I feel so inadequate!

You need to go see a reproductive endocrinologist, and ask your doctor about putting you on metaforim. Often with the use of Met and a lose of weight those with PCOS van become pregnant with no other intervention. and you are not getting old. I had my miracles when I was 35 years old.. You have so many options ahead of you, do not give up hope and do not be down on yourself.

I am in a similar situation than you are. Not being able to get pregnant is hard. My husband and I suffer from male infertility. The important thing to remember is that we live in a time of age where help is available. Don't be shy about talking to your doctor. It feels embarrassing, but with 1 in 7 couples having trouble to conceive doctors are not going to be judgemental. As you already know that you suffer from PCOS you obviously spoke to a doctor before. Just make an appointment, explain the situation and ask for advise. If you want to improve your chances to get pregnant already now you should start making sure your weight in in a healthy range (between 19 and 30 BMI) and you eat healthily. It's not an easy road to motherhood when you as a couple suffer infertility, but if all else fails, you at least know that you are in a loving relationship. You might even consider adoption, being able to give a loving, stable home to a child. Don't let it get yourself down. Infertility isn't your fault, it is just destiny. And it doesn't mean you'll never have kids.