around will look at her in a diifferent way: and their reputation will be damaged. anyway, four words: single is simple; double is trouble~

this was exactly the same reason why at 27 i chose to elope. there were a lot of conditions and i want to be a wife first for two years before i become a mother and when marriage was requested to be put on hold at 27 i thought i don't want to risk a child with downe syndrome since i learned that there is an increased risk of this when a woman gets pregnant in her thirties. i know of a guy who is the same age as you that i said to get married since i know from theory that the ideal age difference of a couple is 3-7 years with the guy being the older one. i told him to marry his girl already since if he gets a lot older he would have had to have an older girlfriend also. this would mean, to a high extent, a girl who puts career first and if he wants a wife who puts career first then he get married later. no offense to anybody.

I got married when I was 23 so I can not respond to this discussion.

I started to freak out when I turned 30. And then I got panicky and then I realized what's the big deal. Only panicky people rush into something with someone because they are scared to be alone. All things happen in life for a reason. So I have not met my Mr. Right yet. One day hopefully I will. But in my opinion too many people are rushing life now days. ANd I am glad I am realizing it this young so maybe I can enjoy things more.

As a girl,sometimes I worry getting older alone.I will be thirty a few years later.I hope I could get married before thirty.I dont like being pregnant at an old age.That would be difficult for women to recover.So,I think thats the main thing I worry if Im still single after thirty.

Age doesn't matter, we can't change it. It is better to meet someone and be truly happy with them whatever your age. I was thirty before I met my husband, I had been single for 18 months before that, so I had the odd moment where I wondered if I would ever meet the right man to settle with. Later that year I met him, we married under 3 years later and a year after that had a baby who will be three later this year. For women it is slightly different I guess as they worry about their biological clock when they know they would like children. Age is just a number.

you know what iam already 31 this year. and i dont have this feeling of worries nor fear that im not married yet. because i choose to be single and i am happy with my life now with my 2 kids. its complicated right? you may ask me how it happens to me having two kids and single? LOOOL well this is me, im unique. hahahahah

Hello n30wing, I am 33 years old also. I'm not worried about getting married. Me and my boyfriend has been together for six years. If I get married great if not I'm not going to cry about it. That's the least of my worries. Happy myLotting!

Of course I will worry because in my country a girl should get married before 30. People will look at girls who are old and single in a differnt way. It is also a bad name for my parents if I don't get married before 30. My parents had lots of tension when my marriage was getting delayed eventhough I was only 26 at that time. Luckly, I found a good person and got married before thirty.

I think I wouldn't get worried when I reach my 30's and I'm still single. As long as I know I've lived my life to the fullest.. it's completely fine. :) Also, I don't want to force myself on getting married, I want it to come at the right time to avoid mischiefs along my realtionship. have a nice day and happy mylotting :D

I really wouldn't worry. As long as I am happy,fulfilled, and loved by my family, what is there to worry about. Marriage will come when it is meant to be. Right now I am 39 and still I do not worry about not getting married. I may not get married after all, but I still do not worry. I have a fulfilled life, a good job, a happy family. I travel a lot, well, really a lot which I really like. I think I wouldn't be able to do what I am doing right now if I were married. No regrets. Married or not married... there is nothing to worry about. If the right man comes, then why not. But I wouldn't push myself to marriage even if it is not right just for the sake of getting married.

I am going to be 31 this coming September and I didn't get worried even if my friends and family are always saying that I need to be married before I reach 30. I have met the love of my life 8 months ago only, we are in a serious relationship right now but we don't know when to get married as our financial status is not yet that stable. My mother is also asking me when we are going to get married but there is a good timing for everything.

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Hi n30wing...I was 36 when I got married and my husband was much older than me. But we're very happy with each other and definitely think it was worth the wait! Good luck to you!

Well I am past 30 and was married long before I was 30 but at that time that is just what you did it seemed. Do not get me wrong, I adore Hubby and the many years we have had together but I happen to be one of the lucky ones to have met and married a wonderful man that loves me and takes care of me so well. I think it is great now days that people are taking their time to get to know each other better before making that very big step. Many are also completing their schooling, getting a good job and focusing on their careers. Today people are also choosing to start families later in life, so I think waiting until you are 30 or older to take that step is not at all anything to be concerned about when it comes to getting married. Many people marry much too young before they have even had a taste of what the World has to offer and unfortunately some marry the first person that they meet and feel a lot of peer pressure to get married.

It is more important of choosing the person for you. You're a man and biologically speaking, age really doesn't matter with you. It is best that you choose the best girl for you and don't be discourage because of your age. As for me, since I am a woman, I really got scared when I reach 30 and I am still single. Luckily I gat married last year at age 32. lol.

No, I would not have worried if I was not married when I reach 30. As long as a person is happy with their life whether they are married should not matter. Many people do not get married until they are alot older then 30. You are right when the time is right then it will happen people should not get married just because they are thirty or over.