Do you think that is right to listen to your heart?

All too often we listen to our heart and not take into consideration the many factors that had we stopped to think about we may not have made that choice. In your case those considerations are considerable. If you move there you will be giving up all that you know and your family. To say there is always the phone or the Internet is to not really understand the true impact. When you move there, because he has his own business, it will most likely be for good. Of course you know that. You will ultimately be giving up your U.S. citizenship even though there may be a way around that. The culture change for you will be dramatic. You can indeed overcome that but it may very well put a strain on your relationship for as long as it takes for you to make that adjustment. Knowing the language however makes it so much better for you. And you must consider this. What if, following marriage, you discover he is not the man you think he is and need to leave him. God forbid that but it could happen. Will you then be the one starting all over again? And where will your citizenship be then? It is true that if he is doing well in his business, it would be very hard for him to do so here, especially not knowing English. So your only real option may be to move there. I am not trying to talk you out of anything but please consider all the ramifications for you before you commit to anything. If I were you, and if I decided to go there, I would find out what it takes to retain my citizenship in the US. Losing that is not to be taken lightly. It is my understanding that as long as you have a mailing address somewhere in the U.S. you will not loose it. Many people have moved to Mexico because they can live much better there and yet retain their citizenship by simply having a mailing address in their name. Now I was told this so please check it out. Do not take that as truth until you know for sure it is. In spite of all this please know that there are ways of doing things no matter how complicated they are. You just have to consider all the ramifications and then go for it. I do wish you well.

Both of you will have to use both, your heads and your hearts on this one. Long distance relationships are hard enough when you live in the same country, imagine what it's like international. Speaking has someone with experience living in other countries, it will be a significant cultural change for either of you to make a move like that. - Are you prepared to give your entire support system (family and friends)? Is he? That's what you or he would be giving up with a permanent move. You say you are emotionally unstable. For this reason alone, I would recommend against making the move. Sometimes you're going to want to talk to someone close and you won't have that. Are you both prepared for an expensive long distance phone bill? - Are you prepared to be completely dependent on him for EVERYTHING? Is he? That's the way it will be for awhile until either of you overcame the language difference. If he doesn't speak english, he will be solely dependent on you like a child until he learns the language. The same applies to you if you move there. - Is he REALLY everything he appears to be to you? Have you be REAL with him when you have been together? In the 3 years how much time have you really spent together? This is a big one here. I have personally witness quite a few failed Internet relationships and only heard of a few that worked out. When you follow your hear only, it feels like love will over come everything. It's a GREAT feeling too, but unfortunately, it's not reality. Give it more thought and time and both of you MAKE SURE you know EVERYTHING about each other before making the leap. Cheers, Stan

dont think alwayse listen your heart never listen yo your mind think twice if you lost this chance you will regret it later

I always remember the past that generated from the United States,now I konw the outcome of two people is always separated from the ends of the earth ,there are too many reasons to explain this outcome.Only at this time but I do not know what kind of explanation is in the end! What:Two of the day to day with each other ,inseparable you will be happy? Read the sentence:the distance is the best distance,but not grasp the sence of propriety.Perhaps the greedy people always want to get it~total more,but have not received more thought,more will be lost.