would you get into a relationship with someone who is 14 years older than you?

would you get into a relationship with an older person? Hi Fake_you...... my answer is yes, I would get into a relationship if the other person was way older than me. I was in a relationship before and the other person was 17 yrs older. Things didn't work out however but it wasn't due to the age difference. Anyhow if you are feeling a strong chemistry with the other person I would have to wonder what does age really matter? Hope you have a nice life and make the best decision for yourself. Remember that no one can live your life for you. YOu are the only one who can be the best judge to figure out what is best for you.... take care. be blessed!

Hello fake_you, It depends on my feelings towards him. I don't mind the age gap and whatever problems that may arise later as long as I have the same feelings too. But of course, I won't go to too older guys if I am at your age For me, age difference is not a big problem in a relationship but I do agree that many problems can arise because of that!

It relly depends on your age. I am in my early fifties and 14 years is not a big deal, as long as he was not too "old-man-ish. Paul McCartney is 13 yrs my senior and he can put his slippers under my bed any time!! As long as the person shares my interests and we get along and love each other, age is just a number.

Age doesnt matter. If you are in love why not. If you dont love him ignore him. Someone who is matured is better than an immature one. If you got married its either you will look older or he will look younger.

why not? as long as the person is true to you, single and stable in life -- sure thing.. for sure, there will be adjustments but i think thats not hard enough if you intend to have a relationship with him.

If you think he's too old, he is.

One of my daughters was married to her husband for 25 years and he is 15 years older than her and my eldest daughter is 49 and her husband is 29 and tghey seem to be very happy

No I wont get into such relationships. The age difference tends to make the male or female, who ever is elder to boss around. Make the other feel very low, and even at times treat as kid. The other person is forced to loose his or her individuality.

My ex and I were 16 years difference so age really is just a number. I kinda like your romantic situation, professor/student thing.. sounds like a movie.. Don't let age difference stop you.. if you both love each other and are devoted to one another then there's no worries there. Good luck though

If I really love that person or if I really have some sincere and honest feeling for him then I won't be looking back instead I will go for it and I will appreciate the wonderful moments I have been granted. Love is so sacred and pure, it happens anytime without bearing in life the age, the religion and status so let yourself go with this wonderful space. Listen to your yourself first and decide. I will do the same thing if I was in your place.

Hello There, I am not sure if i will get into a relationship like that. There was one time, i am in love with this man who is 10 years oldder than me.I think we are perfect match! But my mom against it, but the reason she againsted it is not only because he is 10 years oldder than me, it's because he was married before and then he got divorce, my mom thought we are not fit to be together. So we have to end our relatioship. I was sad and not happy, but i am okay for now. My suggestion is go for it, give you a chance and give him a chance, if you finally can't be together, it's okay, at least you tired. Right?

A large gap in age in a relationship can definitely be a problem if the age difference is something that matters to you. It sounds like you do feel that age is an issue in terms of building a lasting relationship as you mention "he's way too older than me" and "there could be many problems". I personally have an issue with the age of my partner. I don't want someone much younger or older than myself. I would like to grow old with the person I love and experience life together with someone who has the same frame of mind that I do. I think that two people who have grown up in such different times probably don't see things in the same perspective. It just doesn't seem like it would be a compatible or strong relationship to me. I will stick to a partner who is within a few years of my own age.

I don't think age differences matter for many people. If I were to consider a relationship with anyone, even if they were 14+ years my senior, what would be important to me is if we had most things in common and truely loved and respected each other. In that case what would the age difference matter? Are you saying that there could be many problems in the relationship that you are considering? If so, then it would certainly depend on what type of problems there would be and if the two of you believed you could overcome them.

The rule is as long the woman is younger than the man shouldnt be any problem.

14 years? That's nothing! LOL My husband is 63 and i'm 27. That's almost 36 years. We have a wonderful marriage, and we get along just great. Age was never an issue for us. We love all the same things, we're crazy for eachother, and we are best friends. We couldn't be happpier if someone paid us.

That's just silly. You seem very naive & inexperienced ...perhaps that is what he likes about you. If you are uncomfortable with the situation and it sounds like you are, just avoid it. Tell the guy you're not interested. It cannot be a successful relationship as you are very negative about him...in your words "he's way too older than me", "big age gap" (21 and 35 are just numbers) "many problems". How do you know what problems there would be??? He could be a nice guy or he could be a creep, looking for someone young and naive whom he can mould to his own way. Get to know him better but be very careful. Never see him alone or in situations where he can take advantage of you. If he wants you to meet him for drinks or coffee or a meal, make sure it is a very public place in the daytime.

Hey, Well I am personally a male, so I don't really think I could comment. But I think that for women, I think that you shouldn't really marry someone that has such a huge age gap, because sometimes different generations just don't match. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!

Hi, i will tell you my opinion, but i know for sure that you are very young and our views are different, i am more mature. So, in a relation, don t matter age, religion, color of skin or if you are from USA and he is from Russia...a good relation must to be basset other criteria, people have feelings, not a number of years. I know couples who can live and love tochether no matter what. so, you must ask yourself if you like and care about him...not how old he is. Is your decision, but as i say before in a love relation is important what is in your heart not in your id papers.

No I will never prefer friend,age is certainly a factor, in my family the wives are younger than the hubbys.I was married in 1968, i was 23, my wife was 16, my brother, my sons are 7-10 years older than their wives, my daughter is 8 years younger than her hubby Thank you so much for this post. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. . HAPPY MAKAR SANKRANTI, Happy PONGAL

My daugher's mother is 13 years older than me. Does that count? Yes i would. Problem is that the relationship did not last because of age difference. who can figure? Right now i am in relationship with someone my age and its wonderful.