Friends are strong
By Gabs
@gabs8513 (48686)
United Kingdom
May 31, 2009 1:21pm CST
I just need to come in and say this as I am disgusted and I hope whoever has been doing this reads this
A sweet Friend of ours has passed away, there is a lot of People here which are her Friends that are hurting
One of her Friends has been writing about her, has been keeping other Friends up to date, and we have all been supporting each other and the Family of the Member
Now someone on here has decided to use their evilness and their trolling to hurt a Member by getting all the Discussions deleted, once again it is proven that mylot does not read before delete, or they would not be deleting the Discussions and honoring their Members and the Member that has passed on
But no the Discussions are being deleted and yes I guess this one will not last long either but I just want to get something through to whoever the Coward is
You can not delete the Love and care among the circle of Friends here who are mourning BellaofChaos
You can not delete the love and memory of this Sweet Friend as it is in our heart
You can not delete the Determination among her Friends to hold together and keep her Memory going
Delete one Discussion another will start
Finally-------please take note of this Troll, you are a sick minded A**hole that one Day will get their Come uponce I suggest you get a Life
Mylot Admin please read the Discussions before deleting them, it is upsetting to her Family and Friends to be attacked like this by sick minded Morons
To make it a Discussion even though I know it will not last
Have you ever met such a sick Person,
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16 responses
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
31 May 09
gee I can't seem to post here, but you are right some people are really sickening,
and I agree I do not believe mylot reads what they delete, there are other places that will restore discussions if they were wrongfully deleted but not here,
sometimes I want if mylot is just a computer program and nothing more.
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@KrazyKlingon (5005)
• United States
31 May 09
I also wonder about the "MyLot moderators" whether they're really human or if they're just a mere computer program.
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@KrazyKlingon (5005)
• United States
31 May 09
Oopsie - I hit the post button too prematurely.
There have been that rare incident where MyLot have restored deleted discussions, as well as people who somehow, found themselves deleted. I also have one friend who got so fed up with mylot that she canceled, & was un-canceled by MyLot.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
31 May 09
Hi there Sweetie
Well this has proven that they don't as I do not believe any Person would think those Discussions offensive as they where not, they where tributes to a wonderful Member
The Circle of Friends is stronger then this Person but it just will not enter my Mind that there are People like that about I mean to use that as a Hate Campaign is sick and Disgusting
Hugs to you Rose
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@KrazyKlingon (5005)
• United States
31 May 09
It seems that someone's on a delete rampage again. I already lost count on how many discussions just went bye-bye. I'm beginning to think that this is their way of not paying people without deciding to stop paying, or we have an abusive moderator, if they're still human (if that).
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
31 May 09
Hi Krazy
The thing is the Discussions that are being deleted are a Tribute to a wonderful Friend of ours, it is hurting us all and of course her Family
The Friend who has been posting the Tributes and keeping us updated is the only one who they are targeting, I put up with a lot but not this, it is sick and evil to use this to get to another Member who at this time is hurting very much as she was the closest to Bella, we are all hurting and we all love her but this particular Member whose Discussions are being targeted was very close to Bella and it has hit her very hard,
I can not get over the fact that there are People like this Coward about
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@KrazyKlingon (5005)
• United States
31 May 09
Well - this is the first time that my post count has been jumping up & down like a yo-yo (or an elevator on the move). However, at the same time, after that person lost several discussions, someone else jumped on & started a similar discussion.
I'd post a list of the replacement ones, but I'm not going to make it easy by making a list for that moderator to follow.
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@KrazyKlingon (5005)
• United States
31 May 09
I also sent a message to the lady who lost all those discussions, & hopefully, one of our respondents to those discussions will honor us with her presence also.
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@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
31 May 09
It befuddles me as to why the Trolls are running rampant here and in other sites too. I did not have the pleasure of knowing BellaofChaos. I wish the family peace.
To the Trolls you wander aimlessly and spread poison along the way....your day will come.
Big huggers to you Gabs.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
31 May 09
gee I can't seem to post here, but you are right some people are really sickening,
and I agree I do not believe mylot reads what they delete, there are other places that will restore discussions if they were wrongfully deleted but not here,
sometimes I want if mylot is just a computer program and nothing more.
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@KrazyKlingon (5005)
• United States
31 May 09
It seemed that the site was having problems. That was probably the reason for your being unable to post.
Also, you can say THAT again.
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@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
1 Jun 09
I've met several people like that hon. And they disgust me to no end. It's as if they want to pass on their pathetic stupid idiotic lives onto those people around them that are good and kind and loving. Whoever the culprit is here, knock the garbage off for crying out loud! Let us grieve without harassment for a change!
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@dreamweaverjan (3471)
• United States
31 May 09
HI Gabs: You tell'em !! You mean another discussion has now been deleted?
How awful!! It takes a really sick, twisted S.O.B. to be so cruel on here;
and Yes My lot needs to READ FIRST before hitting the DELETE KEY for heavens sakes!!
Neither of the two discussion I've read deserved to be deleted;
What a sick sick scumbag of a troll!!!
I feel so sorry for that woman and her family I did not know her personally but her and her family deserve better treatment than this;
SHAME ON YOU TROLL`FACE!![i][/i][u][/u] 
I'd do more "emotions" if I knew of some to put on here but that would get deleted too!!
I'd do more "emotions" if I knew of some to put on here but that would get deleted too!!@KrazyKlingon (5005)
• United States
31 May 09
it wasn't just one discussion. It was (Oopsie - I lost count).
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@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
1 Jun 09
OMG…why would anybody want to delete such a harmless discussion! It was no doubt started by a person very close to her and I pitched in too, coz though the deceased was not a friend of mine, I was nevertheless shocked to hear about her and more so about why she is no longer amongst us. If mylot is indeed an extended family, I enjoy seeing each and everybody around (and you are guilty of being MIA for too long Gabs) and this piece of news just knocked me out completely….and now this!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
1 Jun 09
Yes Sud she was very close to Bella and to put Bella's Family, her closest Friends and her Friends through this is disgusting, well I will not let the Person beat it as I said before Discussions can be deleted but the love and strength in our Hearts can not
( Sorry for being away so long ) Hugs
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
1 Jun 09
No I really havent but am sort of fed up witht he discussions being deleted as we know the one got deleted for is wasnt put by mylot first.
abnd am in hopes that someway it gets put back on we are to know pretty soon about that one I hear, HUgs to al the friends of Bella
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@AmbiePam (93895)
• United States
1 Jun 09
I have no idea what grounds anyone would have to delete those discussions. Has anyone e-mailed mylot to demand they actually read what they are deleting? Sometimes it doesn't help, but if several people write in, maybe they will be so annoyed they'll actually start reading before deleting.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
3 Jun 09
I agree with you wholeheartedly, gabs! Many of us here on myLot are a family of sorts, and like any family we hurt when one of us hurts and lend support where it is needed. How can honoring the memory of a friend and fellow-member be construed as a bad thing in any way? This is part of what social networking should be about. To answer your question, yes, we have all came across cruel and heartless people who find a reason to gripe about everything.
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@margerydaw14 (735)
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1 Jun 09
i would just to add my support to your posting gabs.xxx why delete postings of support. I just don't understand
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
2 Jun 09
Thank you margerydaw
I don't understand either but it proves this Person was stalking the other Member it has only been her Discussions that have been deleted on this and it makes me so mad
The Person even went on Facebook stole Bellas Identy and was asking People to be Friends it is so sick xx
@tamarafireheart (15384)
•
31 May 09
Hi gabs,
i agree with you and this person should be flushed out, Bella's friends and those that didn't know Bella are all paying their tribute to her and it is very hurting for this troll to come out and upset everyone, yes our mutural friend's discussion has been deleted for nor reason and I for the life of me why mylot admins are not reading these discussion before its got deleted, I canot understand why this troll is getting away with it. lov e and hugs.
Tamara
xxxx
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
31 May 09
I do not know either why they are but I have proved last year Mylot does not read them first
This is making me so mad now because it is causing more Heartache
But we are stronger Tamara and we will fight it
It is not easy to make me mad but this Person has managed it and I am not exactly nice when I am angry
specially when it comes to something like this
Hugs xxx
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
31 May 09
Hi gabs, I just don't know how someone can be this sick and
twisted! It is one thing to go after one of us who is alive
and well, but to go after someone who has just passed and
upset those of us who are trying to honor her memory is beyond
reprehensible! There is just no words to say about someone who
would do something this low and pathetic! And as you said, we
in this very closely knit circle who are mourning the loss of
our very dear friend will not be stopped! No matter what this
phucking azzhole does it will not keep us from honoring our
dearly departed friend! And to whomever you are, don't you
know that really bad things happen to people like you? You
can go on thinking that doing the things that you are doing
isn't going to come back and bite you in the azz! Someone in
your family or maybe even you might die suddenly! And no one
here would ever shed a tear because you are an evil phucking
loser!
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
1 Jun 09
hi gabs... i haven't heard from you for a long time... so sorry to hear that the trolls thing still happening here and disturbing the innocent and honest members here... i don't really know BellaofChaos that much... but i hope that she is alright and she will come back here again one day... anyway, i also hope that mylot will read the content of the discussions before deleting them just like that... take care and have a nice day...
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@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
1 Jun 09
Over the years, I have met a few sick people. These people with troubled souls lash out any way they can. It is sad that so many wonderful discussions have been removed because of the actions of a troubled soul. It is very upsetting to all of us who are grieving the loss of a good friend. We have a right to grieve together and to comfort each other.
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